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I THINK I HAVE A STALKER - FOR REAL ON HERE

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Julia

Julia Report 11 Sep 2010 16:46

Thank you Newbs, no I was not aware that anyone could access private information in that way, nor that GR 'made ' it available for others to see.
Thanks
Julia in Derbyshire

Newbs

Newbs Report 11 Sep 2010 16:21

Reading this with interest.
Julia, can I ask if you were aware that further details are sometimes avaliable if people PM you or just click on your name?
If you were not, then I agree that GR need to reply to your complaint regarding personal information

Julia

Julia Report 11 Sep 2010 15:29

I did not react to anything. I did not understand what you was on about then, anymore than I do now. Why you should want to bring this thread back onto the from page again also passes me by.
After all, whatever it is you are trying to say, it has nothing whatsoever to do with what the thread, in it's original state, was syaing.
Julia in Derbyshire

Uggers

Uggers Report 11 Sep 2010 15:24

Well you can't be right all the time, SRS ;))

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~~~Secret Red ^^ Squirrel~~~ **007 1/2** Report 11 Sep 2010 15:14

Didn't want a reaction, just an answer. Why you thought I wanted a reaction is beyond me. I don't want to get into a spat with anyone. Life is too short. I just wanted you to clarify that my posts weren't compatible to the people you listed. However it took a while for you to actually agree that. Just because I disagree with people on here doesn't mean that I don't like people. I hold differing opinions to a lot of people, even Uggers ( well just the once lol)

Julia

Julia Report 11 Sep 2010 12:34

Keith, neither I in particuar, nor anyone else, have suggested otherwise about SRS.
Julia in Derbyshire

keith

keith Report 11 Sep 2010 12:22

Can i just say SRS hasnt got a bad bone in her body and would not do anything to upset anybody

Julia

Julia Report 11 Sep 2010 12:03

Thank you Uggers, but I do not know what that was. If my English language is able to be misconstrued, then I can say, it is not meant to do so.
Julia in Derbyshire

Uggers

Uggers Report 11 Sep 2010 12:00

Julia, I think it's clear that SRS wasn't posting irrelevantly to get a reaction from you, it's just the way you phrased something in relation to her earlier really irked her

Julia

Julia Report 11 Sep 2010 11:54

Yes, at last, SRS, we agree.
I rather think you have detracted from what this thread is all about, and cannot understand why you feel you have to keep posting on the boards, things that are totally unrelated, just to get a reaction from me.
Julia in Derbyshire

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~~~Secret Red ^^ Squirrel~~~ **007 1/2** Report 11 Sep 2010 11:48

Julia, my question wasn't about your views on my views of these people. It was about Amy saying my post was clever and you saying that she would agree with figures. Your post could imply you thought my views were in the same league as Amy was agreeing with my post. I assume that this is not the case?

Julia

Julia Report 11 Sep 2010 11:34

Jennx, perhaps you are correct, in that Stalker was too strong a word to use. But the whole objest of putting up the thread originally, was to tell people that my personal security had been breached and it too could happen to others. That is all, no other ulterior motive, whatsoever. No sensationalism whatsoever.

Perhaps others could read it as this. Say I was a young girl, and someone had been sending PM's, in a jovial, non smutty way, for a year. Then suddenly they post my address in it's entirety, and the name of the other person, who resides at this address, who in this case, happens to be my husband. What would you think. It all begins somewhere. Enough said I think
Julia in Derbyshire

Jenxx

Jenxx Report 11 Sep 2010 11:26

Morning All
I really think the word Stalker is a bit strong here
if the purpose of this thread was to warn people about security
on GR
but it did get our attention so maybe it worked
Jenxx

Julia

Julia Report 11 Sep 2010 11:17

SRS, I have answered your question. I did not know what your views were on those people, so I cannot say whether I liked those views or not.
Julia in Derbyshire

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~~~Secret Red ^^ Squirrel~~~ **007 1/2** Report 11 Sep 2010 11:10

you still haven't answered the question?

Julia

Julia Report 11 Sep 2010 11:07

SRS, I did not know you had views on these people. They were people that I picked randomly out of the top of my head.
Julia in Derbyshire

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~~~Secret Red ^^ Squirrel~~~ **007 1/2** Report 11 Sep 2010 11:03

Julia :) my question wasn't about you telling Amy not to post on your thread but confirming that you weren't likening my views to the people you quoted when speaking to Amy.

Julia

Julia Report 11 Sep 2010 10:59

SRS, lets put this to bed, because I have other thing to do, but that is not to say, that this is not important also.
He has never made any sexual innuendo, or nasty, or violently threatening, remarks, in any of his PM's. To reiterate, he was normal.
Yes, after a year of being NORMAL, he showed me he could, and did access private information.Yes, I did tell Amy to get off the thread, as in my opinion, she only comes on other people's thread to make very offensive remarks, and make mishief. She never puts up a thread of her own.
FOOTIE, yes I agree, it is non of the people that I mentioned, nor the others that you have mentioned. Enough said
Julia in Derbyshire

FootieAngel

FootieAngel Report 11 Sep 2010 10:49

Then Stray that is enough for me NOT to be concerned and for all the men are being speculated about also.

Amy

Amy Report 11 Sep 2010 10:45

LOL oh Boy footie , you are sooooooo desperate to know lol