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Welcome to GR and the boards Frank.

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My mother Lavinia (Spittles) Taker was Hector and May's sister. If I remeber correctly it May, Lavinia, Doris, Hector, Bob and Harry. When I was young I lived with the Spittles family in St Chads Road Tilbury. As Robert says they didn't keep in touch much and my mum didn't see Doris agin until 2002 when I arranged a reunion for them.
Frank

OMGosh....It is lovely to here that word....cousin :-D. you've made my day, week year xx I cant wait to find out it we have got it right xx Patsy :-D

Hi cousin?. It does not surprise me about aunt? mays lack of communication regarding her family. My father was jjust the same but because of our geographic closeness to the " spittles family home " at Tilbury Essex my mother insisted on regular visits to my(our/) grandparents. Iam not computer literate and would appreciate a different method of communication please. Robert. :-D

Hi Robert
If this is a repeat of another message i sent you, im sorry, im so excited i keep pressing the wrong button. My mum (May) has never talked about her family and I have spent years trying to locate you guys :) fingers crossed. Thanks for replying and hopefully we can speak soon, if we are related. Again thanks x :-D

Hi Patsy. My name is robert spittles. My father,hector frank spittles,had three sisters,doris,may and lavinia. His mother was lavinia whittingham. Perhaps i can help. :-)

Thank you all for this information, really helpfull. sorry late responce have been away :)
:-)

http://www.genesreunited.co.uk/boards/board/living_relatives/thread/1324876

maybe
Name: Adeline Booth
Spouse Surname: Howells
Date of Registration: Apr-May-Jun 1913
Registration district: Bridgend
Inferred County: Glamorgan
Volume Number: 11a
Page Number: 1351
spouse William J Howells

Name: Phyllis M Howells
Mother's Maiden Name: Booth
Date of Registration: Jan-Feb-Mar 1914
Registration district: Bridgend
Inferred County: Glamorgan
Volume: 11a
Page: 1933




name: Adeline Howells
Spouse Surname: Dierden
Date of Registration: Jul-Aug-Sep 1922
Registration district: Cardiff
Inferred County: Glamorgan
Volume Number: 11a
Page Number: 851
Find Spouse: James Dierden

not seeing a marriage Dierden/Booth so maybe the mum had been married before

sisters
Name: Emily E Dierden
Mother's Maiden Surname: Booth
Date of Registration: Jan-Feb-Mar 1925
Registration district: Hay
Inferred County: Merionethshire
Volume Number: 11b
Page Number: 154

Name: Margaret R Dierden
Mother's Maiden Surname: Booth
Date of Registration: Jul-Aug-Sep 1932
Registration district: Bridgend
Inferred County: Wales
Volume Number: 11a
Page Number: 1147

death
Name: Margaret R Dierden
Birth Date: abt 1932
Date of Registration: Oct-Nov-Dec 1932
Age at Death: 0
Registration district: Bridgend
Inferred County: Glamorganshire
Volume: 11a
Page: 792

Name: Leonard George Dierden
Birth Date: 16 Sep 1926
Date of Registration: Jul 2004
Age at Death: 77
Registration district: Cheltenham
Inferred County: Gloucestershire
Register Number: C69D
District and Subdistrict: 479/1C
Entry number: 156




Name: Leonard G Dierden
Mother's Maiden Surname: Booth
Date of Registration: Oct-Nov-Dec 1926
Registration district: Hay
Inferred County: Merionethshire
Volume Number: 11b
Page Number: 153

as Lavinia A Whittingham is quite an unusual name this is the likely birth

Births Jun 1895 (>99%)
Whittingham Lavinia Ann Medway 2a 623


Use the search facility top right of page to see if anyone has these names in their tree :-)

Hi Patsy the numbers for births and the marriage above are the GRO reference numbers, you can use them to order birth or marriage certs from

http://www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content/certificates/

The marriage cert for example will give you the names of Harry and Lavinia's fathers and occupations which will make it easier to locate them on the census'.

Marriages Jun 1921 (>99%)

SPITTLES Harry W Whittingham Medway 2a 1605

Whittingham Lavinia A Spittles Medway 2a 1605

thanks rambling rose, but i am totally new to this and havent a clue wat 4a 1769 means ?? can you explain for me ....thanks ever so much :-)

Births Jun 1930 (>99%)

SPITTLES May F Whittingham Medway 2a 1335

Freebmd shows siblings Patsy you can see them at

http://www.freebmd.org.uk/cgi/search.pl

Enter Spittles with mmn Whittingham

for ref
Marriages Mar 1953 (>99%)
DIERDEN Leonard G SPITTLES Thurrock 4a 1769

SPITTLES May F DIERDEN Thurrock 4a 1769

Both english, may f dierden born 1930, married lenard g dierden.around 1952. may has a sister called doris and her mother was called lavinia.
Any information i would be greatfull for. :-)
Regards Patsy