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Scottish Dressmaker/seamstress rumours help??

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Dawn

Dawn Report 11 Dec 2010 20:42

I heard a while back that in the 1841 Scottish census particulaly, if your relative was down on the census as a dressmaker/seamstress then she could be covering up for being a 'woman of ill repute', or prostitute. My 5x great grandmother was down as a seamstress in 1841 and she had 4 illigitimate children with the same man but they never married each other, he married a different woman in 1860. I cannot find a birth record for the 4 illigitimate children (one being my 4x grandfather) but the fathers name is down on their death certificates. Also if this is true would it of been common not to register the 4 illigitimate childrens births?
Can anyone shed any light on this please.
Thanks
Dawn

Ozibird

Ozibird Report 11 Dec 2010 21:03

If she had 4 children with the same man, I'd find it hard to believe she was a prostitute.

There were thousands of dressmakers at the time as it was a cottage industry. Not everyone of them would have been a prostitute.

Registration didn't start in Scotland until 1855. Have you tried parish records?

Ozi

Dawn

Dawn Report 11 Dec 2010 21:47

I have checked the Parish records but cant find any of them which leads me to believe that because they were illigitimate they werent registered. It was just a thought that she could of been as she would of fitted the title, i think so anyway. Thankyou for replying.xx

Contrary Mary

Contrary Mary Report 11 Dec 2010 21:59


Dawn

One of my Scottish lot married in 1830, had at least 8 children that I know of (because they are on the various censuses), and didn't register or baptise one single one of them - and that wasn't uncommon.

They had to pay to have them baptised/registered and you know the common myth about the Scottish being a bit mean with their money don't you! LOL

Mary

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~~~Secret Red ^^ Squirrel~~~ **007 1/2** Report 12 Dec 2010 10:33

Hello Contrary Mary :)

Have you considered that your Scottish family were baptised elsewhere? Perhaps they were non conformists and their records aren't showing online yet?

InspectorGreenPen

InspectorGreenPen Report 12 Dec 2010 10:52

Prostitutes regularly gave their occupation as Dressmaker, throughout the 1800's, and not just in Scotland. However, it didn't automatically follow that all Dressmakers were prostitutes.....!

Also, as far as I am aware there has never been a fee for registering a birth at any time since registration began.

Potty

Potty Report 12 Dec 2010 11:27

I don't think any charge is made for registering a birth - it is the certificate that is paid for. I would think that a lot of poor families would just register the birth and not bother to get the cert.

Dawn, have you searched for the births under both the father and the mother's surname?

Helen

Helen Report 12 Dec 2010 14:16

Official birth registration came into practice in Scotland in 1855.

Prior to this, it is only baptism records you will find and if the people you are looking for were not baptised .. and a lot of illigitimate children were not, you will not find them.

Or, as has already been mentioned, they were baptised in one of the non conformist churches and their records are not so easily found.

I would be more inclined to think they were not baptised.


+++DetEcTive+++

+++DetEcTive+++ Report 12 Dec 2010 17:37

Could it be that there was a fee to baptise a child? On some of the PR originals, the occupation for the father is given as *pauper* and a summary page of events officiated at, and income. Pauper then suggesting that no child would be turned away, but there would be the expectation of payment if the parents could afford it.

If anyone can find evidence either to confirm or disprove, it would be interesting to know.

FamilyFogey

FamilyFogey Report 12 Dec 2010 18:10

There was usually a fee to baptise children, in one parish I have heard of them having a kind of special offer for either free or cheaper baptisms and poorer families making the most of it and baptising several children in one go where they probably wouldn't have normally done so.

It's often not uncommon for some families to baptise their children all together later on, or in batches! It's always worth checking some years after just to be sure.

Although there wasn't a fee to register a birth, for the first ten years of Civil Registration - in England & Wales - there was no obligation to notify the registrar of a child's birth and if it was not registered within six months it could not be included in the records. There was often confusion whether you had to register a birth if you had already had the child baptised.

In 1874 fines were introduced for non-notification.

It is estimated that there may be as many as 15% of the births missing from 1837 - 1847.

And as for the Dressmaker / Prostitute thing - there had to at least be some actual dressmakers or no women would have had any dresses to wear! I'm sure most prostitutes never actually wanted to state their profession and probably said occupations like Dressmaker or Domestic Servant instead. Who is to know what was true or not.

