hi all while looking for information on a friend's relative i came across an entry of marriage. the marriage was between Joseph William Gibbs and Nellie Kate Allen Gibbs and was crossed through, I have never seen this before, has anyone seen this and if so could you please explain it for me thanks in advance
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For our reference - location & date:
Nillie Kate Allen Gibbs in the London, England, Church of England Marriages and Banns, 1754-1932 Name: Nillie Kate Allen Gibbs Marriage Age: 19 Record Type: Marriage Birth Date: abt 1879 Marriage Date: 25 Dec 1898 Marriage Place: St Augustine, Paddington, Westminster, England Father: John Gibbs, cabman Spouse: Joseph William Gibbs Register Type: Parish Register
If you look at the image, there's a note at the side which says,
"These parties did not put in any appearance." Signed by the officiating minister, Henry L Bleby.
The entry must have been written in the register before the proposed wedding, to be all ready for them to sign afterwards, but then had to be scored through when they didn't turn up.
The officiating minister sounds seriously fed up - he must have hung around waiting for them.
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Nellie married somebody else just over a year later - at a different church:
Nellie Kate Allen Gibbs in the London, England, Church of England Marriages and Banns, 1754-1932 Name: Nellie Kate Allen Gibbs Gender: Female Marriage Age: 20 Record Type: Marriage Birth Date: abt 1880 Marriage Date: 21 Jan 1900 Marriage Place: St John's Wood All Saints, Westminster, England Father: John Gibbs, cab driver Spouse: Frederick Ernest Rowland Register Type: Parish Register
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A possible reason for the first proposed marriage not going ahead -
this is Nellie in 1901:
Nellie Rowland in the 1901 England Census Name: Nellie Rowland [User-submitted-comment] Age: 21 Estimated Birth Year: abt 1880 Relation to Head: Wife Gender: Female Spouse: Frederick E Rowland Birth Place: St Georges, London, England Civil Parish: Paddington Ecclesiastical parish: St Peter County/Island: London Country: England Street Address: 91 Chippenham Road Registration District: Paddington Sub-registration District: St Mary, Paddington ED, institution, or vessel: 14 Neighbors: Piece: 4 Page Number: 41 Household Schedule Number: 341 Household Members: Name Age Frederick E Rowland 23 Nellie Rowland 21 Lilian L Rowland 4/12
Also at 91 Chippenham Road (but as a different household) are Nellie's parents John and Emily, with son William 24, and grand-daughter Ivy M, aged 1.
An Ancestry user has added the note, "Nellie is the mother of Ivy M Gibbs, living next door at 340 " Incidentally, the note's inaccurate, as 340 is just the household number, and not part of the address.
Ivy's birth:
GIBBS, IVY MAY MILDRED mms GIBBS GRO Reference: 1899 S Quarter in PADDINGTON Volume 01A Page 39
Perhaps the first marriage would have been a shotgun marriage, but then one or other of them backed out of it. Presumably Joseph William admitted he was the father, as the birth was registered in his name, and not as an illegitimate birth.
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Ivy's still living with her grandparents in 1911.
Ivy May Mildred Gibbs in the 1911 England Census Name: Ivy May Mildred Gibbs Age in 1911: 11 Estimated Birth Year: abt 1900 Relation to Head: Grandchild Gender: Female Birth Place: Paddington Civil Parish: Lambeth County/Island: London Country: England Street Address: 30 Elliott Road, North Brixton S W Registration District: Lambeth Registration District Number: 25 Sub-registration District: Brixton ED, institution, or vessel: 07 Piece: 2056 Household Members: Name Age John Joseph Gibbs 76 Emily Louisa Ann Gibbs 69 Ivy May Mildred Gibbs 11
She married William H Doughty in 1932, and in 1939 is living in Harrow with her husband. Her DOB was 15 June 1899. Died in Nottingham in 1951.
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