General Chat

Hi Gill, still thinking of you, stay cheerful.. no one can take that away from you!! X

To all others who are not able, for whatever reason, to post on here just now... we are all still here and when you come back we will be waiting for you.

I cannot stay on here too long today as my shoulder has been 'giving me gipp' and I don't want to make it as angry as it was last night!! ;-0(

Have a lovely day all of you and chin up, we still have each other.... don't we???
lots of love ,
Deanna XXX

hi all sorry i haven't been on the thread much i have had allot on i went to london with my sister in law to see her mum who was in a hospice she hadn't seen her mum for
28 years she asked me to go with her so i did her mum was married to my hubby's uncle and so i went instead of my hubby because as you know he as been ill

we had a phone call this morning at 3 to say her mum past away

we are going back to london on Tuesday for the funeral

and to stay with her step dad for a week or so to look after him until other arrangements can be made for him

in the week we had another phone call to say my hubby's aunt is in hospital with cancer we will know more next week how she is

i haven't stopped to think how im feeling so i can not say

i do hope everyone is feeling ok

sending all my love and hugs to everyone

carolina xx

Deanna, On gills behalf, thank you for thinking of her. She is lonely because she can't come and talk to her support friends but I think is OK. Hope your shoulder improves soon.

Caroline, so sorry to hear of your sister in law's Mum's death. Hope all goes well with the funeral. and then your husband's aunt, Oh dear you are having it all in your family aren't you. I will be thinking of you.

Mary Lou, Irene, good to see you on here.

Ann
Glos xx

What a weekend.

Dad is comfortable in bed at the hospital. Didn't look too well to me yesterday, but my sister went tonight and said he looked okay. But has a chest infection. The catheter has been taken out and he is passing fluid okay.

Went to a wedding party last night. Then after a late night the neighbours sons were having a row. One put the others head through a window! Girlfriends were screaming and crying. We called the police, three cars turned up! Five police, one son ended up in a cell for a night. Hope it gives him a wake up call.

My nephew got hit by a "friend" this afternoon messing about. Jamie had his jaw broken in two places, so is now in hospital waiting for an op tomorrow to have two plates to repair his jaw.

Hope you all had a better weekend. xxx

goodness me guy's it never rains but pour's for us! but at least we have each other . BIG HUGS to everone Irene

Positive thoughts for everyone, life is a bit hectic for me at the mo, what's new, will explain more later.
Love to you all
Lizxxx

Oh Carole, what a way to end a lovely day.
I hope all the lads get well and learn their lesson.

How is your dad?

Ann, Thanks for letting me know about Gill, I feel for her.
I have never (so far!) been banned, and to be banned for nothing is hard on anyone.
Just tell her that we are all thinking of her please.
And my shoulder id pretty bad at the moment.
I am not coming on here too much as I don't think this is helping me.... but so hard to stay away, isn't it?

I am coming on in short spurts, and then trying something else in between. The having a sit down and chat with Allan. He is a sleep in his chair just now, so I thought I would come and have a quick chat.

Carolina, so sorry to hear your sad news.
It is never the 'right time' for sad news is it?
I had a phone call this morning from my friend To tell me how ill her friend is.
Just a young woman, her oldest child is only 24, and her youngest 22. So sad for them all.
When I think like that.... she must be ages with my daughters, bless her.
Beside that sort of news, my pains are as nothing!!

Look after yourselves all my lovely pals, and we will get through all that we have to.

lots of love Deanna XXX

Hi all

Sorry that I have not been on for ages but the kitchen saga continues .Still have no floor or use of appliances .Wish I had my gran's mangle !!!

Still having son problems.His resits are due next week and I have no idea if he will go .He certainly has done no studying .!!

