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Trying to find Stephen Howarth in Lancashire

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Rachel

Rachel Report 19 Apr 2012 22:51

Hi,
I am trying to find a Stephen/Steven Howarth/Haworth in the Lancashire area, mainly Blackpool, Leyland or Preston? I know he was roughly born in 1972, apparently in March. Last know to work in IT/Computing in Preston about 8 years ago. Now married with atleast 1 child.
Any information would be extremely appreciated.
Thanks

patchem

patchem Report 19 Apr 2012 23:00

Could you say what your connection to him is?
If working in IT/Computing have you tried linked in?
http://uk.linkedin.com/
Thank-you.

brummiejan

brummiejan Report 19 Apr 2012 23:02

Rachel, your best bet is to try Facebook or 192.com.
You could do with a middle initial, but with the possible variables in name and birth year, and no birthplace, I think it is impossible to find his birth record.
If you have an address for him it would be possible to search electoral register to ascertain his exact name, though this is not searchable online.
Jan

Rachel

Rachel Report 20 Apr 2012 07:15

Hi,
Thankyou! I have tried Facebook but with no success, unfortunately. And he usnt on Linked In. I know the exact company he used to work for, but I don't think they would be able to help me due to confidentiality issues, or would they?
He is my dad but he left about 20 years ago.
Thankyou for your help so far!

brummiejan

brummiejan Report 20 Apr 2012 11:42

They have changed the Friends Reunited site, so not sure how easy this would be, but you might try searching for the company and see if anyone has them as their workplace. It's so recent that there might also be fellow employees on there who know of him
I would contact the company anyway, what have you got to lose? They might be willing to forward a letter to any address they still hold.
Have you any idea who he married or when his child was born?
Jan

Rachel

Rachel Report 20 Apr 2012 12:01

Thanks. Great idea! No, unfortunately its not something im really allowed to talk about. We've only talked about it once so that's all I know. I am apprehensive though about getting in touch as he probably hasn't told his wife/family about the past. That's why I wanted to find someone who knows him so they cqn introduce it to him slowly. I will try friends reunited now. If I rang up the company-I'm guessing they wouldnt be able to give me his details, would they?
Thankyou!

brummiejan

brummiejan Report 20 Apr 2012 12:26

They won't give you his details - well, you wouldn't expect it really would you? There might be a colleague who remembers him, but I appreciate you need to tread extremely carefully. To be honest, I might be inclined to gloss over the truth as if you go down this route, their last thing you want is for word to get back to him about you trying to find him, before you are ready for this.
Personally I would try the Friends Reunited site first. What a pity you have no address. Apart from anything else, you could really do with finding out his exact name.
You are right, this is really tricky. I wonder if you could use a bit of advice as to how to proceed?
Jan

Rachel

Rachel Report 20 Apr 2012 13:15

I tried Friends Reunited but nothing came of it :( I've been trying to find him for 8 years now. Perhaps its just not meant to be. A work colleague suggested the telephone directory, but it is quite forward to ring someone out of the blue.. And no, I didnt expect them to give out information! I'm just desperate ha.
Thanks :-)

Sad_Mushroom

Sad_Mushroom Report 20 Apr 2012 14:16

Hi Rachel...
Is he your dad???

Kellie

jax

jax Report 20 Apr 2012 14:55

Rachel has said he is Kellie

brummiejan

brummiejan Report 20 Apr 2012 15:00

I am assuming you don't have names of other family members, friends?
Jan

Rachel

Rachel Report 20 Apr 2012 15:03

Hi Kellie,
Yes he is, biologically! Do you have any information?
Thankyou for getting in touch!
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Rachel

Rachel Report 20 Apr 2012 15:17

And no I dont know any other friends or family. I know that his mother looked after me at weekends and I think he supported Preston North End football.
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