General Chat

Thanks for the sympathy Kathy.... no one bothered.... boo hoo hoo ;-0(

Liz, Allan asked the other day if a wooden book rest would help... he would make me one, but it would be much easier for him if I could buy one... if you remember let me know.

I don't have the time to speak today, but I will be back later.
I'm off to watch Jimmy Stewart with Allan... Vertigo.
Must have seen it a dozen times, but I do like my afternoons with Allan in front of the tele.
Don't tell me to get a life please.... I love my life... but shhhhsh... don't let the gods hear us....

look after yourselves and I will speak later.

love, Deanna XXX

Oh Rach, I am so sorry, I just saw your message about your auntie.
Condolences love, and chin up.
Deanna XX

Deanna, I think it might have been from Tchibo, so will look on their site later.

I am feeling so sad about my friend, I spoke to her sister in law today, who is over from Oz, helping to care for her, and then had an email from her too, explaining the problems. Liztoo sounds in such pain and has been through so much, it sounds as tho it won't be long now, and I feel so bad she didn't contact her old mates and ask for support. If we had known we would have done anything we could to have helped her through. She does have a supportive father, and brother and s.i.l. here as well as her bro in Oz, who came over with his wife for three months, and left s.i.l. here, who will stay to the end for her.

Lizx

Hello all, just going to read your recent posts,

I need some sanctuary in here,

Love to you all,


Caz xxxx

I'm back everyone and I hope you are all well.
Elaine, men are all like that... they like to do their own worrying. They never like to tell anyone that they are feeling bad.
Even if you see it, they will say.. "I'm fine".
You just have to be there love... that's all. Hard though isn't it?X


Carole I hope you are okay for tomorrow, stop worrying love.... look after CAROLE first. X

Has anyone seen Angela? I think of her often too.
Caz, I hope you are feeling a little better today.. it takes time I know. X

Love to you all, Joyce P where are you? And all you other lovely peeps..
Deanna XXX

Caz Y thinking of you and your family tonight. Such an awful shock for everyone. I hope it makes your kids think about how they have treated you and see life is too short .xxx

Caz C come on in, sit down with us. How have things been at home today? xx

Deanna I'll try to be brave tomorrow! xx

Rach so sorry to hear about your great aunt. xx

Liz hope you had a good weekend even if oh was at home! xx

Love to you all I'm going to try get some sleep xxx

Hi to everyone. I am back. Have only just arrived home and could not get net connection where we were.

Baby boy born on 6/7/08 7 lbs. Sorry for not contacting earlier, grandson was 2 weeks over due in the end. Nearly lost daughter and grandson as very difficult birth. grandson is well now and healthy and daughter is on the slow mend. We are blessed to have them both.

Will get back when less tired.

Love to all

Gail

Hi Gail, congratulations to everyone, I'm so glad it turned out ok in the end. We have missed you on here.
I haven't been posting as I have been through a very bad time last couple of weeks, but I had to come and say how pleased I am for you.

Rach I am so sorry to hear of your gr aunt, I am sharing your sorrow this weekend.

I've not been ignoring everyone on purpose, I have just found it so hard to post anything, and you know about last week. I have been reading and keeping up with you all though.
I will post more when I feel up to it.

Love and hugs to you all.

Caz xx

Hi all! Thanks Deanna for thinking of me when you have your own probs. I have been reading but did not feel like posting. Have been without a car for 2 weeks & where I am the buses are few & far between. I went a whole week without being able to go shopping, needless to say the cupboards got a bit bare! Lol!
I managed to do the Race(crawl) for Life yesterday but am exausted today. I know that I shouldn't have done it but felt I needed to. Not only did I loose Eddie to Cancer but also my lovely Dad, Nana, Aunt, Cousin & a good friend.

