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I SHOULDNT HAVE TO JUSTIFY AND WAS MORE THAN WILLING TO DISCUSS BUT I WASNT ASKED I WAS OPENLY ACCUSED , SOMETHING I THOUGHT SOME OF MY OLD AQUANTICES WERE AGAINST. IN OUR ANCESTRAL HERRITAGE.

I HAD 2 MINITURE POODLES X WIGHING AROUND TEN POUNDS EACH AND A CHIHUAHUA, BOUGHT FROM PEOPLE WHO HAVE THE RIGHT TO BREED DOGS WITHOUT GETTING A POOR DOG WITHOUT A HISTORY, LIKE WE HAVE THE RIGHT TO BREED BABIES WITHOUT GETTING FROM CHILDRENS HOME, I MEAN WE LOVE OUR DOGS LIKE THERE OUR BABIES DONT WE !!.
ID LEFT GR AS MY MS IS AFFECTING MY EYESIGHT, ALTHOUGH MY HOME IS SLIGHTLY ADAPTED WITH A STAIR LIFT AND 2 BED ROOM WHICH I NO LONGER USED I APPLYED FOR A PROPERTY FROM THE HOUSING THAT WAS ADDAPTED FULLY WITH SPACE FOR A WHEELCHAIR SCOOTER, AS THE TENNENCY WAS GOING THROUGH IT WAS REMARKED UPON I WOULD NEED TO REHOME MY BABIES NOT SELL NOT GET RID OF BUT FIND LOVING HOMES WHERE THEY WOULD BE LOVED AS MUCH AS I STILL LOVED THEM, MY FAMILY AGREED LOVING HOMES SHOULD BE FOUND BUT A CHARGE SHOULD BE MADE AS I WAS TOLD PEOPLE ARE VERY CLEVER AND ANYONE COULD TAKE THE DOGS AND USE THEM FOR BAITING ETC IF FREE, I ACTUALLY REFUSED 2 PEOPLE AS I SAID I WAS INTERVIEWING AND WOULD GET BACK TO THOSE I FELT QUALIFIED TO HAVE THEM, IT BROKE MY HEART FINDING LOVING HOMES FOR MY 2 BABIES BUT WAS PLEASED WITH THE MIDDLE AGED COUPLES THAT HAD RETIRD AND HAD TIME AND MONEY TO LAVISHING THEM IN A GOOD HOME.
DEPRESSED I VISITED MY GP, HE SAID LETS SEE IF I FAX A LETTER OVER SAYING YOUR 3RD DOG IS AN ASSISTED DOG, THIS WORKED UNTIL THE LANDLORD WANTED WRITTEN PROOF FROM WHERE EVER U WOULD GET A DOCMENTED LETTER SAYING HE WAS ASSISTED, UNABLE TO PART WITH MY 3RD BABY I TURNED THE WELL NEEDED ACCOMODATION DOWN, MY FAMIL RALLIED ROUND TO ADDAPT MY HOME AND SPRING CLEAN AND DECORATE IT THINGS ID BEEN UN ABLE TO DO, I THEN HAD A IDEA, I RANG THE 2 PEOPLE UP WHO HAD MY BABIES AND BEGGED FOR THERE RETURN AT WHAT EVER COST, THEY HAD BONDED AND REALLY DIDNT WANT TO LET THEM GO, I CRIED MYSELF TO SLEEP AND SPENT MOST DAYS IN A FOG, MY MUM BOUGH ME A TOY HANDMADE POODLE THE IMAGE OF MY ELDEST BABY, THINKING IT WOULD HELP, IT DIDNT AND GUESS WHAT IM SELLING THAT. SO FOR XMAS MY DARLING HUSBAND SAID MIDDLE OF JAN U HAVE A SURPRISE COMING I WEDDLED IT OUT OF HIM AND ITS A VERY SMALL BREED CHIHUAHUA THAT WOULD BE HAPPY WITH A GARDEN TO RUN ROUND.
MY ELDEST BABY HAD 2 PUPS ONE LIVES WITH MY FRIEND AND THE OTHER WITH A FRIENDS DAUGHTER, I WAS ASKED BY BOTH PEOPLE FOR A PUP.
JUST BECAUSE YOUR A AVID DOG LOVER AND AGAINST BREEDING DOSNT MEAN TO SAY YOUR OPINION WAS RIGHT, YOU WERE DELETED ON FACE BOOK FOR JUMPING ON WITHOUT THE FACTS, IM HAPPILY FOR OTHERS TO DELETE WITHOUT OFFENSE FROM ME I DONT WANT FRIENDS WHO JUDGE WHO DOES, I KNEW THIS WOULD BE CENTRE OF ATTENION ON HERE, AND DECIDED TO LOOK THIS MORNING AS IM COMING BACK TO REDO MY TREE AS I HAVE ERRORS, FOR THE RECORD I KNEW WHO ALSO POST NO BIG SURPRISE, ANYWAY AS THEY SAY HAVE AQ NICE DAY I KNOW WHAT I DID AND IVE GOT TO LIVE WITH THAT AND IN HINDSIGHT HAD I BEEN FEELING BETTER THAN I DID I WOULD NEVER IN A MILLION YEARS HAVE FOUND EXCELLENT HOMES FOR THEM, BTW IM VERY GOOD FRIENDS WITH A BREEDER HER CHOICE OF JOB AND HER DOGS ARE BEAUTIFULLY CREATED LOVED AND SOLD TO HOPEFULLY GOOD PEOPLE, HER HOME IS CHECKED REGULARY AS SHE IS REGISTERD, AND FOR THE RECORD IM AGAINST PUPPY FARMS AND REPORTED ONE A COUPLE OF YEARS, BEING AS I HAVE MET MOST OF YOU LESS THAN TWICE YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO JUDGE, I COULD SIT HERE AND MAKE A LIST OF THINGS I DONT LIKE ABLOUT MOST OF YOU ITS AN OPINION ONLY AND SO KEEP IT TO MYSELF.
I WILL BE BACK AND I WILL SPEAK WHAN SPOKEN TO SO I DONT MAKE U FEEL UNEASY X PS IF U NEED TO HOLLOW ABUSE DO IT IN A PM ONLY LETS BE FAIR ON OTHER S X

