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I was getting quite worried there with all these threads being whooshed but I found us down on page 5. Thought I would nudge up to the top for the night owls.

ann
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Hi all

need to polish my halo and preen my wings did a one hour stint in the register office today for some one and managed to get over 30 certificates .Got writers cramp and a head like broth but it is fun and she is over the moon.
We are so lucky here in scotland ( rub it in ) to have immediate access to records .
I find doing things like that gives me a purpose for forcing myself out and takes my mind off the dreaded panic attacks .
I am £15 lighter but have no doubt the lady will pay me back .
Y Caz so sorry to see you are in so much pain .Why do you not contact NFSH and see if you can get a healer to come visit .It really can do no harm and might help with the pain .Wish I lived closer to you
Love and thoughts to you all my brain is as I said like broth after my research today .so can't remember everyones posts
Kathy xxx

Hi all, slept most of today as I really didn't get a lot of rest on those days o.h. was away, and he arrived home an hour earlier than expected Weds night too. I think everything caught up with me but altho I slept almost11 hrs I am still a bit tired.
He took the Fiesta to be mot'd on his way to work but had overslept so didn't have time to make a pack up, he brought the car back after his shift and pottered round the garden etc but later when I got up he said he didn't feel well. Didn't want a meal but then I realised he had hardly eaten all day and I think he had been drinking this afternoon, he was very confused which is the way he gets when exhausted. I was so worried at one point I almost called an ambulance. He is not a good patient, well he is a man lol. Got him to eat toast and shortbread and have a cuppa and he slept in the chair and said he felt better, then went to bed. He didn't bother to bath when he got home from work, as he usually does, which annoyed me as I had only changed the bedding on Monday. Good thing it is only a short shift Friday. He can rest in the afternoon and I will cook him a good meal later on. What's the betting he will still go in and do a voluntary 10/12 hr shift on Saturday. I think it is just as well we have the holiday coming up but the bathroom is still not finished and so he will have that waiting for him when he gets back altho he will be away the following weekend for Father's Day, visiting his son and he goes there by train.
Kathy, well done you with all your hard work and hope you get the money back ok.

Mary, how lovely to get those herbs and things, chocolate mint sounds gorgeous. You can buy some flowers called Cosmos I think they are, that smell of chocolate too, you have to get the right ones tho. Glad you could indulge yourself a little, to help your mental state a bit. Hope things look better for you all soon.

Y Caz, so sorry you are suffering so much at the mo and hope you will find some relief from the pain soon, don't know what to suggest to help you, wish I could do something to help.

For all of you, this is the best my brain will do at the mo, still juggling my finances as I have to pay over £100 car tax at the end of the month, just as we start our holiday. Good thing I don't need much to take with me, and not a place to be buying lots of souveniers.
love and hugs to you all, you too Joyce and hope everyone has a good weekend coming up, forecast isn't good but then what's new, it's Bank Holiday lol
Lizxxx

Ann, bus pass not here yet, hope it arrives before next Friday so I can take it on holiday, can hop on the bus then if I don't feel like driving and o.h.is off elsewhere, or we can both use the buses, with only one paying it will probably be cheaper than petrol and carparking lol

Update on my dad. He is improving very slowly. He has shingles very bad, in the eyes and mouth as well as face and head. He has started to get some sight back in his left eye. They have had him on morphine and are now weaning him of slowly. They had major problems getting a drip in as he was so dehydrated, but the fluids are helping.

I am having a break from the hospital today, only because he is improving and I am very worn out. It is a blessing that they kept him in the nearest hospital and did not send him away. They are so good to him there. Dad has been through so much and I have been there with him, this is the first time I have felt I may loose him. He is still hanging in there though.

I did not know that shingles could be so bad, I mean life threatening.

Dad said he can bear all of this to just see his new great grandchild. At least the new baby is giving him something to hang onto.

Will keep in touch and let you know how he is getting on. It looks for now that the crisis is over.

Gail

Hi Gail, good news that the crisis is over and your dad is improving, albeit slowly. You need to make the most of today and rest, put your feet up for once. Sorry I haven't pm'd you for a while I have had so much to cope with but we will catch up. I have a pen friend, 25 years we've been writing and I have not written to her since just after Christmas, used to be twice weekly. Trouble is that the smallest thing takes me so long to do that I always seem to have a full day of doing nothing.
Take care and enjoy your rest.

Caz xx

Hi all
Kathy, glad to see you enjoyed a productive day researching, sounded very satisfying if exhausting.
Gail so pleased to hear that your Dad is getting better. Lots of positive thoughts winging their way to him
Liz, 11 hours! don't think i have ever slept that long but you obviously needed it.
YCaz, hope today will be a better one for you and that your pain will lessen at least a little bit.

I have minutes to type up from a meeting on Tuesday. Why am I happy to type away on here but it is a real effort to type up minutes? note to self *stop procrastinating and get on with it!!!

