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Its a copy Janet,

I never meet any of my grandparents..they all died before or soon after I was born.
I didnt even know my grandparents names until 08!.
And last year my fathers last sibling sent me a picture of my gran and one of my grandfather...
I had never seen them before!...Was strange to to see them at last.

I have no family photos..I dont even have any of my parents!....My sister stole all the family photos when my father died in 86.
I have not seen or heard from her in over 21 years!

To answer your original question, I don't think the GRO will answer any questions but the local Register Office might.

Paul- when you said that you have the marriage certificate, is this the original and not a copy.? . My reasoning is that the person copying may have read it wrong. ....it did happen to me on my copy marriage cert in that the person copying changed the 'pastor' into a 'father' so if it is a copy I would be more in agreement about his being a sailor than a tailor.-Jle

I am trying to find my doc's..but Ancestry is playing up and I have lost a HD lately which i believe had alot of my genealogy work on it.

I was hoping for a simple answer to simple question of whether the GRo office would check the other cert for me to make sure i had the right one.
Wasnt expecting to have to go through the whys and where fores!..lol.

I need to find the lady i spoke to about John Adolphus Tuck..He was her relative and as far as i can recall ..married a Caroline McCarthy.
But she said that my John & Caroline were not the same people as hers....

I cant recall how I conversed with her, whether by here or via email.....was sometime ago.....
I walso was conversing with a guy who also had John A Tuck & Caroline McCarthey....but i cant find his contact details eithers.

When did John Adolphus Tuck marry Caroline McCarthy? I can't find that marriage.

When did John Adolphus Tuck marry Caroline McCarthy? I can't find that marriage.

1871 England Census
about John Tuck Name: John Tuck
Age: 50
Estimated birth year: abt 1821
Relation: Head
Spouse's name: Caroline Tuck
Gender: Male
Where born: Paddington, Middlesex, England
Civil Parish: St Leonard Shoreditch
Ecclesiastical parish: St Andrew
County/Island: London
Country: England
Registration district: Shoreditch
Sub-registration district: Haggerston West
ED, institution, or vessel: 6
Household schedule number: 353
Household Members: Name Age
John Tuck 50
Caroline Tuck 38
Caroline Tuck 14
Henry G Tuck 12
Elizabeth Tuck 11
Charlotte Tuck 9
Emma Tuck 6
William Tuck

London, England, Births and Baptisms, 1813-1906
about John Adolphus Tuck Name: John Adolphus Tuck
Record Type: Baptism
Estimated Birth Date: abt 1822
Baptism Date: 2 Jan 1822
Father's name: William Tuck
Mother's name: Marianne Tuck
Parish or Poor Law Union: Paddington St James
Borough: Westminster


So John A was born in Paddington..as the cenus says c1822

BUT!!.........John Adolphus Tuck did marry a Caroline McCarthy

Yes...Caroline married a Mchael McCarthy in 1849 Portsea.....her name was Cook...so it sayso this emma birth cert.

Is this the marriage you have for John Tuck and Caroline McCarthy? No mention of Adolphus.

Marriages Sep 1856 (>99%)
JOHNSON Henry Portsea 2b 633
McCarthy Caroline Portsea 2b 633
THOMPSON Ann Jane Portsea 2b 633
TUCK John Portsea 2b 633

Her brother William was born in Portsmouth..in 1870...Sister Caroline was born in Portsmouth..1858, brother Henry, Kingsland (which is Shorditch) 1859, sister Elizabeth, Shorditch 1862, sister Charlotte Shoreditch, 1862

Shes not registered in Portsmouth....there are no gro's for an Emma Tuck in Portsmouth 1864.

