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Anyone got a spare hug, have had a really horrible
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Yvette | Report | 23 Apr 2006 21:09 |
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Since getting back from the Sahara i have had a really grotty time, not least of all with my 19 year old son. Things have lurched from one nasty mood to another and ruined my birthday last week. This week it has got even worse and resulted in a huge row today where he packed his bags and walked out. I don't know where he has gone, or if he is coming back. Part of me is so heatbroken over the things he has said i don't want him back and the other part hurts at the loss of the son i adore. They sure break your heart as they grow up don't they. |
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Small but Perfectly Formed Wendy | Report | 23 Apr 2006 21:10 |
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Oh Yvette here ((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) they do break our hearts, xxxxxx |
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PinkDiana | Report | 23 Apr 2006 21:11 |
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No idea what you are going thru as no kids but sending you a (((HUG))) anyway!! xx |
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~˜Kim in | Report | 23 Apr 2006 21:11 |
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(((((((((((((((big hugs))))))))))))))))) yes they do as they get older, im sure he will be back kimxxx |
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Unknown | Report | 23 Apr 2006 21:13 |
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a really big ((((((((HUG)))))))) bryan. |
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Unknown | Report | 23 Apr 2006 21:16 |
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Sorry to hear of your troubles. My kids are much younger, so I have all this to come.! I am sure he'll see sense before too long and apologise. Sending you a (((((hug))))) xx |
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Christine2 | Report | 23 Apr 2006 21:18 |
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Lynda's right Yvette - he's just feeling his feet and is no doubt feeling worse than you now. In 6 months time I bet you'll have forgotten all this and be the best of pals. ((((((((((((hug))))))))))))))))) for now though:)) Chrissie xx |
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Linen | Report | 23 Apr 2006 21:19 |
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Hi Yvette, Always got a hug for you & I know exactly what you are going through!!!! Love Vivienne xx |
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Maz (the Royal One) in the East End 9256 | Report | 23 Apr 2006 21:20 |
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Hope you are ok hun Maz. XX |
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Germaine | Report | 23 Apr 2006 21:20 |
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Yvette any consolation he has probably gone to one of his mates. Hopefully their Mum will ring you let you know he is there. Mine never left but gosh the amount of times I had his mates turn up with their bags . They soon went home but I always said I would never turn them away least we knew they were safe here and their mums always grateful. Hope you get it all sorted soon. Germaine Hugs xxxx |
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Yvette | Report | 23 Apr 2006 21:20 |
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Thanks everyone. I really don't understand what is going on with David, he has always been the most caring of my older two, but he has become a stranger the past couple of months. I divorced his father 17 years ago for violence, and he has had limited contact with him for various reasons, but genetics seem to have had their way, my caring loving son turned into his father today. I am back in a place i never wanted to be. I just wish he would call so i would know he was ok if nothing else. |
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VIVinHERTS | Report | 23 Apr 2006 21:22 |
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Oh Yvette, They sure do break your heart at times don't they? Have to agree with what Lynda has said. Thinking of you, Love Viv. |
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Frances in Norwich | Report | 23 Apr 2006 21:30 |
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Hi Yvette, Sorry to read about your trouble with David. Teenagers can be very hurtful, but from experience I would say that it will be ok in time. Hang in there, thinking of you. Frances x |
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Unknown | Report | 23 Apr 2006 21:39 |
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Ello Yvette:) Sorry yr having a crap time. I was evil at that age - stroppy and angry a lot. I'm sure he's learnt enough from you and Mal to come through it eventually. |
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Jan From Bristol | Report | 23 Apr 2006 21:40 |
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yvette soooo much luv to you an mal hun xx |
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PinkDiana | Report | 23 Apr 2006 21:44 |
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Yvette its not in genes babe, he's just flaring up and reacting badly.... please don't compare him to his dad especially not to his face as that will really hurt him!! xx |
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Lynda Ferret Lady | Report | 23 Apr 2006 21:44 |
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Sounds like its hard for you at the moment but stick with it and I am sure he will realise what a wonderful Mum he has....They all go a bit loopy when they are teenagers... Lynda xx |
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Yvette | Report | 23 Apr 2006 21:46 |
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Pink, it's hard not to when at 6'3'' he raises his hand and his temper to you. |
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PinkDiana | Report | 23 Apr 2006 21:49 |
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Yvette if he's raised his hand make sure the door stays firmly shut on his sorry a%%e!! I wasn't judging you babe honest as I know what its like to live with violence and its not nice at all!! xx |
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Yvette | Report | 23 Apr 2006 21:50 |
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Hi Suzy Sons eh! if i find mine i will happily swap. Hope you had a great holiday, even if you are now in coventry :-) luv n ((hugs)) for you as well Yvette |
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