General Chat

A good idea indeed, Ann

The names on here bring sweet memories

Lizxx

This is an old thread that has helped many people along the way. I thought it may be of some use to bring it back to the top again.

Hi yes long time no speak. Still in Norfolk, and doing genealogy. I recently found an ancestor Anne Raymond (c1615-1692) whom some of her ancestors go back to knights and MP's and such, a gateway ancestor, and I have done a lot of research to make sure it is correct. Amazing how many of us will have gateway ancestors, and are able to find them, with evidence to back it all up.

Wow, young Benjamin. How the devil are you?. Still in N. Norfolk?

Hope life is treating you well.

Lizx

Hi, how long since you were on here, those of us who are still around are ok I think but there are not many still on G R. David is still here though and Sharron How are you? Looks like the last time you were on here was 2015 five years ago.

Long time no speak but how is everyone?

For those who are insomniacs or restless sleepers'

On You Tube there are sound effects, for example

waves or thunder or wind or rain. I find listening to the

gentle rain is a big help, without any drugs.

Back in the 80's I first encountered reference to The God Concept.
It caused in me a deep enduring melancholy for no reason I could explain.

That's correct and sometimes we are in whole or in part the

cause of depression in others, effective communication is a dig help.

A coffee and a chat is better than some drugs <3

Of course, when you are depressed, you think you are the cause of all sorts of things.

Well done David

Thank you for your reply Ann. I've learned from my contributing to this

and I hope others have gained an insight into me.

I'm pleased that despite my injuries I never
went back to drinking alcohol,
I quit smoking cigarettes and I never went back to Valium, no need.

As someone's Avatar says, I love my computer, all my friends are in it <3

David I think most of those who posted originally are no longer on GR. hopefully the thread served it’s purpose for quite a while letting people suffering know they were not alone.
Your accidents were terrible and left you with awful problems. I hope you, in the past, gained something from this thread.

I'm sure it's not that David, just that some who posted here seem to have left, or post very infrequently. :-)

Thank you Rose, I thought I'd had an adverse effect on the readers <3

David, I think perhaps the "Dark night of the soul" for Catholics is a sense of seperation from God, a spiritual crisis. For most of us it's probably meant as a black period generally triggered by an event, eg a death or other tragedy.

Whereas anxiety and depression can be a constant feeling with no 'apparent' cause? Depression can be like a black cloud that just descends, often at random times when there is 'nothing wrong' otherwise. It follows you everywhere and shuts out every bit of light.

22/9/19 Still looking in on thread. It seems to have gone quiet or dare I say silent.
I hope you're OK.
I'm a lucky fellow, I was hit by a car 1994 landing in the middle of a roundabout
sustaining four pelvic fractures. Had to learn to walk. In 2013 the fool in me
jumped over my own garden wall, crippling myself. I'm lucky I didn't break my
neck. During a long stay in Hospital I was unfortunate to get a Healthcare
Acquired Infection weeks on a drip. I'm lucky some unfortunates die of it.
I truly
hope my going on about it hasn't been the cause of the thread's quietude

Hello, good morning to you all. :-D <3 <3

What is the differance between Depression / Anxiety and what is refered to

by many Catholics as The Dark Night of The Soul ?

The Pharmaceutical industries influence what your GP prescribes.

Their reps make time with your GP to promote their wonder drug.

