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Eldrick

Eldrick Report 4 Apr 2012 20:46

Neubie and RR. Muslim faith schools? They also teach creation as a fact.

Your son would not have been allowed to write an essay such as that in a muslim school.

Muslim Faith schools are rife in this country. That is what is so insidious.

Muffyxx

Muffyxx Report 4 Apr 2012 20:48

My daughter got kept in for her lunch hour (yr 6 primary) for stating that she was an athiest. I soon got her an apology for it.

I have not influenced my girls one way or another re religion/god...i prefer to let them make their own minds up...neither were christened ..but eldest has a deep dislike and distrust of it.all as it stands at the mo.....youngest less so. x

Rambling

Rambling Report 4 Apr 2012 20:53

You didn't specify muslim faith schools Eldrick, you just said "schools". I don't have any proof that all Muslim faith schools promulgate hatred of the infidel do you? because if that is the case there seem to be quite a lot of Muslims who have managed to avoid indoctrination and live quite peacefully with the rest of our society?

Eldrick

Eldrick Report 4 Apr 2012 20:59

And schools they are. I said that this was being taught in English schools. It is.

Same as it is being preached in Engtlish mosques. It will always be a small number who succumb, same as its only a small number of children who become devout christians. If you doubt this, subscribe to the Freethinker, or better still, the Richard Dawkins Foundation for Science and Reason.

Rambling

Rambling Report 4 Apr 2012 21:09



doesn't that rather contradict your argument Eldrick? if "only a small number succumb" is it not less of a problem than you make out?

I shall skip Mr Dawkins if you don't mind I would rather think for myself :-D

Cynthia

Cynthia Report 4 Apr 2012 21:15

Annx......where did you get the impression that it's God's will that people are ill or have accidents ? :-S

Eldrick

Eldrick Report 4 Apr 2012 21:16

RR, I think you are taking this out of context a bit, if you dont mind me saying so. I stand by my claim that there are schools in England - specifically Muslim Faith schools - that teach children pernicious nonsense.

The numbers that succumb cannot be counted, but its irrelevant anyway. The assertion is as I have said. Now if you are content with English children - because thats what they are - being taught a curriculum that includes indoctrination at the subjective whim of a teacher of the koran, including creation and the fact that when science comes face to face with the koran, the koran wins every time....then fair enough.

I am not. I think it is dreadful.

Eldrick

Eldrick Report 4 Apr 2012 21:20

Cyn

Because thats what is taught. I was at a funeral this afternoon and the priest said that god had decided it was time for the young person to join him in heaven and sit at his right hand and we should give thanks for her short life and death.

It just seemed a shame that he made them suffer with cancer for so long first. Which I did mention to him, in private, afterwards.

There was no reply.

Rambling

Rambling Report 4 Apr 2012 21:25

I only quoted what you said as I read it Eldrick .

i did not read your comments as applying only to "faith schools" ...but to schools in general. :-D

Cynthia

Cynthia Report 4 Apr 2012 21:42

I am so sorry that the priest didn't have the courage of his convictions to answer your questions Eldrick. I am also sorry that your young friend had suffered so much.


My husband has Parkinson's, my daughter has autism, my mother had MS......I certainly don't believe that these were all caused by God's will.....nor was I taught that he caused these things. I just know that these things happen and that He loves us and helps me to cope. Despite her 50 years of suffering, my mother retained a sense of faith and dignity and was an inspiration to many.


I had never heard of the Freethinker and so checked the site. I now see where you get your 'facts' from.

It is full of ridicule and antipathy towards those who have faith.

I don't believe I have yet ridiculed you for being an atheist but I will still hold out a hand of friendship. :-)



Cx.

Eldrick

Eldrick Report 4 Apr 2012 21:54

I dont get my facts from the freethinker. I think for myself. I subscribe to it because i believe in free speech and i am an atheist. I also use the JREF and RDFRS. And others.