Alison

Alison Report 12 Dec 2010 18:51

In 19th C Scotland it would have been unthinkable not to have a child baptised, even if illegitimate, and baptisms were normally carried out at home before witnesses who were often relatives.

There was no fee to baptise children under the Scottish system (and prior to 1855 the only Scottish records are for baptisms). There was, however, a fee to have the baptism recorded in the register.

There is a good chance of obtaining more information about illegitimate births from Scottish Kirk Session Registers, which are often far more detailed than baptismal registers. These are available to personal researchers at the National Archives of Scotland in Edinburgh and over the coming months they will also be accessible from local archives search rooms throughout Scotland.

'Milliner' (rather than 'dressmaker') seems to have been a euphemism for prostitutes in English towns and cities, but unless you have any firm proof to the contrary, you should take the occupation of 'dressmaker' at face value.

www.genegenie-scotland.co.uk

Dawn

Dawn Report 12 Dec 2010 20:14

Thankyou all for replying. I have only looked for baptisms before 1855 for the 4 illigitimate children but as someone above said they may have been baptised at a later date so i am going to have a look in a minute and see what i can find. My 5x grandmother who had the 4 children out of wedlock never married the childrens father but i have noticed that she used his surname for herself on a couple of the childrens marriage certificates, do you think this would of been because she would of been embaressed to be down as a unmarried mother on the certificate so she used his surname to make it look like she was married?

Dawn

Dawn Report 12 Dec 2010 20:57

Just had a look on SP website at births after 1855 but none of the children are there unfortunately. I dont think she registered any of them for some reason which makes my job harder. I had a look on the catholic registers as well but again nothing, i also looked under the mothers surname but still the same so back to the gringstone for me again unless anyone can think of somewhere i havent looked?:-)

Foggy

Foggy Report 12 Dec 2010 21:11

Dawn,

Illegitimate births were recorded pre 1855 in Scotland, I have found many during my research, it nearly always said "born to, whoever from fornication".

Go to scotfamtree.org.uk and ask on there, they are brilliant there, good luck with your research.

Potty

Potty Report 13 Dec 2010 12:01

Dawn,

Would you like to post some details - maybe other eyes can find something.

Dawn

Dawn Report 15 Dec 2010 19:39

Thanks Foggy i will check that website out.
Potty the details are below:
The 4 illigitimate children were Janet Heatlie born 1838 in Selkirk Scotland.
James Heatlie born 1842 in Selkirk Scotland.
Andrew born 1848 in Selkirk Sotland.
John Thorburn Heatlie (my 4x grandfather) born 1850 Selkirk Scotland.
Their parents were Andrew Heatlie born 1809 in Selkirk he was a woollen weaver and journey man and Jessie Thorburn (actually baptised as Janet)who was born 1808 also in Selkirk, Andrew and Jessie were never married. if you need anything else let me know.
Dawn

Potty

Potty Report 16 Dec 2010 11:07

So this is the family in 1851 - odd that she gives her surname as Thorborn and the children as Heatlie:

1851 Scotland Census
about Jessie Thorburn
Name: Jessie Thorburn
Age: 41
Estimated birth year: abt 1810
Relationship: Head
Gender: Female
Where born: Selkirk, Selkirk
Parish Number: 778
Civil Parish: Selkirk
County: Selkirkshire
Address: Kirkwynd East Side
Occupation: Sempstress
Jessie Thorburn 41
Janet Hatelie 13
James Hatelie 9
Andrew Hatelie 5
John Hatelie 10 MO
William Sandlands 25 nephew


Potty

Potty Report 16 Dec 2010 11:56

Did Andrew marry after Jessie died? Have you found Andrew on any census?

Thelma

Thelma Report 16 Dec 2010 12:32

Jessie may say that she is the mother in 1851 but is there proof?
1841 Scotland Census
about Jessie Thorborne
Name: Jessie Thorborne
Age: 32
Estimated birth year: abt 1809
Gender: Female
Where born: Selkirkshire, Scotland

Civil Parish: Selkirk
County: Selkirkshire
Address: Head Of Kirkwynd E Side
Occupation: Dress M
Parish Number: 778

Potty

Potty Report 16 Dec 2010 12:45

I think Dawn said previously that she is mentioned on one of the children's marriage certs.

I can find her with the children up until 1881. I cannot find Andrew at all.

Dawn, where did you get his name from.