Generally speaking I am not doing too bad, sleeping a lot tho.
Hugs & healing thoughts go to all of you that need them.
Angela x

Gail (Gran of Oz) so nice to have you back you were missed loads.xx

Caz I don't know what to say. There is nothing is there? Just know I am keeping you and your family close in thought. Bless you all xxx

Angela I didn't realise you hadn't got your car sorted out. You must have felt very isolated without it. Well done on doing the walk, it must have got some thoughts going ! xx

Vicky nice to see you back here with us! Hows it all going? xx

Kathy haven't seen you much are you sorted yet? xx

Joyce if you look in miss your lovely posts hope you are okay x

Jules you naughty girl X lol

Liz how are you?xx

Eileen hope you and your family are keeping okay xx

Sue sending you love xx

Deanna how are you ? xx

Son just in from work so will go see him!
Love to all I didn't mention xx

Hi all, first off, Angela, well done on completing the walk and hope you aren't feeling too bad now.

Gail, so pleased little one is here and sorry there was such worry for you all at the time, hope your daughter is soon feeling lots better and able to enjoy her little one. You must have been so worried but hope you can relax a bit now.

It never rains but what it pours here!
My cousin in Buckingham who I am supposed to be visiting, had to go to hospital to have a procedure done on her pacemaker and a further stent put in or something, all went well, she expected to be in hospital a couple of days from last Tuesday.
I didn't hear from her and finally got her today, to hear she came up from the op ok, ate her sandwich meal etc and then didn't remember a thing for nearly a day! She had a stroke, a bleed on the brain, but apparently it is healed now. Her son spent the whole night at her bedside and she had to stay in hospital until Saturday. She is now home but her son stayed over last night and may stay over again. She has to take a high dosage of aspirin instead of warfarin which she was on already, for a couple of weeks, then take a combination of both I think she said.
Then she is worrying me about what date I will visit. I really don't want to go at the mo, as I think I have another kidney stone, have been sore all weekend, since Friday, and trying to flush it through, but that means I am in and out of bed to use the loo, so more tired than usual. I had a doctor's apptmt today anyway so told her and she has arranged an apptmt at the nephrology dept at our hospital for 11th August. She asked where I would like to go for the apptmt, anywhere in the world lol but they won't pay the fare! What a shame! It means tho that I don't want to travel far from home till I know the problem is sorted, last time I was in agony and went in as an emergency, because the pain was so bad, so would hate to end up in hospital miles from home.
Must remember to keep drinking lots tho and hope it goes away. Should have left her a wee sample so took the bottle into the loo, and managed to miss completely, they never give you anything to use and my aim was hopeless lol
Said I would try later while I was near the surgery, and drop it back, and then went off and forgot all about it lol, so have to do one here and take in another day. Also have to have more blood tests so will have those on the 11th while at the hospital, easiest way to do it as they want me in to the surgery before 12 midday and I told them I don't do mornings lol!

Not an easy week as o.h. on earlies so here every afternoon and for dinner :>((
Love and hugs to all
Lizxxxx

Liz what a worry for you. You have to look after you though. Tell your cousin straight you can't go at the moment. My friend had kidney stones and was in awful pain usually at night he would be up drinking or just quietly watching tv, so as not to disturb his wife. In the end he had to have an ambulance out as he couldn't cope with the pain. It was during the strike a few years ago, and they had to come out as he was on morphine. Don't let yours get that bad.
You reminded me I need to take repeat request in today so I don't run out again!!

Any one heard from Irene?

I had a bit of a tidy up in my contacts but it deleted messages too! So when I realised what happened ( I read the message that says that will happen) I stopped but had lost lots of names. Then when I wanted to send pm's I couldn't. I'll have to go back through thread to find people!

Well no work today. But must do some work round the house.

Love to everyone xx

Note from Elaine

hi carole it was lovley to hear from you well i dont get much time to post on thread latley but promise i will catch up with everyone quite soon hope everyone is well on there give them all my regards for me well hubby getting there slowly verey slowly got more blood tests today to cheak hie inr warafrin levals he on a lot of tablets and hasto have more bloods on friday as liver one showed up something and have to see doc after well i feel like a chemist with all these pills i have to make sure he has ,he still verey tired and sleeps most of time .as for me i forgot to get my meds from docs and carnt get them till latter today at the min im not to bad just a bit anx shaky and dry mouthed but nothink compared to what hubby been through please give everyone my love and ill catch them all soon hugs elaine xx

