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John the alarm bells sounded for me when you said on another thread that you were trying to "groom" me. A very disturbing comment.

:-D :-D Thanks Wend and Woody's <3

Ooh, Wend, wish there was a like button here! That's the best I've seen yet!

It's just the way you tell 'em John.

Not quite sure why you want me to answer all these questions when I never get answers to any that I ask you.

I have been happily married for 33 years and have 2 grown up children 30 and 27). Both are graduates and in careers. One is married , younger one is courting. We have 5 cats.

I went to India because I love India, it is 31C every day, 10 hours of sun guaranteed every day and it is a friendly place with lovely people and great food.

When I came back first time, I told OH about my "gay friends" and she confirmed what I thought - stay away from them. She was very happy I was friends with JS's assistant.

Second time, my "gay friends" were only there for a week of my 3 and I hardly saw them. Third time they were not there anyway. I will go again, as it is a really lovely place and probably every lovely place has horrors lurking if you stray from the tourist trail.

Have told OH I was flamed tonight. She just says don't worry. I don't anyway. Just puzzling that I never have any inter-personal problems in real life.

Nite all

I agree wholeheartedly Supercrutch

He has stated he has a wife (who works p/t for RCT council) and 2 children....but perhaps he really has a couple of elderly gay lodgers ;-)

Anyway IMO when the brown stuff hits the fan it will be splattering very high up in our social strata and will be stopped once it's gets embarrassing for those public figures in positions of trust.

It will be the hospitals and BBC that will be sacrificed on the altar to public decency and those that are/were allegedly part of JS' inner circle will skip off into the sunset.

I have read the latter part of this thread with both interest and bemusement.

John, sometimes when digging a hole one needs to ensure that it is not oneself that is getting buried! You have both contradicted yourself and effectively admitted to guilt by association. It would be interesting to see you actually answer (truthfully) some of the questions posed to you.

I really do not mean to have a go but, as suggested by a previous poster, at least check what you have typed before actually posting!

Or is he sitting, like me, in a little room in the attic on his own?

Edit - I'm not lonely though - the dulcet tones of 'im indoors are wafting up the stairs from the master bedroom to make me feel loved.

Does he even have a wife or partner? Who knows?

He still hasn't answered the question 'Do you have children?'

(Unless I've missed it :-S )

and you dont see your actions just as bad then John, you were an adult,and admit knew right from wrong,,,,,,,,yet still failed another human from the most viie degrading attack on them by--YOUR FRIENDS.!!! you leave me speechless........

you have never looked into the face of an abused child been involved with one or you would just not even have brought your adventures on here.

disgusted that you admit your actions.......

my last word to you.

Kay??? Thank goodness, back to thread. I am really not attention seeking - I hate it. But I do try to answer questions - perhaps I should have ignored them as they were clearly to start a fight.

Kay, you are right. They do not seem to see they are doing anything wrong. Most of us will have been brought up with a clear idea of what is right and wrong. And what they are doing is paedophilia, which is very wrong. It takes away lives of young children. Abused children feel they cannot talk about it, no one will believe them, and they feel they are to blame partly.

Many on here felt that Savile was a bad 'un years ago, but I never suspected him till all this began to spill out. And it was a huge shock for me. And I think we have many more shocks to come. :-(

good point Chris

I would ask you why John, when you found the behaviour of your 'friends' and those around you repugnant - did you visit Kerala three times?

I bet JS and the rest of societies abusers that erode the lives of innocent feel they acted appropiately ,as they too see nothing wrong, unjust or disgusting by their actions.!

why you did bring that abuse story onto this thread,then admit you let perverts abuse is beyond me..as thats what all your stories imply John.....

Who is this John, not read this thread in great depth, but appears he is an attention seeker with little morals. Do not bother answering would not lower myself in conversation, off to bed night peeps. :-\ :-S :-P

Carol

you didn't act at all - that's our point

I'm getting your dander up!!!!! Don't make me laugh

AnnC You are getting my dander really up.

This is a thread about investigations into allegations about Jimmy Savile. People are coming forward and saying what happened to them. It has encouraged some to talk about their own experiences of a subject that is still very secretive. Even on this thread. The abused often tend to think they are the guilty ones.

My observations in India may be totally irrelevant to this thread. I shared them in complete good faith. I thought at the time I acted appropriately. You may think differently. I may well agree with you now.

talk about digging yourself into a big hole and shooting yourself in both feet :-|