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I have been trying for years to find my husband's birth mother, have got her birth certificate, marriage certificate (not to his father) but have seemed to come to a brick wall, as she would now be 81 years, we have bth come to the conculson that she may have passed away. Could anyone please tell us how we could find this out even though we are not 100% sure.
her details are:
Patience Mary Clarke (nee Ireland) born Dec 1930 Gerrards Cross
married a Robert Cecil Clarke in 1958 at Walton-on-the-naze. Essex
My husband was born in April 1953 wilst she was living in Holland Park London.
If anyone can help we would be very grateful. <3

If you have her exact date of birth send it to me privately by clicking on my name and I will look for you but only up till 2006 ( unless you have looked already)

jax

Found a potential marriage in 1966 in Manchester for her to a Harold P Greaves.
Will send you a private message with an address and telephone number.

Regards. :-)

Sorry susan I got your message and had no idea what it was about but as Brian replied to this thread...it then twigged :-D I am abit confused that you do not know exactly when she was born when you say you have her birth cert??

Just like to say Brian that marriage you sent may not be her as there was someone born in 1923 with the same name including the two middle initals

The only address I could see for that couple was 2002

jax

Think I found her death under Blount in 1981 but that has her born in November 1930.

In a very old thread you mention some family names were Haughton-Fielden.

Well, there's a Patience M Haughton-Fielden marrying a Blount in 1970. Seems too much of a coincidence.

Rose

I noticed that death too earlier but as Susan had said in her OP that she had the birth cert I would have thought she knew her date of birth?

Would have been nice to know about the other thread though

Deaths Dec 1981

Blount Patience Mary
15 Nov 1930
Brentwood 9 1730

Rose

Found this old thread where Susan states her birth date is 15/11/1930 so it must be the one.

http://www.genesreunited.co.uk/boards.page/board/ancestors/thread/484080

Rose

Thanks Rose

So why when I asked for the date of birth at the start of this thread did I get a pm saying "all I know is it is sometime between jan and march 1931"

Does'nt make sense at all

jax

Thank you for explaining susan but could you please reply on the thread by adding in the white box at the end of all the posts

jax

Jax,

There's been no response to the death I posted. Thought there would be some reaction after searching for at least 8 years.

What did Susan say to you?

Rose

I confused because Susan sent me a pm but she has not opened the one I sent her saying I did'nt know what the pm was about.

So I feel she must have seen this to send me the second one

I think it maybe an Idea to pm her Rose

I'm sorry Jax, if I a, getting a bit confused with how to reply to all threads, please dont think I am not grateful for all your help and others too. I am not sure regarding the death notice you sent. I know it is 8 years but please be a bit patient with me.

Hi Susan

It was Rose who posted the death not me, I'm affraid. I believe from an earlier thread you mentioned the the other names here is the marriage

Name: ******* Blount
Spouse Surname: Haughton-Fielden
Date of Registration: Apr-May-Jun 1970
Registration district: Hammersmith
Inferred County: London
Volume Number: 5b
Page Number: 1589
Find Spouse: Find Spouse
Patience M Haughton-Fielden

I imagine that the confusion regarding the birth is that Susan has accessed the record stating Jan - March 1931 but does not have the certificate giving the actual date. This implies late registry of the birth (post 6 weeks), but that happens.

Welcome to the boards Amanda

But why have you dug this thread up to tell us this?

Susan knew the date of birth as she had mentioned it in her post in the link that has been given above from 2006.