General Chat

Good for your pal, Joy, tell her to keep her chin up and don't waver. Liz

Hi Joy, Well done your friend! He should follow the guy who chopped his di-- off in a restaurant. Lowest point has happened. It can only go up from here : ) Kirsten

I have same problem, a mate who wont leave though even though she has been betrayed and so hurt.....wish i could tell her to get shot of him xx Well done to yr mate Joyus xx

thanks for the replies everyone,shes just read them to date and says shes going to do her family tree,lol.she thinks your so lovely,and it will help to take her mind of things. ALSO she asked me if i knew what her kids were up to,er moi as if. there taking her to matlock tomoz,doing a picnic,and spending the day there.WOW. and..........WE ALL KNOW AND SHE DOES,NT .SO WHEN SHE READS THIS NEXT TIME SHE,LL KNOW WE ALL KNOW.PMSL as for the low life and his floosey well he came round the other day and asked if she felt ready to talk................and maybe time would heal,after all HE misses the kids,and HE does,nt feel right in her house.she said THERES NOTHING TO DISCUSS............ he went off with his tail between his legs.bless her shes being really strong.she said theres no going back,it makes her feel sick that hes been with this woman,and she would just feel dirty if he came back.so TO A LOVELY LADY WHOSE FAR STRONGER THAN I EVER THOUGHT SHE,D BE.XXXXHUGS

This story has made my day Joy.....I am glad your friend is being strong.....she is right, the marriage is badly damaged and she can do better for herself......

MAY YOUR FRIEND find happiness and may god give her the strength she needs bless her xxxxx

Good for her and hope the picnic goes well, what lovely kids she has, must take after her. Liz

thanks gals,her kids are lovely,and love her very much.its mainly because of this that she does,nt want him back.she can cope with her hurt,but not theres.so its hit the road jack for him.she,ll love it tomoz,what could be nicer than being with your kids.he can spend his sad little life with his floosey.i know which i,d prefer.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Good on her, sounds like my ex b-i-l Ann x

Hi Joy, GOOD for your mate!!!! Caz xxxx

well shes so much better off without him,and so much stronger.and happier now.she seems to have got through the worst.xxxx

have just been speaking to my mate,her ex has just come round asking her to reconcider. shes just said,sorry you make your bed you lie in it.shes informed him shes also moving house.to many bad memories. she let him tell her how much he missed her,how much he misses the kids,and his lovely home.he does,nt feel like he belongs in his floosies house. hes gave her no mantainance for the 2 younger kids,but takes his bit of slap to skeggy with hers.typical .but she sent him on his way.well done hun.xxxxxx

Sounds to me like him and the floosie deserve one another. Good for her !!!!!!!! She can rise above them I am sure. I bet this time next year she'll be unstoppable !!!!!!!!! xx

muff i really hope so hun,them pair have been sneaking around for ages ,thinking no-one know.but all there work mates knew.xx

GOOD LUCK to your mate hope she stays stronge xxxx

Good for your pal, hope she finds a nice home to move to, and then hammers him for maintenance through csa, or whoever does it now, so he doesn't have spare money for floozie, will she want him then when he can't spend on her and her family?