General Chat

Hi Lucia, of course we remember you, well if you is the same one we used to talk to lol
If you want to pm me, feel free.

Mary, what's this about your going to bed early lol?
And a ticket? Smacked wrist, lady!

Carole, hope things go better for your Dad soon.

To everyone, sorry can't keep up with everyone individually but doesn't mean I don't care.
love and hugs to you all
Lizxxx

Morning all

((((((((hugs))))))))) for Elaine, hope things are getting better for you.

Sorry I am a bit of a misery today so I am going to do some more of my tree.

Hope everyone has a nice day today.

Gill

Taking a break... blood pressure is too high and I am giddy most of the time. I have too much going on in my life to cope with and need help. I have to walk away from here for a little while as I get to involved with peeps who are being bullied.

Take care all, I will look in at pm's in a few days time.

Gill

Hi Lucia, how are you doing love?

Of course I remember you.
You were studying hard for your exams.... then my pooter died!!

Was it the stress of the exams that made you anxious?
Well you have landed on your feet here love... there are some lovely people here, all with problems, and you can talk to all of them.... and it will not be judged.

Mary, how are you today love?
Will E-mail you later as I'm going for my coffee..... must keep the routines of my little life.... LOL

Jan I hope someone on here can help you.
I am lucky enough to still have my husband so I can only imagine what she is suffering... and even the image in my mind of losing my Allan... is hard to deal with. Poor woman... a hug helps, but it doesn't last does it?

Janet, Kerry, Ann, CazY, Caz C,Joyce P, Joyce Dutch, Gill, Elaine, Kathy and your boy, Carole, and anyone I have forgotten..... have a lovely day.

I'm having a better day than yesterday, so stick in there.
we will all come through.

Remember Scarlett O'Hara girls! ;-0)

O.M.G.... am I beginning to sound certifiable?

Deanna XX

afternoon ,all my cyber frends ,carole thank you for pm me it amazes me how you keep track of every one gill here if you need a chat ,deanna thank you for asking after me things still the same have heard nothing from the police as to yet ,regarding daughter hope eveyone else is having a good day .went bk to gp this morning after he asked to see me im a little calmer not so shakey just on inside it now turns out ive a cheast infection so on antibiotics for 2 weeks with all these pill ill be ratting but i do that anyway lol then bumped into neighbour and the first thing they said was you dont look well are you ok so that set me of thinking sumat must be wrong carnt be anx attacks round and round i go all take care xxelaine xx

hi all i hope everyone is ok and as well as can be
my husband got a letter today about his half brother
i don't know how to explain it so i will just put it as it reads

i refer to your recent application for a birth certificate relating to p***** d****** as you may know the matter has been referred hear

shortly after the birth was registered the staff at *****were contacted by the police as part of there investigation the police visited the address were the birth was alleged to have taken place and found that the house had been unoccupied for several months

the divisional medical officer could find no trace of a birth taking place in 1970 to a m*** d****** and it was accordingly referred here by the staff at the register office as a possible fictitious birth

there has been no further correspondence on our file to indicate that such a birth did indeed take place and accordingly the register general is unable to issue a certificate of the entry

as you all can imagine my husband and i are devastated not just because his mum lied to him but because he so much wanted a brother

love and hugs to all

carolina xx

Hi everyone
I have been so busy today. Trying to catch up on jobs I didn't have time for yesterday. Tomorrow I am taking Mum to visit Dad again. Hope he looks better than yesterday!

I've sent a couple of pm's but to everyone else
take care I'll be back tomorrow morning or afternoon
if I don't get chance earlier xxx

thats fantastic jules you should be really proud of your self for going on the bus. I had some one with me the first time. And like i said earlier i walked to my mum round the corner of the street. And my mum gave me a big hug. So i send you a hug well done.

Yay! People remember me! :-)

I'm still stressed about studying despite my capacity to work 9 hours a day outside lectures bizarrely :s; probably because its the only yardstick I measure myself against.

At the moment though I'm stressed because I've just calculated that I'll be living on £11 a week for this month on account of other costs weighing on my shoulder but this will mean that I probably won't be able to afford to eat and have a social life which is what happened last month...ah the trials of being a student :( I wish the government would give everyone a grant for university. The way they calculate it, if you're middle class you lose out whereas if you're poor you're all paid for and if you're rich; well you're rich. I can't afford to buy YFT anymore - :O

Oh and I hope you're all well and I give you all a big hug ((())) xxxxxx

Lucia

Sorry to be dumb but what is YTF ?

What uni did you eventually decide to go to ? I read your old posts where you couldn't decide .
I am just being nosey !
To the rest of the gang
Had a very boring day at FHS I can't believe we have so much info and so little visitors . Think too much on internet which is not a bad thing but it might cause the end of Societies which would be sad .I for one would loose my un paid job which costs me £2.80 to get there and back !!
Y caz hope your pain is better
Liz my pal hope things are ok
Carole hope your bowels are behaving
other caz hope things get better
Gill hope you are feeling stronger
Elaine you are my twin !!I don't cope well with going out
Just because I haven't named you in person doesn't mean I have forgotten you it's just our gang has got big which is great but my memory is not so good !!
So love to all
Kathy xxx

Hello Kathy! Here's a hug ((())) :-)

I'm at the University of St Andrews now studying for a History degree which is exciting - one month left until I've finished my first year - wow!

