General Chat

Fran, if your husband was anywhere near as good a man as my husband has been (still alive but with alzheimers) then you have lost a marvellous treasure, so my deepest sympathy.

Huia.

Such a terrible shock for you. So sorry for your loss.

So sorry to hear of your loss Fran, may you find the strength to get through the future and remember the treasured time you spent together.

May he R.I.P.

Frances x

Oh Fran,
It brought tears to my eyes when I read your message just a moment or two ago. Please accept my sincere Condolences, and long may you hold those treasured memories.
I hope you do not mind but I have added you and your family to my "Quiet moments" each day,


God Bless you and your family

Bridget

Fran,
Have just been adding to my thread about my Dad and thought that I would add to the threads that are asking for positive thoughts and saw yours. I was going to say that we were in a similar boat worrying about someone dear to us, then I saw the devistating news that your hubby had passed away.
My love and thoughts and prayers are with you and the family at this very sad time.

Take care
God Bless you.

Helen

So VERY sorry to hear this sad news.

I am thinking of you and your family.

Dea x

So sorry to read your very sad news, it must be very difficult for you just now and an awful shock.

Just a little nudge to let Fran know that we are still thinking about her.

Maggy xx

I wondered if somebody can c&p this (I havent worked out how yet) just in case it gets whooshed, then when Fran wants to read it all or show it to relatives she can.

Huia.

Heartfelt thanks for the caring messages - I'm not functioning very well just now, but the postings on here are very comforting.

Fran
xx

I am sure you aren't functioning well Fran, you have had a bad shock and lost the most important person in your life. Just know that we are all here should you want somebody to talk to that is not family. We are all continuing to send you thoughts.

Ann
Glos

Sorry to hear your sad news.
Thinking of you at a sad time

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Hazelx

My condolences to you and your family
Mau (XX)

At times like this we cope the best we can, we may not feel we are functioning well but others may see us doing ok. It's natural to feel confused and stressed and sometimes the adrenalin of doing all that is necessary keeps us going and we don't even find time to grieve properly. I know that's what happened when my Dad died, I was trying to help my Mum as well as look after my young son who had been so close to Dad, and it was hard to deal with.
You take care and let things out when you can, there is always someone around here to listen if needs be.

Lizx

I did nudge up the Remember me thread as there are some lovely verses on the thread that will bring healing tears - will nudge it again.

Fran, still thinking of you,x

I hope you are coping with things OK and that you have people around to support you at this sad time. Always somebody here for you. Thinking of you

Ann
Glos

oh my goodness, just read this
fran i send you my thoughts and a hug
its just so terrible for you ,
a dreadful thing to have happened,
and i can only say im sure your hubby is watching down on you
and sending love to uplift you
xx

Hi Fran
I haven't been on the forum before but felt drawn to this thread. So sorry to hear your sad news. However, I am also happy for you.... you have 40 years of wonderful memories of your beloved husband. Enjoy them, they are a gift to console you at times like this.
God bless you and your family.
Luv Lesley

Keeping you in my prayers and thoughts.
Brian(i)

Thank you once again for all the kind and caring messages - my darling will be laid to rest on Thursday, and I will need all the help there is to get through it.