you say and i qoute "YOU WERE DELETED ON FACE BOOK FOR JUMPING ON WITHOUT THE FACTS, "

all i asked you on FB was and i quote ""why did you get rid of the others hun if u getting a new one now?? x""

now im confused coz the above comment wasnt judging it was asking you?
to which you replied by deleting me, when i inboxed and asked you why, you blocked me lmaooooo, not tht im bothered,as friends i thought more of you, and its your choice hun, coz i really dont give a jot, but please dont go round saying im on a witch hunt, when, all i did was very NICELY! ask you why,

Who are you ?

Sorry but your rant is too difficult to read in all caps :-S

HI STRAY I DO APPOLOGISE YOU DID ASK X THEN I FELT U JUDGE OTHERWISE I WOULDNT HAVE GOT SO UPSET.
HI MILDRED SORRY I I CANT FIND MY READERS JUST GOT THE LONG DISTANT ONES ON X

OH ITS LORRAINE AKA PUSS AND MY DAUGHTER X

OH ITS LORRAINE AKA PUSS AND MY DAUGHTER X

THANKS ANNIE THING IS MY SPELLING GOT WORSE TOO SO MY DAUGHTER IS HELPING ME WHEN HOME X

MILDRED ITS A REPLY X

you THOUGHT, id judged you coz i politly asked a question, you then went on to judge ME, on you FB page! were i was unable to reply as i was delted, not nice is it puss??? you then went on to delete others who hadnt even seen your status never mind added to it,


like i said i thought more of our friendship, but hey ho ya live n learn

Hello Puss....l'm sorry, your coming back on here is my fault, but l could'nt sit back and let them have ago at you like they have.

Mildred...for goodness sake a number of peeps on here use capitols because of poor eye sight!!

