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Searching for roger dean Holmes born in 1981 in Portsmouth
His mother maiden name was porter

Searching for in what way please

Where have you looked?

We have to be extremely cautious with info about living people - even more so since GDPR came into force,

He is in the trees of two GR members, who, one hopes, have his permission to include him, so they should have contact info. Click on ‘find out more’ alongside their names to send messages.

Roger dean Holmes is the son of my husband my husband is looking for him

Contact the people who have him in their trees as a first step.

Check his birth reg - there is additional info which might help.

https://www.freebmd.org.uk/cgi/search.pl

But, if anyone on here finds him, they can't give you details without first checking with him.

There is no tree and he was born in 1981

Rachael

Look in search all member trees - from the dropdown menu under 'search' at top right of this board.

Put in the man's name and birth year - then contact the people who have him listed.

And follow the advice about looking at his birth reg - as I said, there is additional information. Click on the page number to see it

I have tried so many different ways to search for the above and draw a blank even tyred Facebook

Have you looked for the mothers details,

Did she marry or remarry

But again caution must be the way as none of us know circumstances

Rachael

Have you sent messages to the people on here who have him in their trees?

And have you,looked at freebmd?

No can not find him on here

Just put Roger Holmes 1981 in the search members trees and two contacts come up

Rachael

I didn't HE was on here. I said his name was in two members' trees.

I have two account on here

Please answer the questions you are being asked - we are trying to help

Not sure of the relevance of your saying you have two accounts

I see you have now added Roger to your GR tree, but, if you read the guidelines, you will see that you are not supposed to include details of living people unless you have their permission. And those guidelines were compiled long before GDPR, which makes things even more stringent.

Shirley

Can I ask you to look at the birth - you will see what I mean about additional info

Yes i see that he is listed in two surnames

As the posters husband is the father then he would know the mothers name which we can't know so suggest they try looking for the mum and or her family

Don't think anyone can help I,m afraid