General Chat

exactly - I will not delete this thread at your behest - as Hayley so rightly says, who the hell d'you think you are - you are not welcome on this thread having persisted in giving us chapter and verse on Tesco - completely off topic, yet when I put something off topic on your thread I was reported - I could do the same to you but I wouldn't stoop to your level

and may I say, what a lovely friend you have in terryj - I hope you'll be very happy together, you sound so very suited - and he does use such lovely flowery language, just like you

does shirts ring a bell
my appologies it wasn't you that deleted the last one then

Keeping the Faith
another one with great musical tastes then

who the hell are you to tell someone to delete a thread

John - homophobic was not the word used - he used three other terms, one of which none of us had heard for years - if you're comfortable with that so be it

he knows it was me and had you seen it Hayley you would have reported it too I'm sure

Terry no one has deleted your post it was reported you click on the report button and the post disappears it GR who decides if the post stays or not.....It wasnt me by the way

does shirts ring a bell

I very much doubt that Terry feels bad at all. From his post, he sounds as if he has had a bloomin good night with his friends. The DJ was a man. Now what is "man" in Latin? And should the word homophobic be rr'd because that also is a shortened form of the more correct and longer term. Hardly any posters hate men.

I get the impression that Terry calls his dj friend all the terms he has been rr'd for. And he probably gets called a few names too. As we all do. At least you have judged that I am sane, AnnC. Thankyou for confirming that.

Keeping the Faith :-D

banging on about having gay friends does not sway me from the view I already have of you - disgusting

and John wants to make terryj feel better - well I certainly do not - he disgusts me and if you knew the terminology he used you would be disgusted too - as I said, if anyone wants to know, send me a message

The simple answer is,,,

this a a public forum that can be viewed by anyone who googles,,,,,,,,


and Genes expect the *******mature adults******** can be self moderating in knowing what is acceptable and what isnt.

Kay - I still am - Its my personal opinion and I am not changing it for you or anybody for that matter.

GP

the report option removes offensive comments straight away ( by majority request, as before they remained for days...absolutely obscene and untrue comments about a person could be there a whole weekend).This way GR decide if they are put back or not.

The answer to 'why no moderators or pre post moderation'? is money.

why doesn't this forum have its own moderators like most other forums do rather than letting any tom dick or ann delete posts willy nilly because it offends their delicate taste
the other option is delayed posting where all posts are moderated before public viewing

Mind GPride was all for,

Adam and Eve and not Adam and Steve........!

Oh dear, missed another RR'd post.
Note to myself ..must keep up !

and as for terryj - considering the disgusting words you used to describe gay men I am more than a little surprised you have not been banned permanently from this site

and if you would like to know the words used, send me a message - all three of his postings were reported and removed

I would of left Fredericks post personaly uncalled for and vulgar as it was it was his opinion and we could of counted the thuds of hearing the hand wringers fainting :-0

Frederick I find that totally uncalled for and unnecessary. Many will find your post somewhat offensive and inflamatory.

Dizzi - thank you. I have just been looking at your driftwood thread - absolutely wonderful