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I am looking for my mother or any relatives of iris ray thurlow from Barkingside ilford

Hello Fowler

Might this be her marriage?

England & Wales, Marriage Index, 1916-2005
Name:
Iris R Thurlow

Spouse Surname:
Long...Ernest H W
Date of Registration:
Jul-Aug-Sep 1948
Registration District:
Ilford
Inferred County:
Essex
Volume Number:
5a
Page Number:
925

There is another Iris R Thurlow, married 1946 in Hitchin

Both ladies were born In Romford

Misty x

There are no Long/Thurlow births in Essex that would fit in....

Have you got her birth certificate, and have looked for any siblings for her?

Is Iris Ray Thurlow born in 1944 in someone's tree on here also connected?

Thank-you

thanks for your help I also found the above marriage and wondered if it was I was adopted so do not have all that much information I do not know how old she was or when she was born or the fathers name so I think I am looking at a needle in a hay stack. thanks

If you haven't already done so, add yourself to the national adoption contact register

There were two births in Essex for Iris R Thurlow.........and two marriages.

In which year were you born?

That might help with pinpointing the right Iris.

thanks I do have a birth certificate but it has no birth dates on it only mine so I am guesing at the dates

That was why I asked you the year of YOUR birth.................

hi reggie I was born in the march of1944

So, either birth could be your mother........that's a blow

The only way to find out for sure is to purchase the certs.................it's unlikely, I would have thought, that both had the second forename Ray.

Parents of the one born 1926

Marriages Sep 1925 (>99%)
Peters Elsie M Thurlow Romford 4a 1401
Thurlow Leonard E Peters Romford 4a 1401

........and of the one born 1928

Marriages Sep 1927 (>99%)
Plummer Charlotte C Thurlow Romford 4a 1239
Thurlow Frederick J Plummer Romford 4a 1239

You really should look in 'search all trees'