General Chat

'Care for the carers' was a slogan much promised some years ago.

Sadly - not much sign of it down here in the South-West.

Cyns ................

take care, and get as much rest and respite yourself as you can during the 2 week break in caring for G.

Take all the help you can.

Much love xxxx

Hello all

Cynthia make sure that you take the time to rest also.

Wishing all who look in Strength, Peace and Joy as we begin a new month today

Thank you Cynthia for your time to post on here.

I used to nurse people with dementia and it is a 24/7
job, respite is a must for you.
I know how much it takes out of those who are carers. <3

Good morning :-)

Thanks Vera - I'm not sure how long the Everyday Faith course lasts but I hope it has been interesting.

Life here is certainly interesting. Yesterday my OH went into a nursing home for respite for a 2 week stay in order to give me a break. The caring role has become very intense over the last few weeks as his dementia has suddenly galloped and impacted on our lives to quite an extent. I am happy to resume my role with a suitable care package in place. At times like this, I am grateful for my faith.

From Everyday Faith

“The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases, his mercy never comes to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.
Lamentations 3. 22-23

It’s not unusual for past events to affect us later on and we can often feel bad about things we have said or done. We can be shocked by things other people say and then be equally shocked at our reaction. Each new day brings fresh opportunities of receiving God’s mercy and love afresh.
Today’s reading reminds us that God’s love never ceases – great is His faithfulness indeed.

Cx :-)

Thank you for the Everyday Faith posts Cynthia. I have just re-read them. I envy those who are firm in their faith. Even at my advanced age I am still not 100% sure of what I do or don’t believe. I suppose like many I must just keep plodding on in hope.

I have had the hymn O Brother Man going round my brain all week. It seems particularly appropriate this Holocaust week.

O Brother Man, fold to thy heart thy brother
Where pity dwells the love of God is there
To worship rightly is to love each other
Each smile a hymn, each kindly deed a prayer.

Hoping for calmer days ahead for you and your OH Cynthia <3

Good afternoon :-)

Sorry to be late - things are more than manic at home at the moment.

Today's reading:

“I pray that, according to the riches of his glory, he may grant that you may be strengthened in your inner being with power through his Spirit, and that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith, as you are being rooted and grounded in love.”
Ephesians 3.16–17


From Everyday Faith

Throughout our day things are often changing. Maybe we meet different people; perhaps we move from place to place. Wherever we are, we will be constantly reacting to what is going on, our thoughts and emotions shifting constantly.
If we keep ourselves rooted in our faith we will be able to draw on God’s love and wisdom which we hope will reflect in what we say and how we say it.


Back to the madhouse..... :-D

Cx :-)

Good morning :-)


The worldwide communities of L’Arche were established by Jean Vanier. L’Arche communities involve people with and without learning disabilities living out their lives together and learning from each other, even amid the routine of daily living. Many people have been inspired and changed by the life of these communities which reflect Jean Vanier’s words: “We are not called by God to do extraordinary things, but to do ordinary things with extraordinary love.”

Bringing in the Kingdom of God is about how we live our everyday lives - every moment of our day including all the ordinary and boring things. It's about our hearts and minds as well as our words and actions. and those things we do that are unseen by anyone else as much as it is about our visible behaviour.


“One of them, a lawyer, asked Jesus a question to test him. ‘Teacher, which commandment in the law is the greatest?’ He said to him, ‘ “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.” This is the greatest and first commandment. And a second is like it: “You shall love your neighbour as yourself.”


Cx :-)

Good morning :-)



“There they gave a dinner for Jesus. Martha served, and Lazarus was one of those at the table with him. Mary took a pound of costly perfume made of pure nard, anointed Jesus’ feet, and wiped them with her hair. The house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume.”
John 12.2–3

Each of us has expectations about how people should behave and there are assumptions about what is considered to be acceptable behaviour in everyday life. It can come as a shock when we meet, hear or read about people acting in inappropriate ways and it can be really unsettling.

