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Lancashire Witch

Lancashire Witch Report 23 Jan 2009 09:24

Thanks, everyone. As I have told some of you in PMs, when my Dad was passing, I went home for a shower and change of clothes - he went whilst I was away. I still cannot forgive myself for that. I don't want the same happening with my Mum.

Tomorrow 24th Jan. will be 4 years since my Dad passed on - I am wondering ...........

My sons wish me to pass on their thanks for all the support you are giving me - they didn't think 'strangers' could be so caring!! I told them a stranger is just a friend you have not yet met!!

Love to you all
Hazel x

Mrs. Blue Eyes

Mrs. Blue Eyes Report 23 Jan 2009 09:29

Please hun don't feel guilty about being away when your dad died, my sister works on a ward for geriatrics and she says time & time again it seems that her patients wait for their loved ones to leave before letting go, it's almost like they want to spare them the pain.

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. xx

DAVE B

DAVE B Report 23 Jan 2009 09:59

Aw all my love from Walkden to you.
Dxxxxxxxxx

MaryinSpain

MaryinSpain Report 23 Jan 2009 11:50

Hazel - just to let you know I am still thinking of you and your mom. Take care of yourself
In my thoughts and prayers
Love Mary xx

Researching:
Dunne, Miller, Evetts. Stringer. Green. Lewis

~`*`Jude`*`~

~`*`Jude`*`~ Report 23 Jan 2009 12:01

Good morning Hazel.........positive thoughts for you and your mum.Take care.

jude xx

Researching:
Ukraine...

Treehunter

Treehunter Report 23 Jan 2009 12:25

Hi Hazel,

I know what you are feeling about your dad, i had to come home from MK to Heathrow when my dad was dieing, within few hours of me getting back he died, I knew i should have stayed but was made to come back home.
So yes you shouldnt feel guilty but we do. I was so glad i could be with mum when she went. As being i was living in MK

But still thinking of you and your family.

Take Care

Hazel

(((((((((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))))))

Researching:
Farran, Gurr, Hills, Parker, Priddy, Davies, Pearce, Dixon, White, Dolley, Suckling, Hyde, Hammond, Wootten, Undershell,Tremewen and many more

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond Report 23 Jan 2009 14:36

Hazel, 19 years today since I lost my Dad, I visited him around this time in the hospice but he didn't really know anyone was there I don't think. I went home to pick up my son from school and Mum phoned me around 4 to say she wouldn't want a lift home as a nurse would take her when she left off, Mum told me the nurses were just turning Dad - he had lung cancer and was out of it on morphine. Ten minutes later the nurse rang me back to say my Dad had died, we think the nurses turned him to help him pass as he was drowning in fluid in his lungs. My Mum wasn't with him at the time he died and neither was I but it was a peaceful passing and if he had known anything he would have known we were with him not long before.
Please don't feel guilty if things happen and you are not there, your Mum wouldn't want you to make yourself ill and nor would your family. Try taking some Rescue Remedy before you go in to see her and you will stay calmer, and be able to talk to her and hold her hand and say all you want to say. Maybe your Dad is waiting to take her to be with him soon.
Will be thinking about you,
love
Lizxxx

AnninGlos

AnninGlos Report 23 Jan 2009 14:39

((((((hugs))))))

xx Ann
Glos

Researching:
Photo spring Researching Somerset, Dorset, Hampshire, Derbyshire, Staffs, Devon, Glamorganshire. Ingram, Masters, Tamblyn, Knight, Warner, Bate, Allen, Riggs, Dominey, Duffin

Linda

Linda Report 24 Jan 2009 01:46

Hi Hazel,
Just want to say that I am thinking of you and your mum and am sending hugs to you. Please dont feel guilty if your not there at the end, I believe that they never pass over on their own, one of their loved ones always comes to take over, hope this helps.
lynn

Researching:
Wells Ealing and E/W Ilsley Webbs H/Wycombe Lambourns E/Ilsley Deacons E/Ilsley Cannings Derry

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond Report 26 Jan 2009 04:30

Been thinking about you Hazel, and will catch up with you later.

Lizxxx

MaryinSpain

MaryinSpain Report 26 Jan 2009 09:47

((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))) for you and your mom
Love Mary xx

Researching:
Dunne, Miller, Evetts. Stringer. Green. Lewis

Lancashire Witch

Lancashire Witch Report 26 Jan 2009 16:20

My poor Darling is hanging in there by a hair's breadth. Apparently she had a mini-stroke last night. She looked lost in the bed today, hardly realise anyone there but for her head.

She doesn't seem to be seeing. I just want relief for her.

Hazel x

Gwyn in Kent

Gwyn in Kent Report 26 Jan 2009 16:26

It's so very hard.....
One feels so helpless.

Take care of yourself.... You're going to need your inner strength in the days ahead.

Gwyn

Mrs. Blue Eyes

Mrs. Blue Eyes Report 26 Jan 2009 16:39

Aw sweetie ((((((((((((((((((((( hugs ))))))))))))))))))))))

dutch

dutch Report 26 Jan 2009 16:50

Hazel have pm you
xx

Mauatthecoast

Mauatthecoast Report 26 Jan 2009 16:50

I'm feeling for you Hazel,stay strong
Mau (XXX)

Researching:
In my own little world where everybody knows me... ..... best thing about happy memories is making them....

Elizabeth A

Elizabeth A Report 27 Jan 2009 01:28

Hazel
You and your mum are still in my thoughts.
Take care of yourself.

Love
Liz

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond Report 27 Jan 2009 04:18

Hello Hazel, been thinking about you and hope your Mum doesn't suffer any longer, why not just whisper to her to go to sleep, she might feel easier knowing she doesn't have to keep fighting....

I feel for you seeing her like that, it must be so hard and make you feel so sad.

Take care,
Lizxxxx

JustJean

JustJean Report 27 Jan 2009 06:08

Hazel, you are always in my prayers, I was going to say what Liz has said, I have heard of many folk doing that, your lovely mum needs to rest now. bless you both....

Love Jean x

MaryinSpain

MaryinSpain Report 27 Jan 2009 08:58

Hazel - I do so feel for you and your mom - please take care of yourself. You are both in my prayers
Love Mary xx

Researching:
Dunne, Miller, Evetts. Stringer. Green. Lewis

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