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Rebekah!

And Keith abandons his! Most of us have at some time or other been the last to add to a thread (sounds better than a threadkiller!). I've only met one person from here but it seems like I know a lot more, that's just from chatting to them on here. Add when you want, sometimes it's serious, sometimes sad and sometimes just a load of old tosh - but it's usually friendly, so have fun!

What rubbish. Everyone is listened to. Youre so childish. My 5yr old daughter demands less attention than you do.

When you're part of a crowd, it's very hard to choose which individual in that crowd you can and cannot be friends with, without upsetting another member of that crowd. I prefer to choose my own friends individually, and will not judge someone on the company they keep.

I've never been part of an In crowd and it can sometimes feel as if you arent part of things when peeps seem to know each other,I have come across some great peeps on here, You may have been feeling sensitive like a lot of us do but one particular post on here was a bit hurtful, maybe not meant that way but for anyone feeling alone and vulnerable it could be taken that way and thats just my opinion! Take care Claire, cazxxxxx

shy at the begining polly takes over threads

Just jump in, look at Babs, we have found out we could be related !! and Nolls and I went to the same school !! It is a small world but just get chatting... I was very shy at the begining.... I heard that ...I was..

I didnt know there was a IN crowd but Clare if thats the way we have made you feel so sorry ;;; but as has been said the only way to get known is just to jump in and join in ;;;we have all been new at some time ;; Babs who is only a 14 mth member ;; Ps Welcome to the site all newbies ;;we need you ;; thats what keeps the site going ;;

Don't worry Claire most people are not in the in crowd we all feel like that sometimes will now look out for your threads Norah ((((hugs)))))

Now Clair, You have not added to my thread re Adverts. I have never been part of the in crowd so 9 replies is a triumph for me. Fancy making it 10. lol Jeanie A.

Claire dont feel like that, I get ignored, I can kill threads stone dead..............in fact I've never in my life been one of the in crowd, and now have stopped worrying about it........ regards Barbara..xx

I get ignored sometimes to be honest, I dont care cos people dont know me and some people cant take my sense of humor but never mind, that there little problem. Dont worry about it, not worth getting upset about.

I don't know what is the matter with you people. I haven't read the whole thread but I'm fed up with insinuations of cliques & in crowds. I've been using this board for 16 mths now & there are times when I answer a thread or add one & no-one acknowledges that I'm there. I don't go & throw a hissy fit & complain about 'in crowds'. I just conclude that what I have to say is of no interest to those around at the time. Please don't take everything so personal or have you been so spoilt that everything has to revolve around you Now please can we have a peaceful friday night. Vivienne xx

claire I feel like that sometimes but welcome aboard and keep on ploughing away there luv tj

Gawd Rosy, wot av you put your foot in?????

Hello Claire, Can i Join the Gang too? I'm in the same boat as you. I find a reply to a thread and when I look, everyone a disappeared ! Janinex

blackfoot gang? LOL, I like the name!

Awwwwww Paul do you wanna be in my Blackfoot gang, just been gardening LOL Sunny

I'm not a member of the 'in' crowd either. And to be honest, not that bothered! I'd rather be in the 'out' crowd and keep the friends I have, then try and get in their group. I don't change myself for anyone. I'm me, and people either like it or they don't. No skin of my nose.

I think it feels like that at first to everyone! I just badgered em into talking to me lol! Just keep posting and as you can see from this thread, people will talk with you! It all depends on what the thread is about, how many are on at the time etc etc. I am sure it is nothing personal. It's happened to me lots. I put up a thread which I deem interesting and get no response and then put one on that seems daft and end up chatting on it for ages. Really don't worry! :o))))))))))))))))))