Wish them both well xxx

Angela glad to see you about and obviously feeling a little better. x

Go on Carole, tell me how brave you were and that you *sorted out * that little problem you had.
If it didn't work.... auntie will be out to sort it for you... ha ha ha... the logistics of getting me there would be too unmanageable....;-0)
Hope you are feeling better about it all though. x

Gail congratulations on your new baby, and I hope your girl is feeling more herself again. Tough for you too when your own 'baby' is in trouble... but I'm sure she now thinks it was all worth it. x

I know what you mean Caz, sometimes this is the only place to be, isn't it?
You feeling better today too?x

I was not here at all yesterday , as my boy took me out.
We went looking for a birthday present for his partner... her mobile is not working so we were looking at them.
I bought some little baby clothes and then went to see our beautiful new baby.
You can't leave them alone for 5 minutes at that age...when you back, they have grown so much.
I sat with him all cuddled up in my warm comfy *fat*... and he slept so well.... his real granny is very well endowed too, so all in all he is a very lucky little boy.. of course his daddy's mum is a nice slim lady.... I suppose he will be *QUITE COMFY* with her .... ha ha ha .
He is such a little darling... tell me if you get bored with me and I will TRY to stop talking about him!

Having Allan's sister and her hubby over later so I really should go an sit with him.
I'm a bit ... sore all over today. I don't know why, but I am learning to live with my 'ups and downs'.

Look after yourselves everyone, and I will see you all tomorrow.
love Deanna XXX

Thank you Carole for the message from Elaine.
Tell her I am also thinking of her, and hope all gets better soon.
Deanna XX

evening all thank you carloe for passing on my message to everyone ,well ive just had time to pop on here before i go bed as my eyes are drooping am so tired ,hi deanna hows things with you all hope you and yours are ok ,i will catch up with you all soon when i get more time hugs to all those that need one ,and thank you all for your thoughts for my hubby xxx elaine xxxnight everyone xxx

Went to see Mamma Mia last night. It was so funny. Go it will give you a lift !!

Working local today so not too worked up this morning.

Have a good day all of you xx

Hi everyone

Not been able to post for a while as I have been busy trying to sort out the burst pipe problem.

Good news is the insurance will pay for it .The bad news is my kitchen floor was lifted this morning to allow them to bring in machines to dry out the floor .

They wanted me to move out but I explained that I don't do going away from home so they let me stay but warned if I fall down the hole it is my own problem .They have agreed to pay me £5 per day per person for food .That just about covers a fish supper.

Son is terrified we will be inundated with spiders and other creepy things so I asked the joiner to get rid of any he saw .His reply was that if he saw any he would be out the door first !!!!

Well better go get on with tidying up

love
Kathy xxx

Hi everyone,
I was away for a long weekend and when I came on last night was too tired to write a reply so just read.
Kathy, hope everything is soon completed for you.
Carole, wasn't Mama Mia great? Everyone who want a laugh should go and see it, so funny. And (without giving anything away) if you go, don't leave before the credits like a lot of people did when i went, stupid people, it doesn't finish until the credits roll.

Gail, I did add my congratulations to another thread but will say it again here. congratulations and I hope your Daughter's and baby's health will continue to improve. good to see you on here again.

To everyone else, Deanna, Gill, YCaz, MaxiMary, Elaine, Jeannie, Angela, Liz and all the others I have missed, hope your day is good and that you feel well enough/have time to come on here today and chat. Elaine, hope OH is progressing OK.

Ann
Glos

Hi all, got woken by bin men, then heard the window cleaner so had to get up and move car, open back gate and move plants away from patio door - if he had broken the flowering lilies o.h. would have been cross - and find some money to pay him!
Might get back to bed for a snooze in a bit, if I don't I will collapse in a heap in a little while! Why can't the flaming w-cleaner come the week o.h. is here in the mornings?!
Kathy, hope the spiders and stuff stay out of the way, sounds like you are surrounded by strong men, Not! lol Glad the Insurance will sort out the problems and hope it won't take too long to get finished. Will call you when o.h. is at work Saturday or next week.
love to all, and hope today brings a little joy for everyone.
Lizxx