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Yes James was son of Mary's Daughter Mary Ann yes she was unmarried not uncommon amongst working class back then ! Reg Mary she was with Joseph Emery over 30 yrs until his Death don't know why they didn't Marry but I know she married a James Holmes in 1835 can find no trace of him at all !

Erika thanks for your input ! Very Remiss of me to delete ! Mary and Joseph didn't marry I'm assuming still married to James Holmes maybe he was mistreating her ?! James son of Mary Anne Daughter of Mary and Joseph Emery Mary Anne later married a Matthew Dale James was witness at his mother's wedding William was my g Grandfather B c 1850 d 1916 Harriet his wife 1855 d 1910 Mary Costello B 1808 d 1897 age 89 alot still to know but some I may never know !

James was indeed son of Mary Ann she did later Marry As for Mary and Joseph Emery assuming Mary hadn't Divorced or been told her husband James had died didn't Marry Joseph he was my gg Grandfather in all but name and they were together over 30 yrs till his Death in1884 i can find no information at all regarding James Holmes other than his marriage to Mary in 1835 maybe he was mistreating her and she left him !?

Looking through the Johngrenham list of parish records it does look as though you are out of luck there

Earlier answers give you a link to register.Nile.ie have tried looking there yourself?

hi
on the parish register the D for dolery looks to me like a C and could say Colery

or Calery

If you mean the 1808 baptism (Calery) and the 1806 marriage (Dolery), it's probably how the transcriber interpreted the handwriting of the parish clerk.

Looking at the image of the marriage record - it's hard to read the handwriting, but it looks like Colery to me.

On the baptism record it also looks like Colery to me.

Record Transcription:
Ireland Roman Catholic Parish Marriages


First name(s) Michealem
Last name Costole
Address -
Marriage year 1806
Marriage date 15 Feb 1806
Parish Kilkeevin
Alternative parish names Castlerea, Kilkeevan
Diocese Elphin
Spouse's first name(s) Mariamq
Spouse's last name Dolery
Spouse's address hac Cura
County Roscommon
Country Ireland
Repository
National Library of Ireland
National Library of Ireland register http://registers.nli.ie//registers/vtls000633926#page/1/mode/1up
Register Marriage
Record set Ireland Roman Catholic Parish Marriages
Category Birth, Marriage, Death & Parish Records
Subcategory Parish Marriages
Collections from Ireland

Yes - it's Latin.

No point in looking for info on GR.

Family search no longer holds pre-civil registration info for Ireland

Looks like safc has found what your 'genealogist' failed to achieve

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Record Transcription:
Ireland Roman Catholic Parish Baptisms

First name(s) Mariam
Last name Costello
Birth year -
Baptism year 1817
Baptism date 02 Jun 1817
Parish Kilkeevin
Alternative parish names Castlerea, Kilkeevan
Diocese Elphin
County Roscommon
Country Ireland
Father's first name(s) Patritio
Father's last name Costello
Mother's first name(s) Francisca
Mother's last name Sanders
Repository
National Library of Ireland
National Library of Ireland register http://registers.nli.ie//registers/vtls000633927#page/1/mode/1up
Register Baptism
Record set Ireland Roman Catholic Parish Baptisms
Category Birth, Marriage, Death & Parish Records
Subcategory Parish Baptisms
Collections from Ireland

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Record Transcription:

First name(s) Mariam
Last name Castello
Birth year -
Baptism year 1808
Baptism date 04 Nov 1808
Parish Kilkeevin
Alternative parish names Castlerea, Kilkeevan
Diocese Elphin
County Roscommon
Country Ireland
Father's first name(s) Michele
Father's last name Castello
Mother's first name(s) Mariaq
Mother's last name Calery
Repository
National Library of Ireland
National Library of Ireland register http://registers.nli.ie//registers/vtls000633926#page/1/mode/1up
Register Baptism
Record set Ireland Roman Catholic Parish Baptisms
Category Birth, Marriage, Death & Parish Records
Subcategory Parish Baptisms
Collections from Ireland

Mary married in 1835 so 12 yrs ! Maybe he was mistreating her ? And as you know hard to get Divorce then also the 1841 census above is not my relation but thanks for your help !

Mary didn't stay long with her husband........................


1851
Name: Mary Ann Gostella
[Mary Ann Costello]
Age: 2
Estimated birth year: abt 1849
Relation: Daughter
Father's name: Joseph Emery
Gender: Female
Where born: Longton, Staffordshire, England
Civil Parish: Stoke upon Trent
Ecclesiastical parish: Longton Rectory
Phillimore Ecclesiastical Parish Maps:
View related Ecclesiastical Parish
Town: Longton
County/Island: Staffordshire
Country: England
Registration district: Stoke Upon Trent
Sub-registration district: Longton
ED, institution, or vessel: 07
Neighbors: View others on page
Household schedule number: 119
Piece: 2007
Folio: 180
Page Number: 33
Household Members:
Name Age
Joseph Emery 32
Mary Gostella 38
John Gostella 12
Joseph Gostella 4
Mary Ann Gostella 2

1841

Name: Mary Emery
Age: 25
Estimated birth year: abt 1816
Gender: Female
Where born: Ireland
Civil Parish: Wolverhampton
Hundred: North Seisdon
County/Island: Staffordshire
Country: England
Registration district: Wolverhampton
Sub-registration district: Bilston
Neighbors: View others on page
Piece: 1001
Book: 13
Folio: 7
Page Number: 7
Household Members:
Name Age
Joseph Emery 23
Mary Emery 25
Sarah Emery 2

19 baptisms for the name in time-scale on Ancestry - NONE in Co. Roscommon

Some info simply isn't available -especially for Ireland

Joseph Emery Head - Male 54 1817 - Staffordshire, England
Mary Holmes Living As Wife - Female 62 1809 - Ireland
Mary Ann Holmes Daughter - Female 23 1848 - Staffordshire, England
William Holmes Son - Male 20 1851 - Staffordshire, England
Thomas Holmes Son - Male 18 1853 - Staffordshire, England
James Holmes Son - Male 2 1869 - Staffordshire, England

A shame they didn't marry - might have got a father's name - if she knew it, of course.

Some imaginative recording on the census - James certainly couldn't have been her son.. Most likely Mary Ann's child

EDITED

HOLMES, JAMES - No MMN given, therefore illegitimate
GRO Reference: 1869 J Quarter in STOKE UPON TRENT Volume 06B Page 244

This must have been posted on one of your deleted threads.............FMP shows I've accessed it before

1891
First name(s) Mary
Last name Holmes
Relationship Inmate
Marital status Widow
Sex Female
Age 85
Birth year 1806
Birth town -
Birth town as transcribed CASTLE REAGH***********************************
Birth county Roscommon
Birth county as transcribed ROSCOMMON
Birth place Ireland
Occupation Potters Lathe Treader

No age varies on census I've got varying ages from 1808 to 1814 she married in Stoke on Trent in 1835 Married a James Holmes

Is the age at death consistent with censuses?

You may have to accept that the info simply isn't availalble - vast amounts of Irish records were destroyed at various times

Where did she marry?

On her Death cert it's 83 it's Birth I'm unsure of as age on death cert may be inaccurate later information I found out incorrect age on cert she was born 1808 so in 1897 she was 89