General Chat

Hello Hazel
l am so sorry to hear your mum has had a relapse.
l hope she is at peace soon, its not fair on you or her now.
Take care.

((((HUGS)))) to you both

Take care
jude xxxx

Hazel so sorry to hear your Mum is not very well again, do hope she can soon have the rest and peace she so obviously deserves. Also take care of yourself and thanks for PM yesterday.

With best thoughts for you all.

Frances xx

Hello Hazel
I do hope your Mum is out of her Misery soon. It must be so hard for you.
The hanging on and waiting in the worst part.
Maybe she is waiting for permission to go. I know when my mother was dying we said to her "Its OK Mum you can go we will be OK." She was in a coma at that stage
Within a few Minutes of us saying that she passed away. Maybe it is coincidence but my sister and I really believed she was waiting for permission.
Anyway you take care of yourself and I hope that your Mother soon has some peace.
Take Care
Love
Jackie

Hazel we are all thinking about you and hoping for a peaceful end for your Mum soon.
Its one of the hardest things to go through.
Look after yourself

Patx

Thinking of you , and praying for a gentle passing for your mum.


Jean x

Thinking of you

julia xx

Oh Hazel, how very sad for you all:((

All I can offer is a huge ((((((hug)))))) and to let you know I understand.

xx

PM'd you Hazel.

Thanks to you all yet again for your kind threads and all who have PMd as well.

In appreciation
Hazel x

l'll keep you and your beloved Mum in my prayers tonight, and tomorrow, and the next tomorrows.

Hazel
Still thinking of you and your family.
Will pm you again tomorrow

Liz

I have just read the last few pages Hazel and wish you and your lovely Mum peace,I send you arms around you and love as you go through an experience none of us want but all of us will suffer,


With love

Caz xxxxx

I am thinking of you too.

Love
Sue
x

My friend at work has a 92 yr old MIL with dementia. My friend loves her so much. MIL fell on Christmas eve and was taken to hospital where after a few days was given a laxative, as she hadn't been . MIL would forget why she had pressed for a nurse even if she remembered why she had a button to press. Trying to get to the loo she fell and broke a bone in her leg and her spine. No sides were in use on her bed this day. Hospital policy to not use, as people are getting stuck in them. MIL is asking why her parents have not been to see her. If she has a job, and does she have a boyfriend? Latest she lifted her nightie to show her babies! Sister sugested the family give her a teddy or other soft toy. I know from listening to my friend how upsetting all this is for everyone.
Hazel, words can not say how I feel for you xxx

Hello Hazel,

Thinking of you, hoping it's not too much longer for you both.We had the same thing with my Dad,the caring staff at the nursing home had him in bed,with his favourite music playing softly.

It is so hard waiting,but at least when she does go,she will be in a better place,and no more pain.She will be free to be with her Mum.

My thoughts are with you,Hazel.

Love from Margot xx

hi LW
sorry to hear this about your mam
im sending you hugs, cos you must need it ,
its hard watching this suffereing,

your poor mam i hope her mam answers her calls and visits her in her dreams to reasure her,
i nursed elderly ladys like this in a nursing home and they too called their mum,
one in particular, she had beautiful painting by her bed, some staff told me it was of her when she was young,
shed scratched at it with her nails, but would call out mam, i would drive home at night in tears for her,

i send you love
and to your mam too
julie

Been thinking about you both, Hazel, and hope your Mum is comfortable and peaceful now and you are coming to terms with the way things are going.
Lizxx

Hi Hazel, looking in to see how your mum is.

Thinking of you and your mum.

Send big(((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))for you both

Hazel

Hope your mum has a peaceful passing.

Thinking of you both, and sending positive thoughts and gentle {{{hugs}}}


xx