General Chat

Who cares if something is natural or artifical? What does it matter. My hair has blonde streaks in it, they're not NATURAL. I'm sat at a computer, it's not made of wood and is no way NATURAL. I'm looking out of a window at a Cathedral that was built and didn't grow NATURALLY. So? I think those that champion nature and all things being natural are hypocrites unless they live totally self-contained, relying on the NATURAL resources around them without relying on pharmaceuticals, cars etc.

but Louise, if you had been brought up by gay parents, then THAT would have been normal for you! you wouldn't have known any different would you?! Maz. XX

I remember seeing a documentary a few years back, where a Gay couple (2 Men) had I think it was two daughters - they interviewed the eldest daughter and she was well educated and very well balanced and would make any Parent proud. As far as she was concerned she just had 2 Dad's and let's face it many Kids these days have 2 Dad's or 2 Mum's. If a loving, stable home can be provided then I see no problem with same sex couples having children. Kaye x

I don't understand whatever your preference is in the bedroom affects your love and ability to be a parent. The two are totally unconnected in my view and if so called society was more tolerant of people in general then there would be quite a few less social problems. I judge people by their sincerity and humanity, not by their sexuality. xlolx

My Last words Love Knows No Gender........ says it all. E x

I can remember as being told on this board that my upbringing must have been a difficult one as i had been bought up by profoundly deaf people - my answer was 'actually being bought up by hearing parents is something i find hard to understand' the bottom line is - what you are bought up with is NORMAL to YOU and as long as you weren't abused in any shape or form then no-one else can judge whether that is right or wrong!! As for gay couples not being able to concieve naturally - are we gonna banned IVF for hetrosexual couples because they can't concieve 'naturally'? The world is made up of lots of different people - being straight doesn't make us perfect parents!!

Diana and Deanna, I agree with you on this. Sexuality shouldn't make a difference.

Diana, youve met me a few times now and would you say i didnt look or act like a 'normal' hetrosexual woman? Im sorry to keep harping on but this thread has p****d me off a wee bit. All i can say is dont knock it till youre in the situation.

Sheesh - sweets - I'm gonna unbox you completely - YOU ARE A NORMAL WOMAN!! I don't give a stuff who you sleep with personally as its bog all to do with me!! xx

But to add a bit of humour Sheesh - Me gutted you don't have cropped hair and wear dungarees with big steel toe capped boots!! And yes everyone else that's a joke on the stereo-typing the world does!! ;o)

He he, what a shame im a glam blonde pmsl and my girlfriend is even better looking - and 12 yrs younger :-) Thanks sweetie, think im feeling a bit paranoid xx

well that explains why you have never made a pass at me!! PMSL!!! xx

My son is not gay. He shares his flat with another lad he has known for years and they each have a child who come to their Dad's at weekends etc. Not a lot of difference to those two kids except that their fathers don't sleep together. I would rather see a child in a proper home where it is loved, however that home is constituted, than some of the atrocious conditions and treatment some of them receive.

youre gorgeous believe me ;-) but im in love. Off to bed now

night sweets and thanks for the compliment!! xx