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My hysterectomy was 25 years ago, and it was quite quick then. When a couple of weeks had passed I began to feel the benefit, more energy etc. No more monthlies either. The operation heals quickly and though you might find it a little painful to stand tall for a few days it son passes. It isnt advisable to do a lot of lifting for about three months after the op. Hope that helps.

A freind of mine is due to have a hysterectomy, apparently its a lot quicker safer and you recover quickly, if you have had one and dont mind telling me or pming me id be really greatful.

Thanks elaine, hows things with you xxx

hello all, lots of love xxxxx <3

Look after yourself love I will be rooting for you, it's time to give yourself some caring you've done it for everyone else. Elaine. <3

Good morning, thinking of you all, im on a cancellation list to have my girlie bits sorted and other things hopefully repaired and removed, im feeling very positive and energised this morning and had a nice email from genes. :-D

Didnt have such good news, need to speak to don, probably take some time out for a few days, take care all of you , and look after yourselfs, will let you know more after operations xxxx

Elaine, I bet that feels a bit better now you have told the doctor. I can see your point about not moving out, but are you risking your life? Lets hope you get results soon.

Thanks suzzane xx

oh well hope he has a magic cure, ive had a shower and chaged my vest and socks lol oh gawd im so nervous xxxx

for all of you who are suffering with your illnesses,
good luck and god bless. :-) <3 <3

forgot to mention, please keep in touch, im seeing the oncoolgist at 11, but prob have a ban, i want to keep in touch with people on this thread on, you will find me on facebook and can do private chat, ive done what i needed to do , donna isnt going to have time and feels there are better sights.

so good luck to you all thankyou for your love and care, and elaine keep in touch and you can give give number just text first. and tell me who wants it xxx

just had a text of a friend she has been away to her dads he has to have his leg off and has liver cance, godbless chelle and really hope your dad will be ok, will everyone get this it takes anyone x

lots of love xxxxxlorraine. <3

IM SO PLEASED ELAINE SORRY BOUT CAPS,

WELL NOW YOUVE MADE A START YOU SHOULD BE REALLY PROUD, LIFE IS SO SHORT WELL DONE

WELL WISH ME LUCK TOMORROW IM DREADING THE WORST EITHER WAY ITS A OP SO MAY NOT BE AROUND FOR A WHILE XXX BUT KEEP ADDING I WILL GET JOHN TO LOOK IN XXXX

Thanks Puss, got it. However, it is dificult to talk on the phone as he listens to all my conversations and yells abuse or argues with what I'm saying.
I have been to the doctors and was pleasantly suprised, He spent over an hour with me, consulted with a colleague and contacted the social services.He also advised me to move out but that will give my oh free reign to do what he wants to my home. I wrote down the gist of what happens to me on a daily basis and he spent ages reading it he also kept it and advised me to send one to my husbands doctor, will keep you posted on what happens next. Elaine. :-)

elaine that is brilliant, your on the rite road, your really brave and you have us all behind you ok, you get one life and its short for many off us, im sending my phone number you ring anytime, im in hosp[ital all day wed but hopefully will be home, having few more biopseys its just im a bleeder so may have to stay in over night xxxxx

I have made an appointment to see my doctor tomorrow and have decided to list all the things that my husband does to cause me upset. Violence, threatening verbal abuse each day all day and send it in a letter to his doctor. We'll see what the outcome is. Elaine. :-S

Elaine i agree with jean, no one no matter how much they lie hit you or abuse you verbally has the right to do this too you, 17 years ago, i put up with this kind of poop i wasnt as ill as i am now , please elaine you have a a right to feel safe and be safe please get help, and we are hear for you, i would meet you and help anyway i could .xxx :-D

Elaine, as if you needed telling that he was ill, but al the excuses in the world do not mean that you have to put up with it 24/7. My mother was like that and no one else has ever dared with me, even when I was in the army. I have a good left anf right and am not afraid to use them in a good cause. I am lucky, I have that sort of personality, not given to everyone. I am a lady until I am roused. Pity I dont live near you. Do as you have been advised on here and get out while the going is good, why should you give your life to someone like this. Medicines can be changed anyway, why didnt the doctor do something about it? Sorry, I am on my high horse at the moment.

my uncle colin is very ill they have now stopped chemo, but they are giving him steriods, hope your time left is as nice as it can be, this bloo&y illness, send millions on sending men to the moon, i could go on but its futile like our goverment.

WELL WEDNES APPROACHING AND IM PETRIFIED BUT IVE PLENTY OF THINGS TO KEEP ME BUSY TILL WED HOPE YOUR ALL OK XX

really glad elaine, please look after yourelf, your unwell your a full time carer and your being abused basically, there is no dressing it up, your only human, if you want my email or mobile to text or ring you are most welcome or anyone on here xxxxx

I saw my friend the pharmacist as I was leaving this morning. He said not the tablets but possibly the injections he has 3 monthly. I think he is a depressive and I can understand him being depressed but he turns on me. I am going to make an appointment to see my own doctor nex week. Thanks Puss :-D

Under no circumstances do you let him get away with it, it seems he has done the damage already and worn you write down, one of my tablets makes me feel naggy but ive learnt to keep my mouth shut and not take it out on others especially my hubby, i think you should call the domestic violence help line, they never ring you back so there is no way he would find out also the number does not show up on the phone bill.

My friend who is now getting married to a wonderfull man, lived with a violent and abusive man, she had a young child, they collected her and her belongings and child and put them in a safe house sorted her money out etc, it was the best thing she ever did.

If you want me to find any numbers for you i can do, your local docter nurse would also refer you, you dont have to do this alone especially when your ill yourself, i lived with a abusive partner for 3 years, he wore me down so much and said no one would ever want me as i had 3 kids one of them his, im now with the most loving caring man ever , let me know even by pm if you want if i can help, there is lots of support out there .

Im off the laptop for a few hours now but will speak later xxxx