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trying to find my birth mother

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Unknown Report 9 Sep 2013 18:03

i am trying to find my birth mother i was born 20.10.64 in maidstone kent,mothers maiden name paine if anyone can help i would b very greatfull...

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Unknown

Unknown Report 9 Sep 2013 18:07

my name at birth was brian anthony paine , I am trying to find my real mum can anyone help!!

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Rambling

Rambling Report 9 Sep 2013 18:43

David, best to remove your phone number, GR do not allow them for your own protection and your post may be reported if you leave it on.

Anyone wishing to contact you will click on your name to send a private message.

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Click ADD REPLY button - not this link! Report 9 Sep 2013 18:45

Do you have your adoption file and your birth certificate? It will list your birth mum's details.

Rose

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I am not related to you and I'm not your husband's first wife!

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patchem

patchem Report 9 Sep 2013 19:04

These are the details of the birth certificate. You need to order it to get information about your birth mother.

Brian A Paine
Mother's Maiden Surname: Paine
Date of Registration: Oct-Nov-Dec 1964
Registration District: Maidstone
Inferred County: Kent
Volume Number: 5b
Page Number: 1150

Have you read the guidance at the top of the Find Living Relatives board?

Unknown

Unknown Report 10 Sep 2013 16:50

where can I order a birth certificate please ,im new to this!!

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patchem

patchem Report 10 Sep 2013 17:32

This is the official site for certificates - others charge more so do not use them:

https://www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content/certificates/default.asp

I have given you the volume and page numbers.

Information about births, marriages and deaths can be found for free on free bmd, but that 1964 birth does nor show as free bmd does not yet have full coverage.

http://www2.freebmd.org.uk/cgi/search.pl


Your adoption file should have details, have you applied for that also?

jax

jax Report 10 Sep 2013 17:36

You can order certs from here £9.25

http://www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content/

How do you know your birth name if you do not have a birth cert or adoption file?

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Unknown

Unknown Report 10 Sep 2013 17:46

my mum now knew my birth name and told me recently as she wanted me to have all info that she knew !!!

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Kay????

Kay???? Report 10 Sep 2013 19:43

If a child is fostered before an application is made to adopt then the potential adoptive parents have the full name of the child in their care.so a birth certificate isnt always needed. by an adoptee to know a birth name.

ErikaH

ErikaH Report 11 Sep 2013 12:29

Buy your birth cert to find out your mother's forename(s)

Add yourself to the national adoption contact register...........

And be aware that your birth mother's current family may not know of your existence............so don't try to make contact with her directly, even if you do find out where she is now