17/2/1945 Corvette Bluebelle K80 torpedoed


Name Age Rank Served on
Allen, Donald, RN 23 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Atkinson, Ralph, RN 20 Stoker 1st Class HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Baillie, Samuel McLonan, RN 20 Telegraphist HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Baxter, Reginald Louis, RN 18 Stoker 1st Class HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Bellingham, Thomas James, RN 23 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Brooks, Jack, RN 18 Ordinary Telegraphist HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Brown, George, RN 20 Stoker 1st Class HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Burgess, Herbert, RN 35 Coder HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Butcher, William Henry, RN 21 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Carpenter, George James, RN 22 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Cheal, Leslie Horace, RN 20 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Chopping, Herbert Harvey, RN 19 Ordinary Signalman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Cooke, Arthur Thomas, RN 25 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Coombes, Charles, RN 20 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Cooper, John Arthur Llewellyn, RN 22 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Cox, Edward Bradford, RN 34 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Crouch, Horace George, RFR 36 Petty Officer HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Cunliffe, John, RN 20 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Davies, Hubert Henry, RN 38 Petty Officer Stoker HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Day, Eric Claude, RN Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Edwards, Ivan William Raymond, RN 23 Leading Stoker HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Edwards, William Keeys, RN Chief Mechanician HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Elling, Paul Harold, RN 20 Telegraphist HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Erikson, Charles Erik, RN Leading Stores Assistant HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Fahy, Anthony Michael, RNVR 19 Passenger (Sub-Lieutenant) HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Ferrier, Robert Reekie, RN Engine Room Artificer 4th Class HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Fiander, William Thomas, RN 20 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Foster, Ernest William George, RN 19 Stoker 1st Class HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Gardner, Ronald Francis Allen, RN 21 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Gaul, Sydney George, RN 44 Petty Officer Air Fitter HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Gentle, Robert William, RN 18 Ordinary Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Goodwill, William Ernest, RN 28 Leading Stoker HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Graham, William, RN Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Greenslade, Clifford John, RN 20 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Guest, Albert, RN 22 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Hatchman, Horace George, RN 19 Stoker 1st Class HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Herrington, Harry Leslie, RN 19 Telegraphist HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Hill, Douglas Russell, RNR Sub-Lieutenant HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Hill, John, RN Signalman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Holmes, Albert E.G., RN Petty Officer HMS Bluebell (K 80)
Howey, Thomas, RN 23 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Jones, Sidney Vernon, RN 19 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Kendall, Douglas Phillip, RN 18 Steward HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Kilgour-Miller, John William, RN 24 Petty Officer Stoker HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Kilvert, Robert Walter, RN Signalman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Lacey, John Harold, RNVR Leading Telegraphist HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Lambert, John, RN 20 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Lawrence, Jack Edward, RN 20 Ordinary Telegraphist HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Lee, Arthur, RN Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Lee, Dennis Sydney, RN 19 Stoker 1st Class HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Lightowler, Geoffrey, RN 25 Leading Steward HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Loakes, Sidney, RN 38 Stoker 1st Class HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Mackie, Ian, RNVR 21 Sub-Lieutenant HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Marchant, John Ernest, RN 23 Coder HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Marshall, Edward, RN 19 Stoker 1st Class HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Martin, Jack Hugh, RN 22 Leading Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Masson, Joseph Simmers Bain, RN Stoker 1st Class HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
McBride, John Percy, RN Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
McGhee, William, RN 21 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
McGrath, David Donald, RN Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
McNish, Christopher, RN 21 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
McPhee, Howard, RN 21 Stoker 1st Class HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Mears, Alan Arthur, RN Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Mitchell, Bertram Edgar James, RN 20 Leading Radio Mechanic HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Morgan, William, RN 18 Stoker 2nd Class HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Morris, John Alfred, RN 22 Sick Berth Attendant HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Nunn, Walter Frederick, RN 33 Petty Officer Stoker HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Owen, William, RN Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Perkins, Maurice Samuel, RN 18 Ordinary Signalman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Phillips, Dennis Arthur James, RN Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Potter, Raymond Ernest William, RN Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Reade, George Frederick, RN Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Saunders, Frank, RN 19 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Scott, Leonard Goldie, RN 24 Coder HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Shaw, Kenneth, RN 20 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Sherburn, Robert, RN Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Shute, David Thomas, RN Leading Stoker HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Stares, Meschack Euan, RN Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Stockwell, William Stephen, RN 25 Petty Officer HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Swan, James, RN Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Thompson, Robert Leslie, RN 19 Stoker 1st Class HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Thwaites, Henry Arthur, RN Leading Cook (O) HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Townsend, Eric William, RN 23 Leading Signalman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Twiss, William Willmot, RANVR 29 Lieutenant HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Unwin, Colin, RN 24 Leading Cook (S) HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Usher, Denis Arthur Ernest, RN 23 Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Walker, Geoffrey Herbert, RNVR 30 Lieutenant HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Walton, Alec, RNVR 26 Lieutenant HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
West, Harry Fred William, RN Able Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Whitby, Norman, RN 21 Leading Seaman HMS Bluebell (K 80) +
Whittington, James Alfred, RN 21 Stoker 1st Class HMS Bluebell (K 80) +