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they wanted to see my "marks" so I told them "shave my head and then you will see them"

Hayley, you did the right thing for you, more importantly for your baby.......

Whirls...we moved on...{{{Squishy Hug}}}

taff you know where i am going now, hush hush out the back lol
ann

Thanks, Taff.
Whirley and Ladybird - Yes, it helps to talk about it, when you're ready.
Carol - I, totally, agree.

My lawyer said that I should divorce him now and if I changed my mind later I could re-marry him. But there has never been one single moment of one single day when I wanted him back. Life was tough with three little children (aged 2, 4 and 6) But it was a whole lot better than being beaten or verbally abused, whenever he chose!

I have never re-married because I have not found anyone I could love as much as I loved him! I am absolutely sure that he was the one who lost. He lost 3 lovely children, who have grown up to be terrific adults. He lost all the memories of when the children were growing up. What have I lost? Nothing! I have regained my confidence and I am able to live my life the way that pleases me. Selfish? No, because my children, now 28, 25 and 23 always come first, all the time.

sorry hayley i got to laugh,, you head held high..... good on you girl!!
xxxxxxx

you see all the hurt that these people have caused to each and everyone of you, but look at you all talking careing about each other, you are much better then the ones you left behind...thats their problem let them get on with it( living with what they have done , missed out on etc) sorry now i am rambling

I felt ashamed......never felt proud of anything cos looking back, I was turned into this non confident person. I felt whatever I did was never enough or good enough, because when you get told it all the time, you believe it.

I will never forget the day I left.......aged 18..6mth baby in pram with a black bin liner with mine and the babies clothes....with a fiver to my name in my pocket......and my head held high.....and 2 stiches in my chin...

yes Ann , cos no one whants to own up on gen gen board, or perhaps they have taken the No given , and acted

Lindy you did the right thing xxx

Carol you were always worth it xxx

Whirley you ramble all you want xxx

luv sue

Hi Carol, same with me, I met a great man....he counselled me, cried with me when I told him all the real bad stuff, helped me through it all.......he has helped to heal my pain. I am lucky!!

I will never forget what I went through with my ex......but I have learned to forgive....because growing old & bitter was never an option for me & was never a satisfaction I would give to my ex.

My ex lost out on a lovely daughter growing up...& is now losing out on Grandchildren. So who was the loser.

I,me listening( in Frasier cranes voice)

sorry whirley taff x

are you all ok talking about this on here
love
ann

Ramble on whirley!!.............

Ruby your not rambling what you say is true
tc
love
ann

omg, peace of mind is priceless , ladybird

In all that happened to me, I have always gone out of my way NOT to label me as a victim!! I think my ex is the victim, cos I have moved on in my life and maybe cos of what he put me through, I am a better person for it.

I think he is the victim cos for whatever reasons he is the person he has turned out to be ......I turned my life round, he never will and will never change,,

Sorry, I am rambling.................xxxxx