Ann
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morning everyone

I hope you all have a lovely day

Gill

hi everyone sorry havent been on for a while been workin in charity shop. a bit annoyed this morning been plannin 4 months goin campin monday mum rings up says her and ma brother been discussing whether or not to go on mon cuz of rain. every time we plan something she always lets us down. we r still goin on monday tho with ma cousin and her kids so we'll still have a good time. im not lettin my kids down they've been lookin forward to this as much as me.
seeya l8r sharon

Good afternoon all,
Have not been on here for a while.Things are still definitely 'not good'.
Caz, I was shocked and sad to read about all the awful pain and discomfort you are suffering.Some people seem to get it all....very unfair.My heart goes out to you.
Gail, I am pleased that your dad is improving, albeit slowly.
Mary, have not heard of chocolate mint.Does it actually taste of chocolate or mint?
To everyone else on here who is suffering,mentally and/or physically, I wish you peace of mind and hope your sufferings ease soon.

Eileen x

Hi Eileen, it smells like a chocolate mint sweet, a bit of each. The leaves are very similar to the 'common or garden' mint but with a brownish tinge. Smells so good LOL.
Mary

hi everyone i do hope you all well ,ive not been on for a day so ive got some posts to catch up on ,would you all mind if i screammmmmmmmmmmmm thats better needed to do that ,well after hubbys scare the other day glad to report he is a little better well as can be expected ,now sons just come from docs and she has sent a urgant refural of to hospital as he has a suspious mole ,and has to have it removed so now we waiting on his appiontment she said in 2 weeks time those that rember my daughter went through this a few months ago ,also you may rember daughter is on police bail for sumat she hasnt done well i thought it would be all over tonight as she hato surendar to bail well police just rang bail been put back to june 11 im getting more worked up over it now as we dont no whats going on so i feel like screeminggggggggggggg thats better ramble over thank you for letting me drive you all insane lol hugs to all xxelaine xx

Well everyone, I am too tired now to type too much.
Came on this morning and typed a big e-mail to a friend.... and deleted it.
But that is only because I am a genius....
However, we watched a really good DVD this afternoon and I came back on to re do any bits I had wanted.... short of course!
Now tea is almost ready, so I'm off.
I have read some of your messages and we are all a little under the weather this week, but keep smiling... it is the very best medicine.
a laugh a day keeps the doctor away... Well I wish.
We do enough laughing don't we?
SO... why are the doctors still in business?? ;-0)

love to all,
Deanna XXX

Hi

I am doing really well with my ocd lately. A few mental rituals but am resisting the urge to self harm, ie press hard on my neck pulses.

I am trying better at resisting the horrible rituals. I still worry that if I dont do one, then something bad will happen even though I know it wont.

Ben

You are doing OK Ben you admit that you know nothing bad will happen if you don't do the rituals, that is half the battle, well done.

Deanna, maybe we're not eating enough apples!!!

Elaine, wonder why they extended bail until June. could be because they have not found enough evidence to bring a case.

Ann
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not sleeping very well so thought I get up. Feeling a bit anxious. I was a bit like this the other day. not getting much sleep at night then by the afternoon feeling tired and dropping off. One day last week though at hospice shop got a bit breathless busy iron and went dizy thought going to pass out lost balance luckly the ironing board was there to grab. Thing is I could under stand if I hadnt eaten but I had just had my lunch and a drink. Anyway just watched a good movie. going to see what else is on the box. see you later love shaz

Hi Shaz, sorry I missed you. It is awful when you can't stay asleep and things start whizzing round in your head, and makes it all much worse. Hope you have found a good prog to watch on tv. I can't do that cos o.h. is in the bedroom above and the stairs at the side of the room are open plan, so if I want to be able to hear the programme properly it is a waste of time when he is asleep.

Ben, well done, keep trying to ignore those feelings, keep yourself busy and hopefully the ocd will disappear into oblivion.
There is a programme on tv next week about women hoarders lol, they didn't ask me, I wonder if I will recognise myself on there. Wish I could find the strength to get rid of things and get sorted out.
To everyone who is worrying about their loved ones, my thoughts are with you and hope things get better for you all soon.
love and hugs
Lizxxx

Good morning everyone

Hope you all have a nice day

(((((((((hugs for all)))))))))

Gill

Liz, have you tried watching the tv with the sound down and the sub titles on? Most programmes have them, with my hearing problem I use them all the time (except on news programmes when they ahve a delay and are annoying.

Ann
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Liz and Ann, I bought special head phones which could be plugged in to the t.v, so that my aunt could hear what was being said.I came home once, parked the car in the parking bay, could hear the t.v blasting away from about 100 meters.The plug had fallen out....Had to stop using them because the flex ran accross her room,so I was scared she would trip over it when her condition got worse.There are cordless head phones apparently, in the shops.
Sleepness nights are dreadful, your mind does tend to go round and round, like a hamster in a wheel.Night times are so awful when you have problems on your mind, see no way out of them.
Deanna, hope you are all feeling much better today. Mary, I will have a look at the garden center to see if they have that chocolate mint.Don't think so, as it is not a very inspirational place at the best of times.
To all of you who are feeling low, for whatever reason,take care.

Eileen x

Eileen
I have a pair of cordless headphones but they are heavy on my head. I have surround sound from the TV with a speaker by my right ear so all I need are the subtitles for the soft bits I miss. I don't turn th tV up too loud because my OH has very sensitive hearing - he could hear a pin drop in the next street. well a bit of an exaggeration but you get the picture.

Lovely day here today.

Ann
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