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have you tried that address I sent you ,she seems to have reverted back to her maiden name

hi
think i found carmen crocker in hampshire no husband in list in free electrol
in whiteley fareham

yvonne

hi
sorry but i found a paul m crocker at that address

yvonne

Yvonne

those addresses have already been sent to Catherine . Plus a possible current address for Carmen

Hi everyone i have been speaking to the local council and been made aware by very helpfull individuals here that she is going by maiden name now as is divorced and possibly not at that address anymore i have been told she has opted out to be on public register so she may still be there but the lady at the council said she would help me but as i live so far away i have to go there on a weekday which will now be after xmas to access these records
x

That sounds hopeful , will keep fingers crossed for you :-)

Thanks everyone really appreciate it without your help i wouldnt of got this far :) :-D

I have just spotted a daughter born to the Croker marriage.........middle name "Carman"

I will PM you the details Catherine.

Prickles. x

Thr children were taken off her in 2011 not sure if she has them back or not found out she was ment to attend vourt for them like she was with me and didnt show up...not much has changed in 20 years

Oh dear.

<3

Still nothing new yet thought id keep you all updated last i know is 100% she does not live at the address we thought as a local council worker was allowed to confirm or deny it for me

I met her after waiting outside her house all day didnt end well but thanks for all your help guys! :)x

Well at least you have some sort of closure and know where she is at the moment

Sadly not all searching for birth parent/s have a happy ending as not all family circumstances are the same

Stay Strong , only you can make a success of your life no matter what your background may be :-(

Stay strong, you have done your very best.

Thanks everyone so gratefull for your help if it wasnt for the help i wouldnt of found her. It was closure in the end and although it didnt turn out well i wont think what if anymore she isnt a very nice person and has said she doesnt want to see me ever again. She has 6 kids in total and doesnt have contact with any so it shows the type of person she is.

Thanks for all youe help and support everyone xx :-)

Catherine

Sorry to see the response you got .

Hopefully you can accept its not YOUR problem, nothing to do with you in any way . Its your mums problem on how she deals with things

we dont ask to come into the world BUT we are control of what we do with our lives and can learn by our experience and not pass anything negative onto our kids

Take care ;-) x