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I know he has a cousin who lives in Lewisham (male) think his name is ray or Ron and a cousin in Chislehurst (female) which starts with 's

I was in touch with her last year after another cousin of my grandad passed away and was cremated at Brockley creme her name was ether. But iv lost her number.

Thank you all for helping me oh and harrying Barry comes to mind with a close dob to my grandad

Victoria - do you know if he kept in contact with any of his relatives? Does he have an address book you can go through?
As Christmas has just gone, did he receive any cards whose names you can't identify?

The trouble is that we don't know if we're looking for a male or a female or even whether his cousin is maternal or paternal.

Although the records posted so far are for his nephews and neices, if you haven't kept in touch it's probably too late to arrange a reunion

Lilian K Fludder didn't marry until 1965. Her death

LILIAN KATHLEEN
Last name BEWSEY
Gender Female
Birth day 1
Birth month 12
Birth year 1924
Death quarter 3
Death year 2005
District GREENWICH
District number 2291B
Register number B88
Entry number 137
Date of registration mm/yy 08/05

No Bewsey/Fludder children

Hi all yes all you have found is correct with my grandad. I'm needing to find his living cousin's as my grandad is in end of life care now and there isn't much family around now. Thank you allx

Ethel P Fludder died as an infant, so can't be one of the closed records on the 1939 register

ETHEL P
Last name FLUDDER
Gender Female
Birth year 1921
Age 1
Death quarter 1
Death year 1922
District GREENWICH
County London
Volume 1D
Page 1449

Irene married George F Ball in 1942, then a Mr Warrington in 1948.
She and Mr Warrington had 3 children whose names are shown on freebmd as

Sheila K 4Q 1949, Greenwich
(male) 1954 Deptford - married 1992 in Hitchin so more likely to be living in that direction. Not showing on ER.
(female) 1956 Hitchin

Irene's death
IRENE MAUD
Last name WARRINGTON
Gender Female
Birth day 27
Birth month 11
Birth year 1922
Death quarter 3
Death year 2001
District HITCHIN & STEVENAGE
District number 5341A
Register number 13A
Entry number 037
Date of registration mm/yy 09/0
....
Daughter Sheila K married a Mr Cook in Hitchin in 1968 and seems to have died in Kettering

SHEILA KATHLEEN
Last name COOK
Gender Female
Birth day 8
Birth month 11
Birth year 1949
Death quarter 2
Death year 2002
District KETTERING
District number 6691B
Register number B68D
Entry number 256
Date of registration mm/yy 06/02
....

1956 female married a Mr White in Stevenage in 1983. In 2003 she was living in Hitchin. As other siblings seem to live north of London, its unlikely she's have moved to S London

Other siblings, excluding Irene who first married a Ball and then a Warrington

FLUDDER ETHEL P 1921 England & Wales births 1837-2006 Greenwich, London,
FLUDDER LILIAN K 1925 England & Wales births 1837-2006 Greenwich, London,

Ethel and Robert in 1939, giving their declared dob.

Fludder Household (3 People) 25 Giffin Street , Deptford, London, England

First name(s) Last name(s) DOB Sex Occupation Marital status Schedule Schedule Sub Number
Robert P Fludder 09 Feb 1896 Male Invalid Married 39 1
Ethel G Fludder 02 Jul 1905 Female Unpaid Domestic Duties Married 39 2
Irene (Maud) Warrington (Ball,Fludder) 27 Nov 1922 Female Rag Sorter Single 39
+ 3 closed records

this could be ethels death

ETHEL PRETORIA FLUDDER
England & Wales deaths 1837-2007
Collections from
Great Britain
Country
England
County
London
Year
1983
Birth Year
1900
Event Quarter
3
District
LEWISHAM

Ethel's birth?
Births Dec 1893
Randall Ethel Priscilla St. Saviour 1d 41

Possibly not, if she also dies as Randall:

Ethel Priscilla Randall
Birth Date: 20 Nov 1893
Date of Registration: Sep 1992
Age at Death: 98
Registration district: Southwark
Inferred County: London
Volume: 15
Page: 242

Victoria, could you say who his parents where, and the names of his aunts and uncles, just to help confirm the family.
There could be several cousins - have you names for any of them?

Name appears to be RandaLL

Parents:
Marriages Mar 1920
Fludder Robert P Randall Greenwich 1d 1531
Randall Ethel P Fludder Greenwich 1d 1531

Are any of his family in trees on here?

Have you found Robert and Ethel in 1901 and 1911, to give some names for their siblings?

Shows on 2015 electoral rolls on Blackheath Hill.

Rose

Looking at FreeBMD, his birth was in 1934.

Rose

Hi all I'm trying to fingers any one or family who know Edward (Ted) fludder 26th April 1932 live. Grew up in deptford and then moved up blackheath where he lived for over 40 years. Please if you know my grandad please get in touch. I'm mainly looking for his cousins one of which lives Lewisham hill and another in Chislehurst. Please get in touch asap. Thank you :-(