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ZZzzz

ZZzzz Report 14 Aug 2023 13:57

That compliments total strangers on their coats, shoes and well behaved children. Hubby doesn't get why I do that but. the same has been said to me so I think it is right and some times we have a bit of a chat.

Gwyn in Kent

Gwyn in Kent Report 14 Aug 2023 15:09

Very willing to chat with strangers, but I tend to keep conversation general and not mention anything personal.

AnninGlos

AnninGlos Report 14 Aug 2023 15:24

We were once complimented on the good behaviour of our three grandsons aged about 7, 11 and 12 after a meal in a restaurant. It was nice to be complimented. (they were always well behaved when eating out, praise due to their parents rather than us. But because of this if a child in a restaurant for a long meal is exceptinally well behaved, yes I would compliment the adults with them. But not on clothes ot other personal things. Always happy to chat if spoken to.

Island

Island Report 14 Aug 2023 17:02

I do if the situation is appropriate - ie, I wouldn't make a bee line for someone in the street. Life's too short not to be friendly.

SheilaSomerset

SheilaSomerset Report 14 Aug 2023 17:15

In some cases, yes. I was asked directions in Bath centre a while back, and the man complimented my jacket, it can give one a little boost!

SylviaInCanada

SylviaInCanada Report 15 Aug 2023 04:03

Back in 2019, we were in Jasper, on Whistler Mountain which overlooks the town site, had gone up in a shuttle bus to the base of the gondola ride to the top.

I was wearing a long skirt as usual, everyone else was wearing trousers or jeans, so when I saw another lady wearing a long skirt, I couldn't help commenting on it.

I also met a lady on a Canadian train on one of our Christmas trips, she was wearing the most gorgeous hat and it really suited her. So I complimented her on it on our 3rd meeting.

I've made a point of complimenting parents on well behaved children. It happened to me when our daughter was young, and I really appreciated it, so I feel I'm just passing it on.