1871 England Census
about Emma Tuck Name: Emma Tuck
Age: 6
Estimated birth year: abt 1865
Relation: Daughter
Father's name: John Tuck (Occupation: J. Waterman RN Pensioner)
Mother's name: Caroline Tuck
Gender: Female
Where born: Landport, Hampshire, England
Civil Parish: St Leonard Shoreditch
Ecclesiastical parish: St Andrew
County/Island: London
Country: England
Registration district: Shoreditch
Sub-registration district: Haggerston West
ED, institution, or vessel: 6
Household schedule number: 353
Household Members: Name Age
John Tuck 50
Caroline Tuck 38
Caroline Tuck 14
Henry G Tuck 12
Elizabeth Tuck 11
Charlotte Tuck 9
Emma Tuck 6
William Tuck 1


1881 England Census
about Emma Tuck Name: Emma Tuck
Age: 16
Estimated birth year: abt 1865
Relation: Servant
Gender: Female
Where born: London, Middlesex, England

Civil Parish: Portsea
County/Island: Hampshire
Country: England

Street address: No 3 Wish Place
Education:

Employment status: View image
Occupation: Genrl Domestic Serv

Registration district: Portsea Island
Sub-registration district: Landport
ED, institution, or vessel: 53
Neighbors: View others on page
Household Members: Name Age
James H. Robson 34
Florence E. Robson 29
Horatio D. Robson 5
Charles H.B. Robson 2
Henry Daniel 62
Emma Tuck 16
Nellie Paffitt 11



1891 England Census
about Emma Tuck Name: Emma Tuck
Age: 27
Estimated birth year: abt 1864
Relation: Servant
Gender: Female
Where born: Nk, London, England

Civil Parish: Portsea
Ecclesiastical parish: St Jude
County/Island: Hampshire
Country: England

Street address:

Occupation:

Condition as to marriage:

Education:

Employment status: View image

Registration district: Portsea Island
Sub-registration district: Landport
ED, institution, or vessel: 46
Neighbors: View others on page
Household Members: Name Age
Harriet S Martin 45
Horace E Martin 17
Lydia S Martin 12
Sydney L Mascarcahas 14
Alexander C McNicoll 14
Emma Tuck 27

I have Emmas marriage cert.....and it looks like it says "Tailor".

The husbands fathers Occ is Shipwirght.......If it is Sailor and not Tailor....
Then the S in Shipwright and that of Sailor would look the same...but they don't..they are completely different....it does look like a T not an S.

Buy the lady's marriage cert, to find out what she says on that about her father's occupation

And compare the occupations of BOTH fathers on the census returns.................

I would suggest the 'tailor' should probably be 'sailor'.....Tailor is a skilled profession....not something taken up and dropped on a whim.

Johns occupations varies greatly, on cert hes a Drayman..and on the census returns he is Ex navy pensioner, and a Waterman, and a licenced Viculator AND a tailor.

So..cant really compare

Her name is Emma Tuck..born Shoreditch 1864.

But there are 2 entries.

Births Jun 1864
TUCK Emma Shoreditch 1c 184
TUCK Emma Shoreditch 1c 178

I have just purchased 1c 184 which arrrived yesterday.

Her parents names are John Tuck & Caroline.

Now..I had it as John Adolphus Tuck & Caroline Mc Carthy
As John is the only John Tuck born in Paddington c1822...as stated on the census returns for Emma.

I was told by lady that John Adolphus Tuck was NOT my Emma's father.
But he is the only John born in the right place and at the right time and also married a Caroline....one Caroline McCarthy!.

This means John Adolphus Tuck & Caroline Mc Carthy had a daughter Emma...and my Emma had parents John Tuck & Caroline...

But thsi lady says they are not the same John & Caroline.

The birth cert i purchased says, John Tuck & Caroline McCarthy...formerly Cook.

BUT.....are thses aprents one and the same as the other Emma's?....or they are two separate family sharing the exact same names, dates and places?

The only way to say for sure is to buy the other cert 1c 178...but i dont want to waste money buying it....if the parents are not John & Caroline...i just can't aford to waste the money.

I am hoping that what i was told that if i phoned the GRO office they could check to see if both the certs have the same named parents or not.
If not...then i have it right...but if the parents names ARE the same...then i am still no nearer knowing who Emmas parents are.

Hope you can understand that.

Have you compared the fathers' occupations?

Unfortunately the parents of the 2 ladies in question may also have the same names!

eg BOTH sets of parents have exactly the same names...fore and surmane...Crazy i know...but It could be such.....The only way to truely find out is to buy the other cert and I have purchased one...but dont want to waste money buying a second if it isnt her.

Dispite purchasing one of the certs...i still cant be sure that I have the right one as the parents names MAYBE exactly the same...
Long story....

Hope you understand