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Sadly we have lost some loved members since Xmas

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eRRolSheep

eRRolSheep Report 26 Mar 2015 17:24

It certainly didn't warrant some of the absolute vitriole.

I am glad to see that it has been reinstated so that people can see that there was nothing malicious or thoughtless whatsoever.

AnnCardiff

AnnCardiff Report 26 Mar 2015 18:05

I thought they had gone - didn't realise they'd slipped down the board - doh!!

glad to see it's reinstated and I do hope the person who reported this gets a flea in their ear

eRRolSheep

eRRolSheep Report 26 Mar 2015 18:11

Methinks whoever did it was deliberately trying to stir things up and inflame the situation.

Joy

Joy Report 26 Mar 2015 21:59

I am pleased that Shirley's original post has been reinstated.

Tabitha

Tabitha Report 27 Mar 2015 13:27

Shirley - i am so pleased you are back on the board again & that you have so much support - including mine

We haven't been in touch on the board prior to this - but i dont like to see anyone being trated the way you were

Lynda ~

Lynda ~ Report 27 Mar 2015 14:03

Tabitha, I do hope Shirley posts again soon, I've been in touch with her, and I think the nasty comments posted, have made her wary of posting, how sad is that.

Shirley doesn't deserve to feel that she can't post a perfectly inoffensive post,without being called names, nor does anyone, it's not on. Obviously GR think her post perfectly fine, or they wouldn't of reinstated it.

Come back Shirley :-D

Sally

Sally Report 27 Mar 2015 14:26

come back shirly I like your posts they are allways worth reading

sally w <3

SylviaInCanada

SylviaInCanada Report 27 Mar 2015 17:04

oh no!


Please Shirley ................ don't give up on the enjoyment you have from GR because of one happenstance.


You did nothing wrong

Your post was just fine


and you have lots of support on here.

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 27 Mar 2015 17:16

Thanks folks
Still feeling a bit shell shocked I must admit BUT I am still here. Being a long term member I enjoy helping others with look ups as my own trees are back to parish records So I will still post but on the other boards for the time being .

I have enjoyed sharing things on General and thank you for the kind responses on my threads when I needed comfort in the last months for family losses etc.

My hubby needs my care but I can still enjoy helping others who share my family history interest
<3

SylviaInCanada

SylviaInCanada Report 27 Mar 2015 17:17

good!!!!!



s
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+++DetEcTive+++

+++DetEcTive+++ Report 27 Mar 2015 17:25

Shirley <3

YG

YG Report 27 Mar 2015 18:02

Good for you, Shirley :-) <3

eRRolSheep

eRRolSheep Report 27 Mar 2015 18:16

Shirley don't let a minority put you off. The fact that your opening post has been reinstated demonstrates that there was absolutely nothing wrong with it whatsoever.

♥†۩ Carol   Paine ۩†♥

♥†۩ Carol Paine ۩†♥ Report 27 Mar 2015 18:23

Those of us who have posted on this board for many years are all getting closer to being reunited with our ancestors, over the years many of our cyber friends have already gone from these boards... too many to name.
When we lose those who we love, the cards and letters well wishers send us are removed after a short while & placed where we can get them out and take comfort from them when we need it.

I was told by a Grievance Councillor that our lives must go on; you do not need to have a physical reminder of your losses on view at all times, celebrate in your heart that they lived & were loved.

I think the suggestion of a Memorial Board is a good one & long overdue.

SylviaInCanada

SylviaInCanada Report 27 Mar 2015 18:26

and I think that I would add to Carol's very sensitive posting ..................



don't castigate those who grieve and remember in a way different from you.

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 27 Mar 2015 18:35

Well we lost our youngest brother in Sept and our sister lost her hubby of 59 years in Dec
We have also lost another elder sister and brother so from a family of 8 kiddies I am the eldest one still here ,

Hubby isnt in the best of health at 81either

Its inevitable we are born and we have our life span and we go . NO if or buts about it

Those that are left can grieve as we have done for our nearest and dearest BUT life goes on otherwise why would we be looking at our family trees??

It does get a bit ??? when one realizes our own names will someday be on the GRO records ,

I do think a Memorial Board is an excellent idea then those who are grieving can visit the board to get comfort

♥†۩ Carol   Paine ۩†♥

♥†۩ Carol Paine ۩†♥ Report 27 Mar 2015 18:56

Yes Shirley I agree.

Tomorrow I am meeting up with my 3 elder sisters & their partners, as we have done 4 or 5 times a year since our Mother went to join Dad. Though never put into words we all know that each meet could be the last for one of us. My Brother in Laws all have heart problems... pace makers/heart bypasses.

After our meal we will go up to the village church & as my eldest sister said last time "See who is now there".

Joy

Joy Report 27 Mar 2015 19:53

<3 Shirley

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond Report 27 Mar 2015 23:26

Shirley, please don't stop posting on here. You know the old saying about getting back on the horse.......

Lizxx

Penny

Penny Report 28 Mar 2015 07:39

I cannot imagine GR will ever sticky a thread about the passing of a member ever again, if this is the kerfuffle that ensues .

Either way - asking GR to unpin would have been deemed sneaky,

courting opinion as to unpinning has resulted in all this.

What is the solution? GR not to pin them in the first place- no argument then.