General Chat

Pink.... I think maybe me and you share the same views re the bible..... 'nuff said !!! Sue xxx

och!!!!! my medicine has ran out here!!!!! and sorry but.....i really coul do with another spoonful or so!!! pmsl

Sam.... no views for or against were given in malice honestly!! xx

Sex before bedtime is ok!! Dx

We can't all agree on everything, all of the time. but as long as we all learn to respect other people's veiws and beliefs we should all be able to get allong just fine.

I aree with Nell Incidentlly, to throw the cat among the pigeons... what about those couples who don't believe in marriage/are non religious etc ?

mmmmm... only a sip .... dont want you getting tipsy Jill..... Sue xxx

finding these views very interesting as i am a teenage mum well was my son is 14.

this was fun in a serious sense!! Another good debate started by Lucia..... I'm glad you can give as good as you get!! I won't give you my opinion on the bible as that's another debate altogether!! xx

pmsl Jill!

hey Helen little Nell.....quite frankly any would be welcome!!!! pmsl

oh can i say quite categorically 'necessarily' doesnt come in to it!!!!! lolololol

Sex before or indeed after marriage is I believe a matter for each person to decide for themselves.

oh I do Diana!!! lolol Sue you dad on with the lambrini!!! can i have some please???

.. me too Jill..... what are your feelings on Lambrini .... we could be ' sisters' depending on your answer..... Sue xx...... hick....

Jill - ok you can have the perfect family without a cat!!! Me?? I'll just keep the cat and leave the perfect family to everyone else!! :O)

Lucia you would be a rarity where I live! The local virgins hold their meeting in a phone box lol!!! Dx

i think I probably stand for virtually everthing that Lucia stands against!!!!! lolol Does that make me a bad person??? I smoke...I drink.....I had sex before marriage (wink wink), I beleive in the right to chose to abort your child, I believe in illegitimate children, i beleive in music and rock n roll........

Sue, no... Jill has been pming me so she knows a lot of my views now already and doesn't necessarily agree with them lol :-)

I think in America there are many young people abstaining from sexual activity until they marry, due to lots of publicity about the problems of sexually transmitted diseases, pregnancy etc but mainly I think to respect their bodies and learn to say no. I had friends at school in the 1960's who would entertain the local lads while their parents were in church on a Sunday, one of them had to get married and is now on her third partner. Her parents would never have believed what went on with her and her sister while father was helping out in church, and mother was teaching Sunday school. This was after the girls had been to the early Communion service! Everyone is different and parents these days are more lax about the freedom they give their kids to have boy or girlfriends stay over or spend hours in their rooms so encourage the sexual relationship even if the kids are underage. My son is illegitimate because his father didn't follow through with his promises, like many men he backed out of eveything we had planned (and my son was planned) and left me high and dry, to cope alone back in my own country. That is not my fault and definitely not my son's fault. I think if you are happy and proud to stay a virgin until you marry Lucia, then good for you, whatever you are most comfortable with and suits you. Personally I would never marry someone without sleeping with them first, it is another dimension of their personality that could mean the difference between a successful happy marriage, and a disaster. Good luck to you Lucia.