My problems seem minor to some of yours.So hugs to everyone who needs it

love
Kathy xxxx

hi everyone ive not read through reasent posts yet but do hope that your all well ,as for me i had a bad night last night crying etc ,think all whats going on at moment has caught up with me ,well up date on hubby ,weve been docs every day this week so far ,he is still anemic ,stoke rang our gp ,we waiting for appiontment still for his eating and weight problem ,then had blood tests today ,and to top it all of when he was sent to hospital over a week ago as he had a funny turn while there he had tests and x ray if you rember well now he has fluid on right lung doc rang me tonight we have to go see him in the morning then go to the hospital with a letter so dont no what will happen there ,he still gets breathless when walking so that could be why ,my heads in a spin and all over the place so please forgive me for not getting back to you all at the moment but sending hugs to you all xxxelaine xx

I have had a message from Gill that YCaz has had a fall. Hope you are OK Caz, please can you let us know somehow.

Ann
Glos

Thinking of you both Elaine, what a rotten time you are having

Haven't been on much as I have had a busy couple of days. Dad is still in hospital, has a chest infection. Not much more to tell.

Nephew has had an op to put two plates in his jaw, and sent home next day. The hospital are desparate for beds.

Love and ((((hugs)))) to you all xxx

love and ((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))) to you all
we have got rain again so no washing done today.Hope the sun is shining on you wherever you are and that something makes you smile with genuine pleasure before the day is through.
Paula xxx

spending a lazy day checking e-mails. etc ,if you have'nt read my other thread I was rushed into hospital on monday feel better today ,had a good nights sleep.

well got on my first horse in ten year this week. talk about a laugh. I have to do 100h of riding if I want to do my stablehand course funny but I don't bend the same as I used to(might have someing to do with the extra 20kg LOL), think the legs have got shorter too. (mine not the horses) Have had my own horses but have only been doing ground work with them because of there old age and ailments 34y,28y and the baby of the paddock was 19y but they have all gone to heaven over the last 12 months so I've decided to brave the saddle again at a friends racing stables if nothing else will give them a bl###y good laugh talk about out of the fire into the frying pan! hugs to all love Irene

Sounds good Irene. Enjoy yourself.
I am not able to stay long. one of these days I will have the time to sit ALL DAY ON HERE.... without much pain. Just now though, I'm not able to.
gong to have a visitor now.... my baby is coming.
Look after yourselves, and I will be thinking of you all.
Lots of love,
Deanna XXX

take care Irene and enjoy yourself xx

Irene that sounds great. Hope it will do you the world of good.

Deanna hope you had a good day.xx

Y Caz are you still in pain? xx Hows your hip?

Elaine xxx

Wendy I didn't know you had been in hospital, hope you are okay.xx

Liz how are your friend and cousin? xx

Caz C any news on your visitor from USA ? xx

Jules great news about Livvi. But I know what you mean about all the tears. xx

Kathy you will need some marrigold! Err all those flies. xxx

Gail hope you are okay xx

Joyce thinking of you xx

Sue xx

Paula xx

Betty.............where have you been? Hope you are okay xx

Ann G xxx

Rach ((((xxx))))

I have been very tired this week. And have another day to work yet. Went to see phychologist this morning. She is pleased with my improvement. I feel different now. So hope it keeps on getting better.

Love to you all xxx

love and ((((((((((hugs)))))))))) to YOU Carole xxx

Hi all, very tired, been sorting things out re O.H. licence or trying to anyway. He is having to bus in to work and may get a bike for next week when he is on earlies as no buses at that time.

My friend has had more radiotherapy to try and shrink one of the tumours to make her a little more comfy, she will be leaving the hospice in the next couple of days to go back to her Dad's which is what she wants. Won't be so easy to go and see her but will do what I can. She is so thin, it's heartbreaking to see her, and I hope the pain relief can be kept up as much as possible, it isn't 100% and she often weeps when it comes on badly.

My cousin isn't very happy that I haven't visited after all, but can't be helped. Two years running I have arranged to visit her and the first time she broke her wrist so couldn't cope with visitors, wouldn't let me go and help her, then the second time she broke her ankle so same thing happened. Would be ok if she was happy about me going in autumn but she is adamant she only wants visitors when the light nights are here so she can be taken out! Hey ho!

Off to urologist today after my wee problems this year and have to have blood tests done too so will get them done at hospital while I am there. Then I can go and visit my friend on the way back.
Take care, everyone, I am sorry if I owe some replies to pms etc - just can't get round to them all at the mo.
love and hugs to you all
Lizxxxx