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I to have read your posts but not added. You have done all you could for her and I echo others comments. You did your best to keep the promise to your Dad and you did all you could for your Mum. You can only do your best in life and no more. My condolences to you and all others concerned. <3

So sorry for your news

Shirley <3

Ah Uzzi, what a terrible shock for you. My sincere condolences. BCXX <3

Uzzi
I am another that has read your threads, especially the latest on the trials of setting up your home for mum.

I am so sorry for your loss.

When all that needs to be done has been done remember to take timeout just for yourself and your other half.

Sincere condolences to you Uzzi and your family..

May your mum REST IN PEACE <3.

jude xx <3

Please don't beat yourself up about not saying I love you to your Mum, there is no need for you to feel bad about it.

Anyone can say the words, you showed the power of your love in your actions.

She knew and will still know and I believe both your Mum and Dad will be watching over you with pride.

xx

Uzzi,
Sorry to hear your sad news.

You did everything and more for your Mum to make her last days happy and she knew you loved her.

You kept your promise to your Dad and did more than any daughter could have done.

I bet what is going through your mind right now is"""if I had left her in the nursing home would she be still alive.""

Not neccessarily as she could have died in the nursing home even before the move.

Now your Dad and Mum are reunited in Heaven and both watching over you and your OH.

Take time to grieve and after the funeral is over take time for yourself, hubby and Mutts.

Then take one day at a time.

You will come out of the other side of grief and be a stronger person for your experience.

My love and thoughts are with you.

RIP Uzzi's Mum
Another Angel in Heaven.

Sue <3 <3 <3 <3

So Sad, so soon after all the upheaval and the promise of a start of a new life .......
My condolences,to you, and yours, Uzzi,


Bob

Sincere condolences,
Liz

Can I just add that if you didn't love her there will be a reason.

Don't try to make yourself just because she is dead.

I hope this is not inappropriate and I am sorry if it is.

Uzzi Im so very very sorry.....deepest sympathy to you and yours...

Much Love <3 <3

My deepest sympathy to you and yours.

Actions speak louder than words, you did so much for her, she knew you loved her.
x

Not on much these day's,but noticed your post.
So sorry for your loss and I am sure she knew you loved her.

Marion

My condolences to you.

Those of us who have lost a mother (probably far too many to count) and who have read your threads about yours, will sympathise with you.

Take care. <3

Thank you once more to everybody for your kind words and thoughts,

Sue in Leeds ..how right you were about my thoughts of the nursing home ""if I had left her in the nursing home would she be still alive."" they were my exact words. I have to say that I hope Mum and Dad are NOT re-united in heaven because Dad will turn in his Urn but I hope that Mum and Jack (my step dad) are because I know he loved her right to his end.

Sharron Your post is not inappropriate to me at all, as somebody who has met me and heard me cussing it is only natural, My problem is not trying to love her but realizing how much I did.

About my advice about telling you love when alive not after. I did tell Mum many times in some form or other in the last 5days and my last words to her whilst she was breathing was telling her I loved her and she had to wake up because we had bingo games to go and win. I just hope she heard. but 5 days isn´t a lot of time and some form or other is not those 3 little words. <3

So sorry, Uzzi. You showed your Mum how much you loved her, more than any words could have done.
Take good care of yourself. Lynda X <3

I am sure your Mum heard those words Uzzi, as the doctors say the hearing is usually the last sense to go and she would have known in her heart anyway, whatever went on between you.

I expect Jack was the one to fetch her 'home' but your Dad was probably prompting him, I hope they are together now and she is content. Probably watching to see what you are choosing and such for the service.

Take care

Lizxx

I have been following your thread Uzzi, so sorry to hear about your mum.

I am sure she has always known just how much you loved her.

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I was so sorry to hear about your mum my lovely u r in my thoughts and I am sending up lots and lots of love and hugs. Rachxxxxxxx <3

So sorry for your loss Uzzi.

Your Mum knew you loved her. Don't beat yourself up.

You will have the usual emotions, anger, grief, anger again, and then you will look back and laugh at the funny things that happened in your lives.

It will take time, and time will heal.

Take care.

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