General Chat

Well done you for biting your tongue for MiL's sake and for doing so much, and well done your o.h. for coughing up lol So nice of your future sil to help out too.
I think you deserve some flowers too, have a cyber bunch, best I can do right now hon.

I am sure you will all enjoy doing your Dad's party.
Great achievement for both of them to reach 80.
Good luck with the arrangements,
Lizxxx

I have ordered myself to go to bed, it's 1230am right now. I need more sleep than I admit to myself!!

I have conquered the papers, believe it or not, all that's left now is a pile to file and a pile for income tax and a couple of things to be dealt with next week. There are NO unopened envelopes. I hope I can maintain this feeling of relief, by not slipping backwards.
Although I have (and use) a SADD light in the winter, this year it has just not been enough. Of course there have been a few new things to rattle me, but now I am heading upwards again, hopefully for the summer months, till the days draw in again.
Those who read my early posts on this thread, know that piles and piles of papers and unopened envelopes are my 'Achilles heel ' when my mood is at bottom. I hope I have found a system for helping me maintain control in the months to come. Absolutely the high dosing of Vitamin B6 and B12 has had a beneficial effect also.
I've finished my Horlicks so it's "good night,sleep tight" from me.
Mary

hello Elaine

It sounds to me like an unstable account from the 'victim', a solicitor will rip the statement to pieces if it gets to court.

I think the CPS might throw the case out before it gets to court.

Think positive, I will channel all my positive thoughts for you and your daughter.

((((((((gentle hugs))))))))) for you.

Gill

Ellan come in and sit down. Do you want leaving alone or do you want to spill to beans?

Kerry how much did you pay!!! Good Mum you arexx

Liz whats up? xx

Gail bl*** well tell sil! Why should you hold in your anoyance. No need to be nasty but I'd just bring it up when you are alone with her that it hadn't gone unnoticed! xx How far away is your town to go shopping? If you can't get rescue remedy in town try on line xx

OMG Elaine whats happening now? xx

Mary what a job!! Well done xx Big hug for you ((((xx)))) Do you feel that you have achived your goal or a bit worried you may have chucked away something you will want again? Good girl xx

Eileen has now gone missing xx

Must get ready for work pack up to do and need to dry my hair xxx Have a good day all

morning everone as you can magine didnt get much sleep last night managed about 4 hours phone been ringing all morning (daughter goto surender to police bail in 4 weeks time )she was photographed mouth swabbed and fingerprinted when they find out victim is lying they should charge her with somthing surley daughter well you can imagine how she is and feels i just feel like going and looking for this so called victim but i no if i do what will happen so im putting my trust in the police hugs to everyone xxx elaine xxx

hi everyone will catch up later have been off net with virus ( computer not me ) have no virus protection at moment so not staying just wanted to let eveyone know Iam safe love to all big hug's to everyone that needs one!

Thanks Ann, will look at that....

Allan is sitting now almost ready to go, although he has an hour before Tony comes for him.
He is a very punctual man my husband, his son is not that punctual really but he will be today.

I will be back to chat to all you peeps on here who need a shoulder to cry on, or just to chat to... later.

Must sit with my man just now.
Have a nice day everyone..
Deanna XX

hi everyone
well the decorating I started didn't do me much good, had to give upbefore I intended 'cos I felt sick and dizzy and my tum hurt. I guess I really am going to have to say 'no' to thinking I am still 21. Hubby is being very good about it, he says take as long as I need to finish it!!
I'm sorry some of you have some bad troubles at the moment hope they resolve quickly.
Off soon for a sit down, been to town with mum-hard work.
Love to all for now
Janet

Janet, I learned that lesson a good few years back.

It becomes upsetting sometomes, but there we are... we have to know our limitations.

Allan has gone off to the hospital, and I am left alone in the house.
I thought that I might be better on here.... but no, I'm off to sit and worry in the usual way!!
In the living room with the clock facing me!!

See you all later...

Deanna XX

Afternoon everyone

Ann in Glos - I hope you have a lovely holiday.

Elaine - still sending positive thoughts

Deanna - hope all went well with your hubby.

Hope everyone is having a good day

((((((((((hugs for all))))))))))))

Gill

Hi all, Deanna, thinking about you and hope all is well.

Mary, didn't you do well, good for you hon.

Elaine, hope this sorts itself out very soon.

Janet, you take care, rest till you feel better.

Ellan, hope you are sorted out now.

Carole, am ok thanks, just got to bite the bullet and sort things out. I will pull out of this feeling soon I am sure.

To everyone else, sorry can't respond to all, brain can't cope lol
love and hugs
Lizxxx

Hi all - I am off out to mow the lawn again while it's dry!!! - extremely windy though here in Cardiff but very sunny

Well folks, I just had a phone call from the hospital asking my son to pick his dad up.

And the procedure did not work this time.
My Poor Allan, is going to be so upset.

He was talking about what he is going to do in the garden TOMORROW.... bless him.
They are trying to rush him an appointment with the cardiologist to discuss some other plans.

Oh he is going to be so upset....

see you all later.
Deanna XX

Oh Deanna

((((((((((gentle hugs)))))))))))

for you and your allan

Gill

Deanna
Just popped in for a minute and seen your news, I am sorry for your hubby and for you, it must be so stressful for you both. Let's hope it comes right soon
Best wishes
Janetx

Deanna...there is not a lot I can say, said it earlier..
You will still have to have that kettle boiled ready now because Allan will certainly need a few cuppa's or something even stronger when he walks in, bless him.
Give him my love please.. and you take care yourself, okay
Love..Joyce xxxxx

Thank you Gill and Janet.... I am sitting here going from thread to thread... i think for something to do really.

Still a lot of nastiness about... I think some people could do with something to worry about... they might then find it easier to live and let live....
OH BOY am I on the moan now??

Deanna XX

Joyce will PM you later okay?

Can't make him tea.... they have to pick some up on the way home .... He forgot to buy some on shopping day.

Deanna XX

Think he might be forgiven for that today but don't let him get away with it too often
Janet

That's tough Deanna, hope he won't be too upset.
Lizx