Suggestions

OK, I stand corrected - I mean pages listed alphabetically.

You can't actually 'number' things alphabetically, David. Think about it

Hi Shelley

My suggestion would be for the pages to be numbered alphabetically, this would then save us having to scroll through lots of pages in order to find a particular contact.

Thanks
David

David ..............


Shelley says ................


"... clarify the suggestion ...."



I would think she meant your original suggestion



as far as your problem with women ........................



that's YOUR problem



I an sure I am not alone in keeping my married name, and even my maiden name, out of the contacts list.



Maybe you did not understand my reasoning as posted earlier .........................



but then you have probably never experienced online harassment, or even worried about the possibility



I can assure you, and Shelley, that if GR ever institute a policy whereby maiden, married, AND GR user names are connected and provided to other users .............. then I will be gone from this site.


it's a major, major privacy issue

Hi Shelley
Do you mean me to clarify my suggestion about the numbered contact pages (original topic of this thread) or my difficulty with female contacts referenced by both their maiden and married surnames?
Regards
David

Hi David,

Would you be able to clarify the suggestion, and we can look in to the re-organisation.

Regards,

Shelley

Can you not delete the ones you do not want ie someone has pm'd about a post on the boards, which is of no relevance to you.

I am sure I do this

of course we have our tree(s) under our maiden name!!

That's the way OUR ancestry is traced back, NOT through our married name




However .............. you will find that a large number of women on this site (and on others!) do not use either their maiden or married surnames




For example, my surname according to GR is "InCanada"


it is the way we preserve our privacy, and prevents our names getting out onto the internet .......

....... it also protects us from harassment by members on the site.

Send a pm to a member with your real name on it means that they can find you in real life, and thus contact you by phone or snail mail ...................


and that HAS happened on GR, at least twice that I know of.

Biggest problem I have is with female contacts. Women generally have their Tree under their maiden name but their contact is via their married name. Tracing back correspondence becomes a nightmare.
David

It seems strange that you can sort the list on the Relation Name but not on the contact name.

I see from Natasha's latest update that this idea is being considered for adoption, with people being given the choice of alphabetical or chronological.

Well done, David.

I am all for an alphabetical sort.. it has worked since one first had a childhood dictionary.

It is a very keep it simple principle even my mobile contacts are alphabetically sorted without me asking it to do so.

Persie

My simple little mind thinks ...........


It should not be impossible for the search facility to be set up so that the "consumer" (ie, the members) could sort on the basis of Name or Date of Contact.



I was doing that with a software programme back in the 1990s :-D


Mind you, that programme had been designed specifically for my use and purposes. It was, however, later sold to several other agencies.

That's a good idea for those who remember names and have a large number of contacts.

I have only a small number of pages of contacts (6) and would not like to have to search 26 pages when I don't know the name of the contact I am looking for but have a reasonable idea of when I last made contact.

Yes. A good idea.

Right.

Letters rather than Numbers would seem to be a big improvement. This is the suggestion to put forward,

Yes?

Instead of page numbers they should have letters; so if you click on A you get a list of names beginning with that letter. ;-)

I still use the stars.No longer able to sort in order but it helps.as I know that all five stars are my paternal line etc,

If you have a lot of contacts putting them in alphabetical order is not going to help you find them - unless you use the search box.

The shared tree list is the same - how do you work out which page the M's are on? Without using the search box it is guesswork, and I hardly ever get it right first time.

InspectorGreenPen, exactly my point! you have to use the search box, the contact list is of no use unless you can interrogate it or order it in some way, as you can with the tree list. Having 10's or 100's of numbered pages of contacts is just a waste of facility, who is going to bother to look through it anyway?