General Chat

Gill, I haven't posted to be contentious... but as I, and everyone else, have the right to post where I wish,,,, so too do I have the right to avoid posting where I feel uncomfortable, disliked or unwanted... wild horses wouldn't drag me into those threads.

That is how I feel... I own and make no apology for those feelings.

Love

Daff xxx

I wasn't having a go at you - I feel these statements can make people nervous to post anywhere, it is not the poster just the statement.

I don't need to be spoken to like this - this is exactly why I don't like to post anywhere.

Thanks Caz for letting me join in, but I will go away now.

Gill

Hi Caz
I agree with you...there are certain people who make me feel very unwelcome on certain threads. Only yesterday I was so obviously blanked and I find it extremely rude and childish, but the likes of those people will not keep me away....infact i am more likely to carry on posting lol but there are also lots of people on here I love chatting to x

Gill... I really wasn't having a go at you... I was responding to your comment, and explaining how I felt, and attempting to clarify where I was coming from.

I certainly did not intend for you to feel that you were *spoken to like this* and apologise if my words have upset you... that was not my intention.

Apologies to Caz.

Daff xxx

Well I agree with you, Daffy, about the wild horses and the dragging bit:-) BC XX

Sorry Catherine,
but grandson turned up and asked to go on the computor .
Benny Hill i love watching him
he makes me laugh .
i'm ok hope you are too
take care , dont do anything that i would'nt do. lol;)))))))))))))))
Hazelx

wel i hadnt added to this thread as i didnt know how to put it into words without it sounding all mumble jumble

but i think u summed it up very well daff and put it far better than i ever could lol

luv
stray
xxx

~~~~~caz xxxx

Daft.....I thought you put that very well..

Hi Caz :):)


Daff, do we share the same birth chart :):)

I just join in any thread that catches my eye.

I have been ignored on some, but ah well....!
I'm a nice person.
If you don't want to play with me?
Your loss..... ;-0)

Deanna X

thats the right attitude to have deanna good on yer xx

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ waves to Deana with the lovely name..

I use General and Tips most of all, sometimes Records, and very very rarely look at the other boards.

Of those Boards which I use, I read and join in on whatever grabs my interest. It makes no difference who posted it, most of the time I don't notice. It's the topic title which catches my eye.
If I dont like the look of a topic, I don't read the thread.
If I'm in the middle of reading through a thread and it starts to turn catty, I leave it. Can't be bothered with people getting into on-line fights, life's too short. And, after all, there are plenty of lighthearted threads on here at which I can get a good laugh. And there are other threads which have reduced me to tears.

There are times I don't add to support threads because I just don't have the right words to say, or perhaps what I'd like to say has already been expressed in a better way than i could have.
But by not adding, doesn't mean that I'm not feeling for the person, or supporting them in my heart.

Sometimes Ive added to threads and felt that Ive been talked over, if that makes sense, ie the people carry on chatting to each other totally ignoring my piece. That's ok, it happens in real life sometimes. And perhaps they just didn't find my contribution interesting.

I come on here for the 'company' when I need it, as I spend a lot of time alone. I have found no end of information, comfort, laughs and help from various people...total strangers when you come to think of it...which just goes to show how amazing you all are!!

K xx

awww Karen thats very true...x

No I don't think there are 'no go' areas except those we set for ourselves.

However, there are certain threads I don't even bother to read because I know the content will not interest me, and other threads where I know I will be ignored...so I don't bother with them either.

I always try to leave a message on the support threads because I know how much strength I have gained from mine

Jean x.

Ah well......Hayley always plays with me, don't yah??

Tea time and if I don't go... my husband will disown me.

Idiot, doesn't he know it is far too late???

Deanna X

I dont always add to sympathy threads as sometimes can't find right words.I use both Chat & Gen.As for no go areas I feel same as Deanna.x

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