Lots of Love
xxxx

Hi Kathy, thanks yes I am ok, slept late today so didn't get a lot done, what's new lol

Lucia, glad you are enjoying uni and hope you can sort out your finances so you can eat, don't want you fading away.

Everyone else, my brain just cannot co-ordinate all the various messages so altho you know I care, I just cannot do the individual messages on here. Am snowed under with emails too so please excuse me if I am slow getting back to you or those with my direct mail addy, find their messages get returned to them.
Btw, anyone seen Betty Innisfree lately, hope you are ok love, if you are reading the threads.

love to all
Lizxxx

Hi gang and hello and welcome to the newbies. Thought I had better show my face and let you know I am still around. Elaine it never gets any easier for you does it, I hate it when people say that to me,about not looking well, and they do it when I have started to feel a little better, uurrgggh.
Kathy I am starting to feel a little easier in my hips and back but still have trouble using hands and arms but I'm getting there slowly. The main problem is falling over all the time so I try to stay sat in one place. Doing that I have got back two more generations of my tree and feel very pleased with myself, a third one is there but needs confirming but is before 1837, so harder to do.
I won't mention names as I don't want to leave anyone out, too many now to remember for my poor brain.
I will ask about Malc and Dave though, I haven't seen them on thread for a while now, if your looking in let us know how you are doing please.

Have a good day all, love to you all.

Caz xx

Well the prodigal daughter returns to the fold only to find postings are down somewhat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Right, let me guess where you all might be, how many are on a sleepover or two, or just sleeping, who are playing truant, maybe some of you just might be spring cleaning...naughty word that...arrrrr I know..now we have the lighter nights you are all out in your gardens digging, uprooting and planting away like beavers..stopping of course for the odd chat to your neighbour and swigging jugs of tea!! just make sure to check your deckchairs before you sit in them in case the material has rotted during the winter, don't want any broken limbs do we!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Briefly I would like to thank you all for the remarks and pm's you sent regarding my hospital visit..t'is lovely to be loved xxxx
My daughter who handed over her beloved Sisko to her daughter in Coventry is obviously on a downer but is going to visit very soon...by the way during my visit to the consultant on Wednesday my daughter did remark that she had thought of putting me in the horsebox instead of Sisko, I would be out to graze 24/7 and she would feed me an apple from time to time... this poor bloke now knows he has two zany people to put up with.lol.
No feedback from my bank regarding those fraudelent withdrawals, have now received new bank card, pin number etc but what a hassle which I didn't need...

In my short break from the 'real world' I have missed out on quite a few postings but will say a brief hello to all.

MMary.....B12..lovely jubbley.had the injection for over 12 years but my doc decided to stop them over five years ago..went down hill and have asked him to reinstate them, better than sliced bread.xx
Elaine.......hope your chest infection is improving xx
Janet...... how's the decorating going, better you than me..thanks for your hugs xxx
Liz....... you certainly help to sparkle up
our lives xxxx
AnnGG...hope it is still sunny in Cardiff x
Gail.......Full marks for presenting the family tree even though you did not get the credit, at the time xxxxx
Kerry....congratulations to you daughter and her exam results, brill.xxxx
Kathy....hope your sore back is improving and when does your son return to uni? which uni is he attending? xxxx
Carolina....sorry you are experiencing the sadness in researching your hubbies tree xxx
Jan...... welcome to the clan lass xxxx
Carole....between your Mom and Dad you are one busy lady, just you take care xxx
Lucia.....hi and welcome, my grandaughter was at Uni of Glasow and passed in Forensic Science, loved every minute of her time there.xxx
Deanna.....Before I even start..I might has many things wrong with me but I am not deaf, so STOP SHOUTING AT ME lol.. how is Allan now and has he come to terms with the cardiovision failure, bless him, did promise to pm you but don't hold your breathe because your lungs take priority....especially when you need to SHOUT lol...xxx
Sharon.....I have your name on my longgggggggggggggggggggggggg list but I cannot remember who you are or what you do, sorry lass xxxxx

Phew, am away to whet my whistle, be back in a sec.....

Right, no posting is complete without the mention of our Y Caz who swallows more pills than the lot of us put together...mind you she is excellent at rattling and rolling and not too bad with a rolling pin either, when she can catch me that is.lol..
Caz, you could always make contact by SHOUTING but reckon Deanna just might take umbrage.lol. Am thinking of you and will pm later.xxx

Just looked at the 'characters remaining' section which tells me I have just typed 3543 words...based on the fact that you start with 5000 characters, what happens if you go over the 5000? do GR pop up and tell you 'you talk too much', wouldn't surprise me xxxxxx
Just a reminder to Ann, Deanna and Carole, I am keeping my eye on more numbers, right.. 3000 is my goal, so don't try and sneak it from me.

