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My mum has cancer and it is unfortunately terminal, we dont know how long she has, but she has kept herself cheerful despite being in severe pain, she is also nauseous all the time, this means her morphine isnt getting into her system.
On Friday she was lucky enough to be given a bed for 2 weeks in a local hospice, whilst they try to control her pain and nauseousness.
I know it will be a bit hit and miss whilst they try different drugs, but I hate to see her suffering, she is the kindest lady I know, not just because she is my mum, but I dont know anyone else who is as popular, she gets over 70 birthday cards from friends

I know she will not get better and is going to die very soon, but plese pray for her to be pain free in the short time she has left.

Ann

Dear Ann
My thoughts are with you and your mum, god bless,
sue x

ann
So sorry to hear the news about your Mum. Morphine does make a lot of people nauseous but they should be able to give her something to control that as well.

I will be praying for her and thinking lots of positive thoughts that the pain is controlled for her and she can enjoy the final days of her life.

Also (((((hugs))))) for you.

Ann
Glos

Bless you both Ann, my thoughts are with you both x

HI Ann
I sympathize with you as I am going through the same thing with my brother.
I will say a prayer for your Mum and hope her time left can be as pain free as possible
God Bless
Regards
Jackie

Thank you all so much for your kind words , lets hope our prayers are answered.

Mum is so mentally strong about her illess, she says " If the Good Lord thinks it is my time, then i am happy to pass over"

I wish I was as strong as her

Ann

Hope she is feeling a lot more comfortable soon Ann.Special wishes coming your way Annie xx

Ann love, don't know what to say to you but I am sending you special thought and prayers, keep strong and hope her time left is pain free.

Barbara xx

Hoping your mom gets pain relief - and you can be strong. God bless you both and all your family - you will be in my prayers
Love Mary xx

Ann. Hope they manage to get your mums pain relief controlled.

Keeping you both in my prayers and thoughts

Love Vods xx

Hope you can stay strong for your Mum and I hope her pain relief gets sorted out soon .Please remember that you need to look after yourself aswell . Thoughts and prayers for you ,your Mum and your family

prayers and positive thoughts to your mom and you Ann, hope her pain relief is sorted fast ............

Prayers for you and your family - God bless.

My love and prayers to you and your family,Ann
I felt a strength in your mothers words of her deep faith, I would like to share this poem with you,I feel it would be the sort of thing she would say....

If I should go..
Anon

If I should go tomorrow
it would never be goodbye,
for I have left my heart with you,
so don't you ever cry,
the love that's deep within me,
shall reach you from the stars,
you will feel it in the heavens,
and it will heal the scars...



Jean x

Thinking of you and your family.

My very best wishes

Sue

Ann..........dont know what to say but my thoughts are with you and your family! I'm hoping that your mum will soon be comfortable and pain free!

Jean.........beautiful words! Thank you for sharing them with us

Bev x

Thinking of you Ann and your family and your Mum i know how you must be feeling as went through the same with my mum,hope they give her something to relief from the pain,Jean what loverly words
Dutchxx

Thinking of you.
Brian(i)

Dear Ann, I am so sorry.

Let me just add that hospices are wonderful places, in my experience, and the people there will do the very best for your Mum as long as she is with us xxxx

Mum has had a very bad day today, and they have put her on a morphine drip, which is slow release, but takes some time to get into her system properly.
My husband went to see her this afternoon whilst I was at work and he came home very distressed. I rang the hospice at teatime, and spoke to mum,she said she was too weary and tired to see me, as she just wanted to sleep. So i havent seen her tonight.

Jean thank you for your poem it is beautiful, and I can hear mum saying the words.

Mum is only 77 years old, but cancer has no respect for age, At least she made 77 so many sufferers dont

Good night to you all, thank you for your kind words and prayers

God bless
Ann