General Chat

Dear Susan and Diane

Two personal messages were sent by GR Members
to the lady in question.

Best wishes to you both.
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Hello Elizabeth

I hope she is in 'constant' contact with them and they are able to help her through this.

Morning Jan, Just thought I'de pop in to see how you are?
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Good Morning Jan,

I do hope you are reading all these messages of support and know how many people are thinking of you.

Please come back and let us know how you are feeling. There is always someone on here who will listen and support you.

Jean x.

Morning Jan, hope your feeling a little better, l know we are all asking you to let us know how you are so please donot feel ashamed of how your feeling , we are concerned for you and wish we could help you more.
Gentle {{{{{hugs}}}}} for you.

Hi Jan,
I have only just read this thread as I am not around every day.
I am sorry that you are feeling down. As others have said, you really need to see your Doctor and tell him/her how you are feeling. I do hope you will feel better soon. Take care xxxxxx

Hi Jan
Do hope you took the advice to see your Dr,and that you will soon be feeling better
Dont give up,you have a lot of support on here
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Morning Jan. I was hoping we would have heard some news. Still thinking of you. BCXX

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Please let us know how you are today.X

Thinking of you Jan and hoping today is a better one for you xx

Hope you are feeling better today
Take care
Love Mary xx

Sorry to hear you are feeling down Jan, it does sound like you may have post natal depression, not that I'm an expert. Please go and talk with your GP & let us know you are ok even if it is via a pm.
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Jan, do come back on please, just to say you're 'ok' (though I know that's not the truth) .

Life is awful sometimes and all you want to do is stay under the duvet where no one can hurt you and you can't 'mess up '. But you must get to a Dr if it is as bad as that.
You are NOT a bad mum, I know that ! I have done all sorts of things wrong, but my son says "you're the best mum in the world" lol you do what you can, thats the thing.

You can't take big steps to change your life or how you feel, just take the first 'small' (huge!) step of talking to someone . Wash your face clean your teeth and brush your hair, put on a nice t shirt and feel a bit 'human'..not just a mum/wife/ slave to work.

Good luck love,

Rose xxx

hi jan just popped in to to let you know still thinking of you x

Morning Jan
We're all here wondering how you are, we might not have met but we all care about you.
Think of times when you were happy...they will come again...I'm sure.
Take good care of yourself
Mau (xxx)

I thank you all for your love, concerns, messages. I'm afraid I can't take the advice on the GP, I have explained to a GR member the reasons why, and to be very honest it could be the worst thing I do. The care system here is VERY KEEN, if you get my meaning.

I think I need to step back see whats waht, and what I want, instead of it just beening what eveyone else wants. Just a tad lonely too.

Many thanks again, have yourselves a great weekend

Jan xx

Hi
If you wary about contacting you DR, can you not find some support groups in you area, sometime a problem shared is a problem halved.

I guess you do not want certain agencies knowing your depressed but surely that is confidential information, please seek out some help, things are not as bad as you think they are and you need help to realize that.

Take care x

Jan, I can fully understand why you wouldn't want to go 'on record' as it were . That was something a friend and I agreed on, both of us single parents and always 'wary'. Do try and talk to a friend though . And though it sounds daft just the physical act of writing down what is wrong and what you want will help.

Rose xx

Jan, just a thought, if you tell us what area your in, maybe one of us will be nearby and be able to give you some moral support, l know if you were near me l would like to help even if its to offer you a cuppa and a smile.

A good idea *** Mummo ***

Though might be an idea for us to say what region we are in, rather than Jan putting it on here.

I am East Sussex near Hastings