In the reading, Mary took what was considered to be ‘inappropriate’ action when she anointed the Lord’s feet with costly perfume – there was much criticism of her and the onlookers were unsettled. But Mary’s actions were rooted in her love for Jesus and she was not afraid to challenge people’s assumptions about Christ and his followers.

Cx :-)

Oooops Good afternoon.... :-)

I popped on earlier and answered messages, but then I forgot to come on here...doh....sorry folks.


From Everyday Faith

“I do not occupy myself with things
too great and too marvellous for me.
But I have calmed and quieted my soul,
like a weaned child with its mother;
my soul is like the weaned child that is with me.”
Psalm 131.1–2


I guess most of us would say that, in our everyday lives, we want to do our bit in making the world a better place and that we try to show love in the way we behave towards those around us. However, if we’re honest, those actions and words seen as love by other people are sometimes driven by our brokenness. For example, sometimes we are unhealthily motivated by a need to be needed, or a desire to succeed or to be seen as special.

Our genuine love towards the people and places around us begins with receiving God’s love in a place of complete dependence. God, like a perfect mother, longs to draw us close, to hold us and love us not because of who we are or what we’ve done, but simply because we are His child.

Cx :-)

Thankyou kandj <3

Hello all

I watched the Holocaust Memorial Service on BBC2 earlier and have been in tears ever since.Horrendous

I hope today has been a better one for your OH and also for today Cynthia.

Gentle hugs Rambling... as you think of your Mum today.

Thankyou Vera <3

Remembering all those who died or suffered in the Holocaust and also thinking of ethnic and minority groups who are suffering at the present time.

Sending you a gentle ((((hug)))) Rose as you remember your Mum today, and sending love to Cynthia and her OH <3 <3 <3

Popping in to send love to Cynthia and OH, try and look after yourself also Cynthia xx, and say hello to all here :-) .

Cynthia, yes I loved watching Andy Stewart, New Years Eve hasn't been the same since. :-)

Thinking today about all those who died in The Holocaust,

and also remembering my mum who died 21 years ago today <3

Remembering those who died in concentration camps
and thoughts and prayers for the survivors who live
with the horrors they suffered. :-(

Good morning :-)

.....and the Tiller Girls too David.... :-D nothing like that these days.


Things are getting a bit difficult at home but I will do my best to post on here, bear with me :-D <3

From Everyday Faith

“As he approached the gate of the town, a man who had died was being carried out. He was his mother’s only son, and she was a widow, and with her was a large crowd from the town. When the Lord saw her, he had compassion for her and said to her, ‘Do not weep.’ ”
Luke 7.12–13

Whenever Jesus enters a situation, new possibilities abound. In today’s bible reading, a woman, not only emotionally (and in all probability economically) devastated by the death of her husband, suffers the terrible agony of losing her only son, and so, in effect, provision for her old age. Humanly, the situation is hopeless.
But not for Jesus.

Divine resuscitations are rare but you do occasionally get stories of people who have experienced such a thing.

What is less rare is God bringing hope into all kinds of situations. After all, whenever someone with Christ’s Spirit enters a situation, new possibilities abound. We live in the certainty that in Christ there is life after death. When we have hope, we are called to take that hope out into the world.

Cx :-)

Good morning all :-D <3

Yes, I remember Andy Stewart and that team. I also recall The Black
and White Minstrel Show, whites blacked up, but not the weemen.

Good morning :-)


Burns night! Haven't seen anything on the tv about it......love the bagpipes and a man in a kilt! ;-) Does anyone remember watching New Year in with Andy Stewart? It was a highlight of the holidays :-D


The Collect (special prayer) for today:

Almighty God,
whose Son revealed in signs and miracles
the wonder of your saving presence:
renew your people with your heavenly grace,
and in all our weakness
sustain us by your mighty power;
through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord,
who is alive and reigns with you,
in the unity of the Holy Spirit,
one God, now and for ever. Amen.

In today’s Gospel, Jesus begins his ministry and calls his disciples to follow him…

Some people here are having a hard time knowing what to eat and celebrate or say today ................

it's both Burns night AND Lunar new Year :-D


Gung Hay Fat Choy


Gung Haggis Fat Choy is said by some people :-D