Find Living Relatives

Or at least I am unable to find them...
name was doe 1936 married hartill 1956. Had 3 children . Found 1 in 1963 but cannot find the other 2..

Thanks

Depends which site you are looking on FreeBMD is still work in progress so may not go up that far

So the mums name is Doe married a Hartill

Does help the search to have the right way round for the fathers name

Not picking up that 1963 birth,what district is it please

Ok found it on another site and is southport

How do you know there are 3.children as the other two don't show

Both the parents are on the electoral roll to 2002 in southport

Did they opt out after then??

Hi, i have been told by a distant family member but no details were shared..

maybe you need to go back to the family member for more info

it may be that the other two weren't born in the uk

Could the other two have been born before the marriage, in which case you would need to look for births with surname Doe and mother's maiden name Doe.

Kath. x

the only Doe births (father or mother's surname) in Southport ever were the mother and her brother, and the one child noted

possibly the couple adopted

I do think that when looking for info about people born as recently as the 1960s it is best to contact family members (and also for us not to speculate about private family matters) ... assuming that what is wanted is contact with the people about whom info is sought, and not just names to put in a family tree (which would be without their permission then and so should certainly never be made public)

um, the mother seems to have herself in trees under 4 ... make that 5 ... accounts here at this website

Mark you have used the site for this long and posted so very many queries and you have not even used this actual site itself for yourself?

:-S

and the child has themself in two trees at this site

you have the child in your own tree Mark, plainly without that child's permission, which is against the rules of the site

your tree must contain thousands of names at this point

I strongly suggest you maintain it off line and not put living people in a tree at this site or anywhere on line without their consent

you're welcome