Genealogy Chat

To all who tried to help Laura. This problem of connecting Laura with her brother has now been dealt with by Social Services and Living Support Team. CONTACT WILL BE ESTABLISHED. Janice x

Terrific news. Well done to all who persevered. Ozi.

Best of luck in your search Laura and well done you helpers! Very kind of you and yes, I think this is very sensible to keep it to PMs etc. Laura

Hi OC. Your suggestion is neither rude or bossy, but very sensible. We've been trying to keep this off the boards. Could anyone who has any information that would help Laura please send a private message to Janice who has become her primary contact? Thanks so much to everyone who has contributed to this thread. Best wishes Amanda

Don't want to sound rude and/or bossy, but may I suggest that this now be left to Janice and her helpers(if Janice is willing!) as there are some sensitive and difficult issues involved here. OC

Hi Again Everyone Is Laura responding to anyone? Three of us have been working by PM to collate information to help Laura, and I have been receiving and sending PM's with Laura. Now she has disappeared? Nothing since early evening yesterday. Janice x

Hi Laura, I have just sent you a PM , I think I have found Lee's mother. Are you also looking for Peter ? Sheila

Hi Rose Yes, just checked that one out and he his resident with his Father & other family members and as you say in phone book. This young man has been ruled out and Laura as been informed that the one I had located is not connected to her. This as been done without giving her any information about this person. Laura informed me by PM that her Father & Lee's Father is called Peter. So Laura is not any nearer really, and appears to be struggling with how to post messages and also reading them? So will work off the boards with her, but still not certain that Lee will wish contact, may be better done through official channels really considering background. Janice x

The Lee James lives in Eastleigh. He's on Friends Reunited and in the phone book. Rose

I looked up the name - sorry - but can't find one who is 28 - there is a 23 year old, and a 56 year old. The younger one is also living with lots of other Passinghams - so doubt that will be the one you are looking for, if your brother went off on his own. That is using the 2003 - 2007 electoral roll. dipsy

Glad to hear that Laura has been in touch with you Janice. As she had been posting appeals and not responding to people's replies we were not sure if she had seen them or was in a position to act on the advice given. I agree that this is definitely a private matter and better done off the board.

Janice As this is a living person and there appears to be some 'background' to the story, I agree that this is better done off the boards, rather than publishing details of this young man. OC

Hi Laura & Helpers How about this one? Lee James Passingham Reg: March Quarter 1984 Winchester Hampshire. I have found a Lee J Passingham on 2007 Electoral Roll and asked Laura if her brother had a middle name? Laura does not know. There is only one Lee Passingham on Electoral Roll and this is Lee J Passingham. Laura has been sending me PM's about her background and asking for help, just not sure if this is the right one she is looking for and wonder if Lee Passingham would have objections to this information being passed on? A difficult one really. Janice

Laura, Click on ''Add Reply'' at the top of this message to respond. Rose

Laura, how did you go? Any luck? Ozi.

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Laura, Go to the Quick Search boxes at the top of the screen and type Lee's first and last names into the boxes. This will bring up another screen which shows 3 different people called Lee Passingham on it. One of them was born in Devon in 1980 and is possibly your brother. He is on the family tree of someone called Ronald. Try contacting Ronald as he might be able to help you. Best wishes Amanda

I'm looking for his birth. There's nothing for 1979 or 1980. There's a birth in 1978 but it's in Lambeth. Rose

Someone called Ronald has Lee in his tree. Have you contacted him? Rose

Hi laura Have you tried the Electoral Roll ? or the phone book ? Do you think he might have gone overseas from England ?