For now I will love and leave you all and hope that whatever is planned for today goes without a hitch...wishful thinking I hear a lot of you say, but go for it.

Lots to all,

JoyceP xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Y Caz xxxx

You/ we are doing it again..unintentionally we happen to post almost at the same time...are you sure we are not twins xxxxxx

JoyceP xxx

Hi Everyone...

Hope you're all doing ok, Sorry I don't come on very often now but I'm always looking in.

Things my end are going ok....finally finished the house, just carpets all thro then a few finishing touches n we'll be ready to relax n enjoy it before starting on the outside.

Went away for a few days 'back home' to spend some time with the girls n my parents, was lovely.

Sharon....thank you for the PM...have replied.

Love n hugs to one n all

xxxxxxxxx

Morning everyone....
Had such a bad nights sleep, kept waking having really bad dreams, was so hot b/f said i was burning and he couldnt touch me ..Think it might be my hormones should really get it checked at docs....

Daughter got a party today so will at least get two hours peace, shes been awake since 06.15 and not stopped talking since..Going to family christening tomorrow which im not lookinh forward to as its two hr drive away and not sure i can sit in church with this anxiety, but will try my hardest and will have my Rescue Remedy with me...

Joycep you are sooo good to remember all our names...Hope your well and having a good day and to everyone else hope today is a god and happy one whatever you are doing....

Kerry x x x

Just quickly before I shower and start my day....
Joyce wow, you can talk the hind legs off a donkey!!
But all lovely and funny, my daughter must have heard me lol !! xx

Caz lovely to see you there, and how exciting to get back two more generations. How you feeling today?
Keep resting and working the brain on that tree.xx

Jules bet your house looks lovely. How's the
muscles after all that work? xx Have I missed the post you said you were going to make ? Whats this about going on a bus? xx

Jan hope you got some help xx

Lucia I don't think we have met before. I love history
but can't remember all the dates! Hope your course goes well. How long have you had anxiety for? Just
do something now, don't let it get set in!! xx

Deanna what have you been up to? xx

Ann GG haven't seen much of you latley but thanks for emails xx

Kathy my bowels are slowly improving! Haven't been taking imodium since September. Its a struggle in the mornings to leave the house but I've done it. Dreading the longer journeys to work that are coming up. How have you been? Why dosen't your fhs pay your expenses? Ours offered me expenses if I was to voulenteer. Check that out xxx Is J back at uni?

Gail hows them chickens? Take care of you and oh.
Thinking of you xx

Janet anything to tell? How have you been? xx

C Caz nice to see you again xx

Eleanor you have been missing!! xx

Liz are you feeling any better now? xx

Dave are you doing okay? xx I know you said you would look inx

Malc have you started your counselling now? xx

Ben how's the temptation to carry out your rituals
been? Are you still trying to push it to one side ? xx

Elaine any news? xx

Sharon hi how are you ? xx

Irene where are you? xx

Kerry are you back at work now? xx

Carolina how is your oh? xx Is he feeling bewildered?

Mary thinking of you loads, now you take some rest!! (Yeh fine chance) Go on sit down a couple of minuites. Tie the kids up so they behave!! (I'm joking incase anyone thinks other)!! xx

There are a few missing, I'll be looking for you later. Also those who posted early on when this started who have stopped posting, you are in my thoughts
xx

Now I must move

Carole I am doing well thanks, had a letter from the doctor this morning to go for more blood tests....just wants to see how well the iron is doing probably.

You amaze me, you never leave anyone out, and it takes me all my time to remember ME!
And... I never ask how you are Carole... sorry, it is because you are the *mummy* figure on here.. ;-0)

AND JOYCE P....... I was shouting so you could hear me, you have not been around much and I was worried..... shan't bother next time..... go on then.... disappear.....

CazY... are you okay, not heard from you either.

Lucia....tins of beans and a few loaves of bread..... you'll be fine love... ;-0)

Well I will be back later, but I have to go just now.

Have a lovely day all of you.
Deanna XX

morning all kerry im sure you will be fine at the chrisning tomorrow i was in that situation a few weeks ago said last goodbyes to a lovley aunt i was dreading it the thought of sitting in church with having anx attacks ,yes i did have one as soon as we arrived kept saying i couldnt do it i hid behind daughters car but in the end i did manage it and was so glad i did and i no my aunt would have been proud of me ,kathy i hate this not being able to go out on my own have never been like this before ,caz its just one thing after another latley ,so hoping i have a good weekend ,joyce hi thank you for asking after me im not to bad today hoping that these antibiotics work soon ,carole thank you for your pm im so pale if i was to put make up on i would certanly look like a clown ,to all who ive missed hope you all have a good weekend xxelaine xx