The thing with believers is that they can never ever explain their beliefs in a manner that is coherent to anyone other than another believer. Which is why, i expect, the priest decided not to answer me. He knows me.

The answer is, however plain to all to see.

I would hope never to fall out over it, though.

:-D

Rambling

Rambling Report 4 Apr 2012 21:55

My faith such as it is, was very shaken by my mother's death, I could not, and still can not see a reason why someone who was kind and loving should suffer and die 'too soon'. Prayer did not work, at least not in bringing a miraculous cure, in the aftermath I could not believe in a God and if I tried his 'cruelty' seemed to outweigh any benefit.

I certainly can't tell someone why they should have faith, or give an answer to all the other 'whys' like why war, why death , why disease, why ..... I can't even tell you why I have a little faith still ...maybe it is a fools treasure but wiser men still don't have an answer whether it is a religious or scientific one.

Rambling

Rambling Report 4 Apr 2012 21:56

Eldrick , my reply there was not to yours, I posted without having seen yours first :-)

Eldrick

Eldrick Report 4 Apr 2012 22:03

But there is an answer to the whys. It is only when you try to explain them in the light of a religion that they become unfathomable.They are all perfectly explainable.

There is no need to complicate them.

Annx

Annx Report 4 Apr 2012 23:51

It is what I was taught at school Cynthia, it is what is often said when someone dies, it is what I have heard people say when something bad happens. I have taken it they mean iis what God wants to happen.

Disgraceful that anyone could even think of punishing and making an example of Muffy's little girl for what she said. Shows what intolerance and intimidation can lurk in our schools or what fear there is of upsetting those with a different view even at that young age.

LadyScozz

LadyScozz Report 5 Apr 2012 00:49

When I was a child I was told that "god" watched everything, and if I did something wrong he would write it in his "big black book", so that when I died he would look in the book to see what sort of person I was. I had nightmares about standing in front of a big bearded man reading the book and shouting at me, surrounded by a crowd of people, all shouting.

Terrible thing to teach a child.

I grew up thinking "if you have too good a time "God" will get you back"

Eldrick

Eldrick Report 5 Apr 2012 08:48

I suspect you arent alone there. Like threats of the bogey man, its a way of keeping children under control. Its the different face - its not all baby jesus and god loves you. Its all very conditional. Theres plenty of horror stories to give children nightmares. :-(

Cynthia

Cynthia Report 5 Apr 2012 10:22

I despair at the way the Christian faith has been taught sometimes and I think it shows the ignorance of the people who teach such tosh.as described by Scozzie etc. :-(


I've led many school assemblies in church schools and, whatever the topic, there has always been the rider of how much God loves us. Unconditionally.


As a mum, I love my kids....unconditionally.

I still love them even when they hurt, anger or disappoint me.

I still love them even when they don't follow or agree with the 'house terms and conditions'.

I still love them when they argue against what is good for them.

I still love them when they drive me to destraction.

They know I will not always agree with or condone some of their actions and that I will tell them when I don't.


They know that I love them ....... and they are happy and secure in that love.

That's the sort of God's love which should be taught.


:-)

Annx

Annx Report 5 Apr 2012 10:34

Scozzie that struck a chord with me. We were told as children that if you were wicked God would punish you. As a young child I figured that God must think me wicked and I worried a lot about it and lived in fear of being burned in hell like I had been told. Why else would he be punishing me with such an unhappy home life unless I was wicked? I knew I wasn't wicked, so I worked out that God was wrong, and with no credibility was not to be believed in.



Florence

Florence Report 5 Apr 2012 11:00

Just popping in folks!!
not stopping got things to do!


Cynthia puts the words down better than i , that would be perfect if religeon were taught like that ! everywhere.

but alas! its not! children are put off by things taught the way Ann remembers them i agree ,
but people mature and relialise surely when they grow up whats right or wrong, and then go and ask questions, finds the right way that suits them whether they turn out as aetheists or not.

Ann ,,it was not god that was wrong, it was how they taught you.
Flo