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***Julie*Ann***.sprinkling fairydust***

***Julie*Ann***.sprinkling fairydust*** Report 1 Nov 2007 21:28

its that puss and alternating between constipation or diahorea, some othe rsymptoms,
one of my doctors printed out a slip for me with the explanation on

Ladylol Pusser Cat

Ladylol Pusser Cat Report 1 Nov 2007 20:58

i did liz thanks luckily for me i love water and havent really got a sweet tooth and eat fresh food

... girls is ibs well the symptoms is a stomache pain/ach at the bottom of your stomache

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond Report 1 Nov 2007 20:50

Did you all read my thread about aspartame? I am trying to avoid it like the plague - I have always wondered if I was poisoning myself by something I was doing or eating, but blamed the mercury from my fillings as I grind my teeth when asleep especially.
Apart from a bit of depression due to the weather, I have to say I haven't felt quite so bad since I got home from Malta and while I was there I did a bit more walking than usual, and as anyone who has visited Malta knows, the pavements aren't that easy to walk on and it is quite hilly, I did get a bit breathless on the steep bits in Valletta etc but put that down to my asthma.

Hope you start to feel a bit better, I take the little Actimel drinks and they help with the bloating and ibs a bit.

Lizx

***Julie*Ann***.sprinkling fairydust***

***Julie*Ann***.sprinkling fairydust*** Report 1 Nov 2007 19:53

oh no dawnie
thats horrible for you
my throat bin sore for few days again
its awful isnt it, i tried those xtra strenght strepsils in work, they dint work,

my headaches back last two days, it started yesterday lunchtime, and it here agen today, and its making me distracted and forgetful,
so thats about 2 weeks off from it i had

arrrrrrrrrrgh i so sick of pain
hugs to all today

Dawnieher3headaches

Dawnieher3headaches Report 1 Nov 2007 19:26

why do you have your week planned and know you can cope with the little you do and then someone throws a spanner in the works and you get so tired cos you havent allowed for the extra bits.

Scouts suddenly sprung rehearsal for concert on us so have had the fetchng and carrying for that and then got the concert tomorrow, really not sure if I will make it as throat is killing me and got a lip full of ulcers that are so painful as well.

Sorry moans over.

d x

Dawnieher3headaches

Dawnieher3headaches Report 25 Oct 2007 19:27

oh yipee another trip to quacks t get sorted then.

***Julie*Ann***.sprinkling fairydust***

***Julie*Ann***.sprinkling fairydust*** Report 25 Oct 2007 19:09

dawnie
its ibs, by sounds
im on buscopan for that,

its another symptom of FM as the girls say,
some fibre does make it worse but also pain killers,
try some cereal before bed, sometimes that helps
but ask doc for something like buscopan

Small but Perfectly Formed Wendy

Small but Perfectly Formed Wendy Report 25 Oct 2007 15:09

Dawnie i get that too IBS and it is painful, differnt tnings trigger it in different people, one of my bad triggers is processed white bread.

Wendy.xxxx

Dawnieher3headaches

Dawnieher3headaches Report 25 Oct 2007 15:08

Gillie

I am that bloated look 7 months pregnant.

mainly eat veg off allotment and bananas. Cucumber gives me heartburn so try and avoid that although have been eating tomatoes but not a lot.

Am gonna have to start a diary of when it happens and what I ate just before or day before.

Am gonna send hubby out for a shovel and dig a big hole for myself.

Forgetmenot

Forgetmenot Report 25 Oct 2007 15:00

Dawnie, it sounds to me like you have irritable bowel syndrome, I found those activia drinks made mine worse, co-codamol do give you constipation as do all painkillers, I also found a lot of fruit and veg skins give me IBS, especially grapes, tomato, apple and cucumber skin, it made my stomach bloat and gave me dreadful cramps, I am careful now in what I eat, it's taken me a while to work out what upset my stomach, I hope you feel better soon.

Gillie XX

PS, IBS is another part of FM, another to add to symptoms, rotten isnt it.

Dawnieher3headaches

Dawnieher3headaches Report 25 Oct 2007 14:54

Strange one this but does anyone else suffer with this or am I lookingat something else going wrong with me.

Have had it a few times and this morning was in tears with it and made me feel sick.

Have a really fat belly and belly ache and then when I sit down its as if the pain is going all the way up inside me. COuldnt even do my trousers up this morning.

I am eating plenty of fruit and veg as Dr told me that Co-codamol would make me constipated and also eat activia type yghurts to help me guts.

Dont know if this is part of the FM or something else just know its b;**dy painful.

Am I alone in this one?

~Summer Scribe~

~Summer Scribe~ Report 24 Oct 2007 22:59

Gillie, I can understand that, but if you don't appeal then they just keep getting away with it. And it's something you deserve to receive.

My DLA notification arrived this morning and I've been awarded the same again. High mobility and Low care. The basis of the care component is that I can't cook for myself. I'm hoping to have my own flat soon and there's no way £17 a week is gonna pay for someone to cook me meals. I'll be back to living off pot noodles i think lol. God knows what you have to do to qualify for more than the lower rater of care coz I could sure use more help.

