General Chat

Joy, I'm jumping for Joy! (apologies, couldn't resist!) He's ready hun, me too. Very independent and yes, those moods!

Poor, poor Kerry - sending Vic, menthol tissues, night nurse, day nurse, home made chicken soup by express delivery. Hope u okay soon hun.

Luvsyall too! (((hugs))) xxx

thankyou ss hun will luv the chicken soup cant beat home made thanks for delivery will take it all tomoz with me to work ((((((hugs))))) xx

Pleasure hun! Wrap up warm, passes hot water bottle. There u are, try to have nap. xxx

thankyou hun will have rest now be back later take care xxx

Okay hun, places duvet round shoulders. There you go hun, sweet dreams. xxx

hi ss hope your evening is going ok i feel abit better now have had rest take care big(((((hugs))))) kerry xx

So pleased hun, was worrying for you.

Big hugs too ((((hugs)))))

As typing just read that you train re agreessive or challenging behaviour. Lol, prob not quite same but did same when training as foster carer (not one now, had 2 bed house then, fell preg after 10 yrs of trying.)

We were taught to hug them tight, whisper in ear, something like, it's okay, you are loved/worth something ..., they'd end up sitting on my lap, me on floor with knees bent under me. Very loving way to diffuse situation, safe/loving for children, couldn't hurt me or themselves. They would always 'calm' down, come for hug afterwards. Bless,

its the same training now i always say to fellow workers treat them with respect say nice things and keep calm i work in residential now but used to work in mental but we have lady at work now who has to go in mental unit for respite care every few months very scary when they turn will ring tomoz night after 6 if thats ok kerry xx

right im off to relax and watch tv for a bit have just made home made rice pudding tc bb tomoz kerry xx

Be lovely hun, looking forward to it. Off to see bro tomorrow, check he's really okay.

So pleased same rules exist in most places. I was in care, one that began with B....do's, hit with stilletto shoe, more - bro with belt. Lol!

Getting ready to watch Oliver! xxx

ok speak then hope all goes well with bro send him my love and give him big((((hug)))) from me xxx

l didnt go in again today lm not feeling any better
but l phoned and actually got to speak to the matron
she put mum on the phone but she couldnt hear me
l had a bit of a moan about things she said she would look into things l will try and go in tomorrow cant sleep for coughing

thanks every one for all the help

How u now Marilyn, poor u (gives hug) sends chicken soup, Vic,cough mixture, hot water bottle, wraps duvet round M's shoulders.

So sorry hun, very brave of you. Remember, you can take action without them being aware.

I'm here, we're all here for you sweetie.

Take care

xxx Shimmer xxx

Kerry, how you feeling today? Hope my home made chicken soup helped make you feel bit better.

((((hugs)))) x

How's everyone today. Lol, got to keep this thread up and running. x

only just seen thread feel abit better thanks ss soup did the trick ((((hugs)))) back to you xx

Ah hun, so pleased. Auntie (like my mum) used to make it for us when we weren't well, delish and healing. ((hug)) xx

Hi everyone!

Went to see bro yesterday, still has remains of black eye, on a/biotics for split lip but in the main okay. Confused bless, keeps saying, "I'm not allowed to eat in the dining room. Better not come near me, I'm dangerous." then lucid, thanks us, says his wife is awesome, I'm wonderful. I just tell him, no-one attacks me, or my family, like red flag to a bull. I'll always protect but as a lady.

Bless, I just so luv my bro. Miss him too.

xxx

bless you ss xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Bless huns,

Thank you, sends hugs. ((((hugs))))

Pls, if need help, want someone to listen, advice care support we all here to help.

Luysya'll xxx

Think this needs a nudge.

Frances xx