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Lovely to see you posting Joyce .NOW you take it easy and just let things get better as they will in their own time .

Easy does it lady dont go overdoing things .

Take care

Shirley xx

Take it easy Dutch and enjoy your time at home with Jan. Non of us want you back in hospital again. xx

Great news Dutch....keep up the good work, so pleased you are home with Jan and doggie:)


jude xxxx

just akeep word i cant fom on for along time yet i cant speak or writing probley ,and i have headaches and dont sleep better of dights i asked the maney people here that i needed help for the house but they told me no my Jan had to do all when he came home from work he cant do that,so i told the man this is the round pleace if i was were i was born we Always healed one another
can i ask you for alittle thoughts my Grandaughter Rrachel who was morryed afew months ago Phil her husband lost his dad 4 months ago and now his mum has died gets bired on thurs what shame ,but i cant go over with noht being well also can not go on aplane thank you all my friends and for all the cards i got at the hospital,have had alate talking to me she is gilling to talk to his doctor and mine
Love ure people for all your messages Dutchxxxx

How nice to see your posting on here Joyce. You are doing so well and have come a long way. I do hope you can get some help in the house. Jan will find it hard after work. Is there anyone near to you who could help. So sorry for Phil losing both parents, what a terrible time. You look after yourself and get well. <3

How lovely you can post on here Joyce,so pleased for you.
Hope things continue to improve for you,and you get the help you deserve.
Sorry to hear about Phil losing both his parents.Such a sad time.
Chin up Joyce,you are doing marvellous.
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Good to see you back on the boards again.
My best wishes to you and yours.

Emma :-)

Cooee Joyce, take one day at a time matey, and what don't get done one day, will wait till another.
It's no good us telling you not to worry, coz we know that you will, just get yourself well, and then fight for what you want honey. The head aches and not sleeping is probably down to your worrying Joyce, so PLEASE try not to.
Take care my love, I send you loads of love and hugs Joyce, Mo xxx

Well done Joyce for keeping in touch, sorry I haven't been able to speak with you lately, lots going on here but will catch up with you soon. Have been thinking of you all the time.

Try not to stress yourself but just take one day at a time, keep drinking lots of water, not too much orange juice, and do what you can manage. Try not to worry about the house too much, Jan will do what he can and I am sure things will improve soon.

I have been thinking about Phil and Rachel too, it's sad that his parents have both gone now but maybe a bit comforting for him to think they are together again. Hope the funeral goes ok.

Talk soon, take care and be good lol

love and hugs

Lizxx

Good to see you Joyce but please go slowly slowly and take care of yourself
Love to you and Jan

Mary xxx

Glad to see you posting Joyce. You have done so well but please try not to worry about the housework, that's not important. What is important is that you should try to focus on how far you have come these long weeks and be thankful.
Count your blessing and be glad you are home with your lovely Jan.
Take care of each other and ignore the dust!

Sorry to hear about Phil's parents who have now passed away. They are together and I hope all will go as well as it can at the funeral. Hugs for Rachel and Phil and family. XX

Helle ladys and gents only little one now i have got realy bad heat pines and pain pain ,the wount d give me any help here at all said every pleaning i need Jan has to do it all when he comes home from work but he gaint its to more,so i told the chap if i was in England LIVERPOOL were i was born i would get help but not from here but my head started going and Jan said stop your going to have annother attack and i neare it mine not work this time ,so im realy trying had docter and his wife i have no family there all leave in Sheffield and afew in Liverpool im so sade sorry for trying to explainLove Dutchx

((((hugs)))) Dutch, try not to get upset. If Jan doesn't have time to get housework done, don't worry, as long as you both get to eat, sleep and wash, the rest can wait .

Joyce the housework doesn't matter that much, your m.i.l. will have kept on top of it for you while you were in hospital and Jan can do the minimum needed to keep it ok while you rest and recover more. You have to stop stressing about the way things are re the people in England and the way things are in Holland, you are with your husband and that's all that should matter. Your family in England wouldn't have the time to come and clean for you with all they have to do for themselves and I can tell you now, carers in UK and home helps (do they still exist?) don't do cleaning, you would have to pay for that yourself out of your own money. That's the way it was for my Mum in 1995 when she had to live downstairs and use a commode in the hall because there wasn't enough sheltered housing and she had to pay someone privately to come in and clean - I did what I could but was working and looking after my son on my own, and it was a big three bed house with years of clutter in and a bed in the lounge.

So lady, just concentrate on looking after your health and well being and Jan's too where you can, so you don't get worse again and end up back in hospital. It's good to see you back on here but start to think positively and take your time with things, instead of being all of a splutter as my Mum used to say

We all want you to be the old Joyce again so come on, take each day as it comes and STOP WORRYING!

Love and hugs

Lizxx

dose anyone go on Skya if you do would they seen to my messahe phoneand i will add them,its small one i have if i cant slip ,than you Sheila is on it put couldnt fine anyone else so see said put message on GRxxxx

Hi Joyce, I'm thinking about going on Skype, Richard wants Alun and I to go on it, so I'll let you know when we decide.
Sorry not been in touch with you yet, ony we have a few problems here with Jennie and with Richard, can't say on here.

Hope you are still slowly improving, just take things easy and don't worry about things like housework etc......hope Jan is alright.

Will speak to you soon.


Take care.


Love, Sallie.xxx

Joyce,, keep focused and take things a day at a time.
Remember that you have been very ill and now you are back home with Jan.
Please don't worry about the things that need doing, just try to concentrate on more positive things right now. Nobody wants you to be admitted back into hospital so will you try to relax and take things slowly. Sending big hugs to you right now. xxx

I managed to speak with Joyce last evening, just for a few minutes. She does forget odd words but sounds quite strong and I am sure things will improve if only she will stop worrying about the housework. Between her m.i.l. and Jan I am sure they can keep the house clean enough.

I reminded Joyce about the Christmas cards and she said she is going to try making some today, she laughed about your comment Huia so it shows she has been reading the thread and is happy that so many people have posted and sent good wishes etc.

It was very good to hear your voice Joyce, and to have a laugh between us again.

Just take things steady and do what you can when you can.

love and hugs
Lizxx

I am following the pages as well Liz.. Good to see Joyce's posting on here and how she holding it together.. and best to give the dusting a bypass..

Persie (who has met that cyber friend)

thank you Liz had avery bad day to day its this tam head of mine im sayiny this i dont no and its realy get me down but i will not lit it happey agony they ask Jan if the my heart went down shut probly not got that right but did i want my life bringing back ,Jan told them no as thats what i told him would i ve got two ladys now in my Skyb its cant remember the name it is but i dont have to travble upstairs to go on BC i think some of my writing is a bet better Love you allxxxx