General Chat

Just hoping you get some good news very soon and that you will be able to see your OH. I'm sure he wants to see you too

Wendy x

Am so sorry, Scozz...you must have felt so helpless! I hope you slept a bit and good luck for tomorrow. XXXBC <3

Scozz
Sending very best wishes to you and your OH. Do hope you can get to the hospital in the morning
Take care
Von

OH 'phoned me from the hospital!

He sounded a bit croaky, but lots better than he did a few hours ago.

He is having a CT scan tomorrow (he had one last week). He'll definitely be in the hospital until at least Friday.

So looking forward to seeing him tomorrow <3

Would you believe the local hospital didn't even tell him I 'phoned!!!!? They told him that his sister phoned (probably because she can be very persistent!).

I've got a list of things to take for him........ wallet, mobile 'phone, specs (I knew I forgot something!).

Back to bed for me........ it's nearly midnight, and the alarm is set for 7.00am

Thankyou all for your concern, much appreciated.



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Im really sorry to hear about your OH , hope he feels better soon. He has certainly been through it these last few weeks. Glad you have heard from him and hopefully he will pick up soon.

Told you we are always here for you...

Mwoochios and hugs for you and your OH....tell him has got to get better to win a round of golf :-D <3 <3

ty Mersey

OH will be very annoyed if he can't play golf on Sunday! It's an annual event, held over a few months at lots of clubs. He played golf today! He was fine when he got home, but a few hours later was really sick.

As you can probably tell, I can't sleep. The bed seems so big & empty.

I won't sleep well, so I'm better off not even trying. I've made a pot of coffee, will read for a while, then maybe in a couple of hours I'll have a "wake-up" shower & wash my hair...... then get the trowel out to put on makeup so that OH won't know I've had no sleep.

Our neighbour saw the ambulance, came over and gave me a cuddle :-D ~ that's the neighbour with the dogs who think they also live at our place.... the dogs were all looking out the window & howling.

I hate this.



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At least you have spoken to him Scozz, hope you get to see him ok.

Scozz so very sorry to hear about your OH being poorly..

I would go to the hospital without telling them you are going.
Take OH some clean jim jams and all the rest of thestuff he can't do without,especually his glasses.

Give him a hug from me
and heres a big hug for you (( Massive Hugs)))

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Sorry Scozz to hear about your OH and hope it won't be long until he's back home with you.

I wish him a speedy recovery

Mau (XX)

So sorry to hear about your OH and the problems you are having with the hospital.
I wouldn't tell them you intend to visit they can hardly refuse you a visit.

Have you got a good relationship with your family GP, perhaps a call to them may give you some reassurances if they know how concerned and out of the loop you are feeling?

Thinking about you both and wishing you all the best

Lolly <3

I cant believe you still dont know whats wrong with your hubby.

terrible way to be treated.

It's such a shame that you weren't allowed to go with him in the ambulance, it would have been much more reassuring for both of you.
Hoping he's better soon,
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Scozz hope youve had a little sleep at least you need to be strong when you go see hubby.....otherwise you will get me waggy finger LOL and you dont want that !!! :-D ;-) <3 <3

Thinking of you and OH LadyScozz.

Hope all goes well.

Mr M......xx <3xx

Scozz


so sorry to hear this

I cannot believe that you were not allowed to go in the ambulance .................. did you tell them that you were unable to get to the hospital yourself?

I cannot believe that your hospitals are so far behind the times as to not allow a spouse to speak to a nurse on the ward or a doctor.


That most certainly is not the case here!


Go, but do not TELL them you are going, and do NOT ASK them if you may see your husband.

Take him some clean jimjams, a $5 note and some change, specs, a wash bag with a toothbrush, toothpaste, soap, and deodorant (if he uses it), and some reading matter ................... but nothing else valuable!

Do NOT take his wallet, credit cards, iphone, tablet, laptop, watch, etc. Even think twice about taking in an electric razor.

Take his medical cards with you, in case they want to see them. Have your credit cards with you, or your cheque book, or cash.

Our hospitals actually tell you all this ................. there are very nasty people around who steal stuff from patients, even ripping rings off their fingers.

There are no safe places to keep valuables, so it is better not to have anything.



Meanwhile .................. take care of yourself xxxxx

Hope all goes well Scozz - will be thinking of you and your OH <3

Just read this Scozz - how shabbily you've been treated by the hospital!!

Hope you've managed to get some sleep and will be able to visit your husband very soon and that he's OK and being well cared for.

Thinking about you and him. Wend x

Sorry to hear of your worrying time.
Hoping a new day has brought you better news.

Take care of yourself through all this.

Gwyn

Just read this....thinking of you...lets hope he will soon be home.
Think they were wrong not putting your mind at ease.
Hope you managed to sleep .
Brenda x
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Morning all <3 It's 7.45am here.

Thankyou all for your concern and good wishes, very much appreciated.

The hospital OH is in is not the one he was taken to last night. He's in a large hospital in Queensland, our local hospital is very small with only one doctor on duty at night (so I believe).

He's asked for his wallet, so I will take it and bring it home, I will see the admin people and settle the account. Not sure about taking his 'phone as most hospitals don't allow you to use them.

I forgot about this, OH will get a giggle (can't make him laugh too much, cos it hurts)......... when the admin person from our local hospital called last night, she asked if OH had Torrens Strait or Aboriginal blood!!! He's very dark, but that's from years of sun :-D I told her to look at his backside, because that's white. Funny thing is, we have Aboriginal friends, and the guys call OH "brother" :-D... they will certainly get a laugh about this.

Must go, sitting here with wet hair, am being collected in just over an hour.

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