Off out as l said.
Take care
jude x

STRAY BUT THATS HOW I FELT, ON FB I OFTEN PUT ABOUT MY HEALTH , SO MAYBY I FELT A FRIEND WWOULD ADD ON THOSE THREADS, THING IS I FELT THE SAME THING HONESTLY WHAT YOU PUT CAME ACCROSS TO ME THAT 3 OF YOU WERE HAVING AGO IVE ONLY DELETED 2 AS GOT BETTER THINGS TO DO THEN COME ON HERE AND SEE THAT, IF YOUR SUPPOSED TO BE FRIENDS THAT CARE I CANT UNDERSTAND WHY YAS DONT ADD ON THEM, CAUSE IF I SEE A FREIND UNWELL IM THE FIST THERE, I GUESS IM BEING TOO SENSITIVE WHO WOULDNT BE.

so you put up about your health expecting friends to add?? im sorry puss but i have enough ill health going on around me in my real life, here right NOW to add to every bloody post a friend makes about not being well, this afternoon im goign to the hospital with my best friend, to accoimpany her to an appointment, coz thats the type of freind i am,

see your doing it agian judging me coz i dont always add to your ill health threads, maybe if you put less up i would! i come online to get releif from whats going on in my life, "mostly illness'" so do not tell me were n when i should post, if you put it out there your going to be asked n judges on things we all are,

and im quiet shocked you would even mention i dont add to them, so do you only put them up for attention????

FFGS I WAS TRYING TO SAY HOW I FELT I KNOW WHATS GOING ON AND I DO ASK PEIODICLY , I COULDNT THINK OF ANOTHER WAY TO PUT IT , SO APPOLOGISE.
I DONT LIKE THINGS LIKE THIS SO I DELETED 2 OF YOU AS I KNEW ASWELL AS FEELING GOT AT IN HINDSIGHT I WAS OVEREACTING AS IM FEELING SENSITIVE, AT THE TIME I DIDNT FEEL I HAD A CHOICE. (WITH MY BABIESS)

......... THE WHOLE POINT WAS I FELT YOU HAD BOTH KNOWN ME LONG ENOUGH TO KNOW I COULD NEVER DO THAT, SO I GUESS ASKING MADE ME FEEL U THOUGHT I COULD. END FOR ME, OFF TO DRES AND START OUR TREE AGAIN.

your the one typing and firing the acusation n what you thought was guna be said or happen,

so you have taking it further than it needs to go, there your pets you can do what you like, but seems its not the first dogs you have gotton rid of for reasons, to then get another,

like i say if you dnt want opinions on it, then dont post it,

id love to stay and chat but i have thing ta do before i accompany my lovely friend to her dreaded hospital appointment

enjoy the rest of your day

IVE MERLEY REPLIED TO THE THREAD WRITTEN WITHOUT THE FACTS AND ADDED TO WITHOUT THE FACTS.
IM NOT BOTHERING ANYMORE LIKE U SAY HOSPITAL APPOINMENTS ETC LIFE IS TOO SHORT IVE TRIED TO APPOLOGISE NOW I DONT CARE.

Hello Puss, would you mind settling somethings for me, which may answer questions for other people.
As you say, the dog is a smaller version of a Chihauhau, which personally I have never heard of, so, must be deemed to be either a 'teacup' dog, or a 'handbag' dog.
How did Specky find this dog
Where did Specky find this dog for you.
Was it in need of rehoming
Had it ever had puppies.
Is it male or female
Has it been spayed/newted.
Was it house-trained
What is it's temperment.
And, out of curiosity, how much did it cost.

There is no ulterior motive for me asking these questions.

Julia in Derbyshire

Ok to delete people who questioned you (though how you see that as judgement is beyond me), but what about those who said nothing at all, in fact, were not even online at the time this all came out?

So up to the point at which I was deleted, what judgement did I make on you? How did I question you? What did I say? How did I manage to do all that without being online, but actually helping my partner bathe,(in the kitchen because he can't get his wheelchair into the bathroom, toilet (on a commode in the bedroom), sort his medication out, help him with physio, cooking his meals, cleaning house and all the rest of it. I don't have that much time to get online.

I suppose you assume that I must be guilty as I'm friendly with Muffy, and must have discussed the whole thing with her anyway. Well I didn't. I asked her much much later what she meant by her status, then on checking found that I too had been deleted.

Until last night I kept my opinion to myself. I'm disappointed TBH, but have far bigger issues in my life than being deleted by someone on facebook. But please don't tar me with the same brush. I said nothing.

teresa i didnt delete u, someone not on genes asked me that too i really didnt infact when i did a search i couldnt even find you so i guessed you had left ive no problem with you what so ever i also deleted hayley i asked her back.

the someone not on genes but fb asked same too, i honestly thought you had left as i checked others you would be on and you didnt show in friends f friends, im more than happy to sort out as to why .