General Chat

I reluctantly have to agree with Elaine and Peter here. I say reluctantly, because that's what's happening regarding our son at the moment - and some of his 'friends'. With the help of the school, police(!) and a couple other sources, we are trying to address the issues, sometimes delicately! :-( x

i never said what the child did was right i to worked in a shcool i was a teacher of pd and entrprise i was also the link govenorin in charge of staff training what i said was the lady needed suport and help she has done nothing wrong i did pm her and advised her to try to work with the school to resolve the problems

I never did say Sharon did something wrong Joy, Your post mentioned the negative posts (those who diddnt agree that the lad had done nothing wrong) and also mentioned that you were glad some people were more caring (meaning those of us who diddnt agree as above were uncaring ) As you have just said the child is in the wrong yourself, why have you labelled us negative when we have said the same ? I do feel sorry for Sharon but I must say im far sorrier for those who have to put up with this sort of behavior on a regular basis, being pupil or teacher....and it shouldn't be tolerated. I cant understand why people cant understand why the child's been suspended when its obvious to everyone why. Elaine x

i think joy maybe some body is interpretating what you are saying for their own use they are implying what you are thinking instead of listning to what you are saying maybe they should read it again lets hope others carry on being perfect

Anyone for an arguement ? I,m sure this is just what Sharon needs....not ....right or wrong ANOTHER child is on the street as far as education is concerned......Dont forget peeps these kids look after us in our old age!!!!! Sharon,..Take this lad and find some where that is quiet ...not home and ask him WHAT DO YOU WANT? You may be suprised at the answer...hes 12 ...but we forget some times that they have brains....I dont mean you Sharon I mean 'the World' When you,ve asked that ...ask how do you think you will get this if you dont conform ...some what?...not totally...or we loose who we are!! Good luck Sharon XXX and your lad

i think its always hard when your child is misbehaving. but on another note some schools are not able to deal with problems,where other schools excel. my nephew was often disruptive in his early years,no-one could understand why,at home he did all his homework with no fuss. but at school he had problems.luckily his teacher was prepared to listen and understand.it turned out he had difficulty understanding what teachers wanted from him concerning work. after that every teacher was asked to take just a little more time to explain.also some of the kids in the class would make a joke out of him. this was the turning point.he went on to get mainly b grades in his exams.which was good for the joke of the class. also i feel in a situation like this support is needed,both to parents and child. i can see sharon knows she has a problem,she needs help how to deal with it.xxxxxxxxxxx

just thinking about it sharon,my nephews a carpenter now.so that little bit of support went a long way. in saying that hes not put my piggin shelves up yet. off to ring him,lol.xxx

Angel Smith I think YOU should read my postings again and realise in joys response Joy mentioned that Sharon did nothing wrong.....I had not even mentioned Sharon in my posts, let alone partition blame. People should stop making comments regarding the input of OTHERS on this thread who had disagreed with the masses including myself, such as insinuating we're negative and dont care, or that we dont read the posting properly Then there would not be a reaction such as this one to your posting...where the thinly veiled 'someone who is interpreting and implying' quotes are aimed at my last posting to Joy. Have the backbone to say If you feel I'm wrong, and Ill explain my post to you, instead of you making sly thinly veiled comments about myself or others on this thread. No On the other hand dont bother, I dont see why I owe you an explanation at all, as you've obviously not added to this thread other than to be sarky. I'm far from being perfect, never claimed to be, I voiced an opinion and others agreed with my opinion. I tell it as I see it. I have a 12 year old son, and I can see from his point of view If people dont like that...tough. Its a real shame this thread had to be spoiled by people who cant accept another fairly put opinion without being catty...the first starting 3 days after I posted. *Walks away from thread vowing not to respond to any more baiting, which I can now see is carrying on by individuals who should get a life* same old faces jumping on the bandwagon.....

Looks like you are being stalked too Joy Sending positive thoughts to Sharon and Jamie xxx

stalk all they like i am much to busy to be intrested

Sharon Posted in desperation, As a Mum who has had a straight A teen and one who has had massive problems I am at one with her, no one can understand the heartache of a child who has been behaving in such a way until they have been there, Please anyone who wants to attack this lady, please leave her be, she will be doing her best, loving her best and caring her best, Sharon, Im with you, Caz xxxx

PMd you Joy, darlin this lady needs help not condemnation Sharon take care, Caz xxxx

carol you are so right your going to make a wonderful teacher xxx (((((hug for sharon))))

Joy my love, Thankyou, I hope being to hell and back with one of my own helps me, Caz xxxxx

are you all still argueing ???? Anyone thought about LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry to those who are positive but I would delete this thread!! ((((((((((((((((((SHARON))))))))))))))))))

attack all you want cos it`s goin straight over the top and thanx to all who are on my side, this school which he`s being sent to is for god knows who, the lad up the street goes but he`s on drugs, a thief and everything else thats bad. he goes around the streets looking for trouble, whereas jamie would rather go fishing, come home, have a cup off hot tea with sonme biccies and get wrapped up in his quilt in bed and watch tv.. does he sound that bad???? sharon

Sharon luv, I wish you and Jamie all the best wishes in the world, you have a tough job ahead,keep him safe and listen to all he has to say and love him loads....You have some good folks really pulling for you and your family..I hope you will keep us up to date, if you prefer by p.m.

I second what the Dame has just said..I know how hard it can be bringing up chidren...I have worked with 4 year olds with behavioural problems and all their parents have been caring and puzzled Why Them? Our school provides help for these families thank goodness. Thinking of you and hope everything turns out ok..Im sure it will hun Kim xxx

sharon love,dont lose heart.one day this will just be a memory.[trust me]praise him for good,ignore him when hes bad.it does work.and if the school is any good he will be ok.hugsxxxxxxx

Sharon If you read my posts you can see I'm NOT attacking you. Despite what certain people are making you believe on here, with their twisting words and comments. I may have a differing opinion, as some other people have on here that your son deserves his suspension but you were definitely not attacked at all.. By revealing what your son said you opened up the thread for responses you'd rather not hear...and from your posting made after my first post, you seemed to accept the fact that others had a differing opinion. But then again it was before you got sucked in by these individuals who are stirring and have continued to do so after my last post Enjoy the rest of your evening Elaine x