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RIP MOTHER, My last Mother Thread

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Florence61

Florence61 Report 6 Jul 2013 20:11

just read your sad news uzzi.

Thinking about you and your family at this sad time

Big hugs to youxxx <3 <3

Researching:
house/hampshire prophet/cheshire skinner/kent

BrendafromWales

BrendafromWales Report 6 Jul 2013 20:26

Just read this....so sorry.You did your very best for her.
I can empathise completely as had similar experience.
Try to think of yourselves now and take time to grieve,but then go forward and live your own lives.
Thinking of you.
Brenda x <3

Carol 430181

Carol 430181 Report 6 Jul 2013 20:42

Oh Uzzie, always watched your threads re mother, have been there so know how you feel. Do not blame yourself you did all you could and were there at the end. You now take care of yourself. <3

Carol

Researching:
Vosper Cornwall /Devon. Courtney Cornwall. Arundel Cornwall. Godolphin Cornwall. Tremethick Cornwall. Langdon Cornwall/Devon. Buley Devon. Parsons Cornwall. Bains(wish I knew) Samuels London.

Cynthia

Cynthia Report 6 Jul 2013 20:58

Uzzi, so sorry to hear this news, but your mum has gone on her journey secure in the knowledge that she was loved to the end.

Take time to readjust to your new circumstances and hold your head up high. You did well.


Cx

Researching:
ADVICE: Click on 'My Threads' over on the left to find your replies. Please respond to your replies by typing in the Add Reply box at the bottom of the page. Enjoy!

YG

YG Report 6 Jul 2013 21:07

So sorry to read about your Mum, Uzzi.

I don't know you, but I have read your threads and know that you did the very best that you could do for your Mum.

You have to take care of you and your family now. Have plenty of 'me' time, grieve and hold happy memories deep in your heart.

<3 <3

UzziAndHerDogs

UzziAndHerDogs Report 9 Jul 2013 21:35

Today was her cremation in Spain, not her final farewell but mine to her as I will not be cruising in December with her.

It hurt to say Goodbye much more than I thought it would.

Goodbye Mum, Party the rest of your life. if not rest in peace.

Researching:
Turner, Staniforth in Beighton and Ridgeway Sproat in Sheffield and Cumbria

StrayKitten

StrayKitten Report 9 Jul 2013 21:40

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Researching:
It wasn't me

KittytheLearnerCook

KittytheLearnerCook Report 9 Jul 2013 21:44

Bless your heart Uzzi................it is very painful to say Goodbye.XXXXXXXXXXXX

Researching:
Brockhurst Newman Pelham Parsons West Sussex Birth information for Thomas Parsons born in Cork 1818 mother Mary father ?Charles

♥†۩ Carol Paine ۩†♥

♥†۩ Carol Paine ۩†♥ Report 9 Jul 2013 21:47

I know from experience how hard today will have been for you, take care of yourself.

Your Mother is at peace with the ones she loves who went before. The Mother you love would not want or expect you to blame yourself for anything; she knows you did your best.
<3

X Lairy- Fairy

X Lairy- Fairy Report 9 Jul 2013 22:10

Sorry to about your mum hun , May she R.I.P . Lots of love to you x
Rose x <3

Researching:
Giffen, Catlin , Stevens , Kingham, Williams , Brinkley , Walker .Odell. jones from deptford

Karen in the desert

Karen in the desert Report 9 Jul 2013 22:11


Dear Uzzi, I have only just seen this thread.
I am so sorry for your loss and send you my condolences and deepest sympathy. You did all you could for your mother to make her as comfortable as possible, so rest assured she must have known you loved her. I am sure you are busy now, but remember to take some time for yourself too.
Sending you BIG ((((hugs))))
Karen xxx

Researching:
Researching: MILLS & ROBERTS Cambs: TAGG Thames Ditton & East Molesey, Surrey: LEETON/LEADON Hunts & Cambs: LLOYD London/Middx: FROST London/Middx: ROSKAS, KISELIUS, BUDAS W.Lothian & Lanarks: ROSKAS, JAKAS/JAKAITE, JUSKEVICIUS, MICKEVICIUS Lithuania

UzziAndHerDogs

UzziAndHerDogs Report 9 Jul 2013 22:12

xx thank you all

Researching:
Turner, Staniforth in Beighton and Ridgeway Sproat in Sheffield and Cumbria

~`*`Jude`*`~

~`*`Jude`*`~ Report 9 Jul 2013 22:21

Take care Uzzi....xx

jude xx

Researching:
Ukraine...

Sue In Yorkshire.

Sue In Yorkshire. Report 9 Jul 2013 23:54

Today would have been one of the hardest days in your life saying Goodbye to your Mum.

Your Mum is now with all her loved ones and is at peace.

Take care of yourself,Hubby and the Mutts.

Don't forget to take the mutts for their long walks and you may feel Peace of mind slowly coming to you.

Hugs and <3 <3 <3
Suexxxx

Trish Devon

Trish Devon Report 10 Jul 2013 00:05

I have only just seen this thread,
and have followed your story,and understood every word.
I feel for you Uzzi,
I send you my heartfelt sympathy.
<3

Researching:
Webber,Strong. ( Watchet,Minehead,Somerset)Drake,(Plymouth Devon)

Joeva

Joeva Report 10 Jul 2013 00:32

Uzzi

I have read your threads regarding all the problems you have encountered with caring for your mother, but only from a selfish view.

I am an aging mother and since the death of my daughter 2 years ago I have only my son that could look after me.

I am a very realistic person and know that at this time in my life I really have to make sure that when the time comes I will never be a burden to him or his family.

You have done all you could for your mum and I salute you.

Best wishes to you Uzzi that you can find peace and tranquility, and realise that you have been the best daughter than anyone could wish for.

Jo

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond Report 10 Jul 2013 06:42

Time now for you to grieve and come to terms with the events of the last months, Uzzi, you have had a lot to deal with and it will take time for your body and mind to recover from the stress, hard work and mental anguish you have suffered. From sorting out your Mum's belongings, selling the house and finding the new place and all that went between, you have had so much to deal with and throughout it all your Mum's comfort and contentment was at the forefront of every decision.

Treat yourself kindly, walk with the dogs and get to know the people in your new district and use that hot tub to ease the tension that may set in to your body. I am sure your hubby will help you through and remember you have the friends on here to listen and support when they can.

love and hugs

Lizxx

UzziAndHerDogs

UzziAndHerDogs Report 29 May 2019 00:21

I have resurrected this thread because many people will remember the problems I had with Mum, not just her dementia but the whole life I had with her.

Don´t ever leave it too late

Researching:
Turner, Staniforth in Beighton and Ridgeway Sproat in Sheffield and Cumbria

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