***Julie*Ann***.sprinkling fairydust***

***Julie*Ann***.sprinkling fairydust*** Report 24 Oct 2007 18:55

hi all
my brains useless dawnie
im so tired, im sat here yawning, gotta get sons tea yet, and mine thinking of it,
my sons in work till 8pm as he works after school, dad brings him home,
we been busy in work as theres loads of customers prescriptions and theres work being done on the shop, extention, so weve had all that to put up with too,
i threw more tablets down me neck when i got threw the door,
in my head i feel like im not old but my body feels 80 , hubby offered to get a gun and shoot me last week i said yeh ok thats fine,

the hotness i get, thought it were hotflushes, but i burn up, then last two days i been freezing, not normal for me mind you whats normal these day
sending you all hugs cos like me i think it would help you

Dawnieher3headaches

Dawnieher3headaches Report 24 Oct 2007 17:59

Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

sorry had to do that , feel so rank today really dont know why I bother some days.

want to answer threads but cant get what I want to say sound right then people will think I am having a go at people.

Anyone got a spare half useful brain I can have cos mine

Small but Perfectly Formed Wendy

Small but Perfectly Formed Wendy Report 24 Oct 2007 13:39

Hi Dawnie, know how you feel.............i am burning up again.xxxxxx

Forgetmenot

Forgetmenot Report 24 Oct 2007 12:22

Hi Everyone and Summer.

I had my DLA forms filled in by a lady from a disability place in Woking,it took nearly 5 hours to fill the forms in, she wrote everything for me, they are similar to CAB, they do forms for all sorts of disabilities, I can't remember the name of them.
No I didn't have a medical for DLA, I haven't the strength to go and appeal, I am so fed up with always having to fight for everything I need, I am so disillusioned with the way benefits are handed out.
I am probably feeling sorry for myself today as it isn't a good day.
Lifes a bitch at times with no help from the very people we should get help from, don't get me wrong, hubby and lads are good to me, I just feel the medics and government aren't listening.

Gillie XXX

Dawnieher3headaches

Dawnieher3headaches Report 24 Oct 2007 10:26

Wendy

My hubby often says to me are you ok as I am burning up and he cant touch my skin as its so hot when in fact I feel ok, last night he said it but my feet were freezing. I have even sent a letter to my Rheumatologist about it as he is doing blood tests for something else and didnt know if it was relevant to that or not.
Today house is boiling as have the woodburners on but I am freezing, my hands are sooooooooo cold

Am just off to phone Dr as prescription hasnt arrived and I have no tablets apart from a few cocodamol and my chest is hurting like hell again, just wish I could did a hole and bury myself.


Hope you feel better soon.

Small but Perfectly Formed Wendy

Small but Perfectly Formed Wendy Report 24 Oct 2007 06:22

Morning all, can i please ask if anyone gets this.....................my legs and hips were really painful last night also i was burning up but at the same time shivering uncontrolably.
Havnt had hardly any sleep now have a raging thirst and inpain and cold again.
Wendy.xxxxx

~Summer Scribe~

~Summer Scribe~ Report 23 Oct 2007 19:09

Gillie, I dunno, it makes me mad that people can get benefits so easily when there's nothing wrong with them and then give the genuine people a bad rep so we end up having to jump through hoops to get them.

Did you have a medical for the DLA? I would appeal and get someone at the CAB to help you.

As someone said, you have to fill it in like it's the worst day. And when it asks about needing help treat as though it's asking if you have difficulty with it. The wording is very cunning and a lot of people think that if they don't have someone helping them with something then it doesn't count...even though ideally we would love to have someone help us with it. It can depressing to examine every little thing you struggle with and write it down but that is the only way to get the benefit.

My dad downplayed his, unfortunately the woman filling it in for him was from age concern and didn't know what he was really like. He got mobility but not care I filled it in for him this time, it took me two months as writing really hurts my hands, but I wasn't going to let him miss out this time.

Forgetmenot

Forgetmenot Report 23 Oct 2007 18:54

All I can say is, OMG!!!! I have taken sweetners in my drinks for the last 10-12 years, I was refered to my rheumatologist 10-12 years ago! I drank diet coke for many many years, up to 2 litres a day, I was addicted to it, I eventually stopped drinking it and don't touch fizzy drinks of any sort any more.
I have been on many meds for FM including Gabapentin, Amitriptyline, both of which I cannot take, they just don't agree with me, I have been on Pregabolin now for the past 2-3 years, I take 600mg a day and the same with Tramadol topping up with paracetamol if needed.
Recently I have felt much better although every time I use my hands they become numb and tingly with pain in them as well.
I filled in the forms for DLA but was gutted to be turned down, I don't know how ill and how limited my daily life has to be get DLA? I just feel that whoever decides on who's entitled to DLA, needs a kick up the backside and to come and spend a week with me to understand what happens in my daily life.

I've lost all faith in help from the goverment as far as benefits go, how the hell do people diddle benefits and get DLA when they aren't entitled?

Gillie XX