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My son and his girlfriend split in Feb after 4 years but it was an amicable split - joint decision alth a little weighted on her side lol He seems to be coping well and realises it is probably for the best, he is still spending some time with her little lad of 6, he didn't want to cut off from him completely, and I saw him a week ago too. Hope my lad can find a girl without a child so there isn't so much pressure on him and her - he is only coming up to 25 so lots of time but I would like to be a grandma fairly soon lol

my best friend left his wife sunday for her best friend after 27 yearsand now my foster sons left his girlfriend too after 6 years

Joy, On a practical front, has she been to the doctor to get checked for STDs? If not, she should. My friend found out her husband was having an affair and she got checked. Her husband never told her, but it turned out the mistress was a prostitute. She only found out by digging around on his computer. Rose

its leave your partner week i think xx

Joy, you had me pmsl I am sure with your support and that of her family, your friend will be able to work through all the emotions that come with a situation like this, and come out strong and happy, even if it takes a while. Wish her luck! Liz

aw kaye,well she can read this and get strength from it.shes unsure what the future holds,but i said many are in the same situation,and they will pull through just like you.xxx

The anger will come later - she has to get the sadness out of her system first, although that will still linger to a point. Eventually she'll move forward and reach a point where she is just angry with him - I'm there now! There is light at the end of the tunnel - she might not be able to see it yet, but it is there I promise. Kaye x

hi suzz,she has,nt got an ouce of anger there[yet]just sadness.but he deserves some nasty stuff,hubby says he,ll regret it.as when he went to get his stuff,he asked if she would try and work it out.she just closed the door. hi PP she said shes gonna be a nun.....nun last nite nun today and nun tomoz,lol. hi kaye shes still very sad,and mulling things over but it now more what life has in store for her.xxxx

I hope your friend finds the strength to get through this - I'm sure she will, it's amazing what you can cope with when you have to. From someone who's been there - be assured that things do get better. Kaye x

well my mates just been round and read all the support you have given her,and..........turns out hes been at with his work bag 2 years.so many knew but not my mate.she said she will hold her head high,this is something the other woman can never do.he has shot it big time.hugs to my lovely mate.xxxxx

Good for her, and well said, her son! She can hold her head up in public now she has shown him the door, and the fact she has her kids on her side too, is good. Tell her to enjoy her freedom and peace of mind for a while before getting involved with another man, altho I am sure she won't want to yet anyway. Wish her well, from me. Liz

will do hun,shes still not been round yet,so when she does i,ll show her this thread.hugsxxxxxxxxxxxxme

give her our love and tell her we are thinking of her xxx

hi joy hi LL i hope so too,and i think the slimebags deserve each other.good riddance to bad rubbish i say.xxxxxx

i hope she meets somebody nice to share her life with xxx

hi LL,shes still very upset,but wants him out her life,its amazing how 2 people can cause this much hurt but they have.xxx

good for him babes the low life husband stealer deserves it out of the mouths of babes xxx

her son went to a shop in her area,[the womans]she was at the front paying for her papers.she comented about something sad in our local paper.he raised hi voice and said tragic is also when someone has to nick another womans husband.she coloured up and walked out.the shop was silent.xxx

Hi Gerry, Its good to see a chap adding, good advice mate. Once the trust has gone it can spell big problems, Caz xxxxx

hi all Been away for a bit. As a bloke i despair about the way some of my sex behave. I say, at the slightest inklin (suggestion) of your bloke doin wrong ...................... get rid!! No ifs and buts!! Gerry :-)